As per the title, my son is now 4 weeks old and we still can’t agree on a name for him, it’s getting ridiculous now honestly. Anyone had this issue so long after the birth?!
Dad is stuck on Cyrus and I’m in love with Caspar. I dislike Cyrus and he dislikes Caspar (well, thinks he’d be bullied for it given the outdated ghost association). It would be best to rule them out entirely, but we both keep going back to them.
What do we do? We’ve searched through thousands and thousands of names, as in, there’s literally no name (to an extent) that we haven’t come across… There are very few names we both like: Perseus nn Percy, but the name is just too much. He suggested Finn recently, which I do kind of like, but seems quite bland, especially next to big sister Athena - though I don’t like any of the longer versions of Finn, neither does he. We both quite like Oscar, but it’s incredibly popular in the UK and I don’t want him to grow up being 1 of 5 Oscars in his class, and I just don’t love it. I love my daughter’s name, I did from the get go, and that’s what I want from my son’s name, Caspar is that, but it’s not going to happen.
Tossing a coin or putting them in a hat or something like that isn’t going to work, it’ll just lead to name regret, resentment etc.
Names I like: Leonardo, August, Evander, Orlando, Aurelius
Names OH likes: Vincent, Carter, Gavin, Lucius, Atreus
Middle name will most likely be Cornelius, unless it doesn’t end up flowing right with whatever his first name ends up being.
Help?! I’m at my wits’ end.