All ages are as of November 12, 2023. Not everyone will live in New Jersey, but most will. (Fun fact: New Jersey has one of the highest rates of students who decide to go out-of-state for college in the country, so I tried to reflect that!)
LN: Popham, Leeds, Bratelli
DH (93): Robin, Aloysius, August, Delton, Miles / Clement, Domenick, Oran, Arvil, Anthony [April 18, 1930]
DW (93): Ada, Marcella, Carmen, Nora, Eloise / Imogene, Elizabeth, Susan, Nina, Teresa / MN: Williams, Van Kirk, Pinero [April 14, 1930]
Live in Haledon, NJ, Branchville, NJ, or North Wildwood, NJ
DD1 (71): Cecilia, Marion, Natalie, Vera, Christine / Paternal grandmothers FN: Mae, Blanche, Shirley, Marguerite, Geraldine [December 25, 1951]
DS1 (70): Terence, Samuel, Cary, Sean, Francis / Fathers FN [May 18, 1953]
DD2 (65): Claire, Lucinda, Lynette, Cassandra, Ronda / Mothers FN [June 9, 1958]
DS2 (63): Edgar, Morris, Rudy, Roderick, Geoffrey / Fathers MN [September 14, 1960]
DD3 (57, twin): Bernadette, Tracey, Anna, Eleanor, Jodi / Faye, Sabrina, Sheree, Patrice, Iris [March 4, 1966]
DD4 (57, twin): Kimberley, Faith, Wilma, Rosemarie, Patricia / Francine, Nadine, Louise, Ethel, Florence [March 4, 1966]
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DD1 (71): [December 25, 1951]
DH (deceased): Clinton, Earnest, Gregory, Elmer, Darryl / Marion, Everett, Lyle, Harris, Rudolph / LN: Ammerman, Helfrich, Bunce [August 27, 1949] - father of daughters
DFiancee (70): Matilda, Elida, Erlinda, Goldie, Joette / Letitia, Petra, Hilary, Kathleen, Annetta / LN: Adkinson, Tippett, Stabler [August 23, 1953] - mother of stepdaughters
Live in Perth Amboy, NJ, Shamong, NJ, or Stafford, NJ
StepDD1 (51): Stella, Bobbi, Shavonne, Marianne, Sunshine / Tabatha, Arlene, Elena, Sophia, Dianne / LN is same as mothers [August 31, 1972]
-ExDH (52): Roland, Scott, Lester, Spencer, Timothy / Kenneth, Garrett, Felix, Neal, Alfred / LN: Jennette, Housman, Moran [June 30, 1971]
–DS1 (19): Fathers name, Jr. [October 19, 2004] [if family lives in Upper Freehold, goes to Brookdale Community College, if family lives in West Windsor, goes to Mercer County Community College, if family lives in Woodstown, goes to Salem Community College]
–DD1 (15): Kailee, Juliette, Emilie, Jaelynn, Parker / Maternal grandmothers FN [November 22, 2007]
Live in Upper Freehold, NJ, West Windsor, NJ, or Woodstown, NJ
StepDD2 (45): Terra, Grace, Renata, Alesha, Jaimie / Annmarie, Louise, Shonda, Taylor, Celina / LN: Norsworthy, O’Hearn, Lindsley [June 8, 1978]
-DH (44): Kenji, Paulo, Donell, Garett, Greggory / Irving, Ivory, Justen, Keegan, Shon / LN: Calfee, Tester, Record [October 23, 1979]
–StepDS1 (20): Alexzander, Brodie, Emmett, Gideon, Garrison / Keyshawn, Sidney, Cullen, Gannon, Rhett [January 7, 2003] [Goes to school in West Long Branch, NJ (Monmouth University), Newark, NJ (New Jersey Institute of Technology), or Galloway, NJ (Stockton University)]
–StepDD1 (19): Emmalee, Dayna, Hana, Corinne, Lyric / Eileen, Edith, Carlee, Hazel, Stephanie [July 12, 2004] [Lives in same town as father]
–DD1 (14): Summer, Makenzie, Catherine, Angelina, Alivia / Mikayla, Aniyah, Miranda, Amber, Skylar [June 17, 2009]
Live in Upper Township, NJ, Riverdale, NJ, or North Plainfield, NJ
StepDD3 (40): Jeri, June, Maura, Madeline, Abbey / Brandee, Georgina, Lorie, Leanne, Kandice / LN same as StepDD2 (45) [November 25, 1982]
–DS1 (1): Isaac, Liam, Clyde, Wilson, Thomas / Dexter, Keith, Houston, Harry, Lee [February 22, 2022]
Live in same town as StepDD3 (40)'s mother
DD1 (39): Kylie, Jacklyn, Beverly, Genevieve, Larissa / Maternal grandmothers FN [August 4, 1984]
-DH (40): Alden, Kenneth, Marcus, Lindsay, Nicolas / Norbert, Samson, Tye, Justin, Cooper / LN: Krull, Halterman, Fryar [November 21, 1982]
–DD1 (13, twin): Mara, Jaylin, Abbigail, Aryana, Kaya / Mothers MN [November 6, 2010]
–DD2 (13, twin): Noemi, Rayna, Lillianna, Olyvia, Mina / Paternal great-grandmothers FN: Julia, Viola, Pearl, Myrtle, Violet [November 6, 2010]
–DD3 (7): Kayden, Kora, Briley, Celia, Jolie / Monroe, Myra, Nola, Adrienne, Jaide [July 11, 2016]
Live in Morristown, NJ, Middlesex, NJ, or Lumberton, NJ
DD2 (35): Ciera, Jayme, Vivian, Brenna, Angela / Paternal grandmothers FN: Susan, Delores, Sallie, Eleanore, Yvonne [August 17, 1988]
-DH (32): Derrek, Quinten, Dennis, Marlin, Nathen / Cornell, Dayton, Derrell, Jaymes, Mack / LN: Castellon, Becton, Wardlow [March 9, 1991]
–DS1 (6): Kaiser, Westin, Aydin, Khalid, London / Kody, Ulises, Gordon, Terrance, Trent [January 18, 2017]
–DS2 (2): Bryant, Ledger, Bellamy, Rocky, Legacy / Bentlee, Canaan, Gunnar, Kian, Tristan [September 13, 2021]
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DS1 (70): [May 18, 1953]
DW (67): Kay, Melody, Lynne, Janis, Penny / Irene, Jeanette, Deborah, Holly, Gayle / MN: Coddington, Meltzer, Fiorentino [February 7, 1956]
Live in same town as DS1 (70)'s parents
DAD1 (28): Emma, Erica, Jacqueline, Alexandria, Shannon / Shufen, Luoyang, Jingyi, Liuxian, Guanyu [January 19, 1995]
Lives in same town as parents
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DD2 (65): [June 9, 1958]
DH (66): Kurtis, Weldon, Donald, Jonathan, Jefferson / Ward, Jasper, Gerard, Jean, Sanford / LN: Whitby, Reames, McCarroll [September 27, 1957]
Live in same town as DD2 (65)'s parents
DS1 (43): Fathers name, Jr. [October 4, 1980]
-DFiancee (35): Blair, Marilyn, Kyla, Sally, Michelle / Danielle, Brenna, Carolina, Leanne, Lorena / LN: Kinch, Fairman, Epps [October 26, 1988]
–StepDD1 (7): Emmeline, Mavis, Kaylee, Tinley, Averie / Amiah, Frida, Kaylin, Madalynn, Briar / LN: Canale, Springfield, Paul [August 31, 2016]
–DS1 (1): Colton, Roman, Axel, Brooks, Jameson / Fathers FN [November 15, 2021]
Live in Lindenwold, NJ, Kenilworth, NJ, or Hillsborough, NJ
DS2 (40): George, Allen, Marc, Kristopher, Henry / Richard, Caleb, Daniel, Lee, Lawrence [February 23, 1983]
-DW (39): Devin, Georgia, Tami, Kristyn, Corey / Silvia, Lauren, Mercedes, Victoria, Wanda / MN: Kanter, Gorden, Covey [June 2, 1984]
–DD1 (7): Mollie, Everlee, Spencer, Fallon, Kiley / Campbell, Ireland, Waverly, Emerald, Viola [March 8, 2016]
Live in Dobbs Ferry, NY, Lindenhurst, NY, or Mineola, NY
DS3 (37): Andrew, John, Lance, Chase, Garrett / Martin, Randall, Ross, Mathew, James [May 25, 1986]
-DW (35): Rochelle, Cecilia, Jane, Anne, Stacie / Leesa, Elisabeth, Leigh, Jodi, Charlene / MN: Barwick, Nordin, Gillis [September 11, 1988]
–DS1 (8): Turner, Forest, Brent, Lincoln, Slade / Fathers FN [March 11, 2015]
–DS2 (7): Watson, Brayden, Carsen, Stone, Declan / Mothers maiden name [July 30, 2016]
–DD1 (4): Aubri, Winnie, Madyson, Addalyn, Beatrix / Mothers MN [August 13, 2019]
–DD2 (infant): Margo, Macey, Presley, Maylee, Ellery / Maternal great-grandmothers FN: Rosalie, Harriet, Rachel, Gwendolyn, Caroline [April 14, 2023]
Live in East Bradford, PA, Catasauqua, PA, or Lower Makefield, PA
DD1 (35): Heidi, Morgan, Meagan, Sabrina, Alyssa / Mothers MN [September 2, 1988]
-DH (35): Ronald, Dereck, Maxwell, Galen, Hans / Joseph, Duncan, Grady, Cale, Ellis / LN: Brewer, Tanksley, Lazzaro [December 14, 1987]
–DD1 (10): Haven, Lia, Rowan, Ashlyn, Myla / Christina, Erin, Alison, Cadence, Kendra [October 23, 2013]
–DS1 (6): Dalton, Jett, Reed, Ronan, Colt / Erik, Walker, Jared, Landen, Jay [February 27, 2017]
Live in Voorhees, NJ, Ridgewood, NJ, or Montgomery, NJ
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DS2 (63): [September 14, 1960]
DW (55): Angeline, Rhoda, Carri, Kimberlie, Suzanna / Cristine, Renea, Violet, Starla, Hannah / MN: Albee, Innis, Berardi [March 17, 1968]
Live in Montclair, NJ, Manasquan, NJ, or Lafayette Township, NJ
StepDS1 (32): Jordan, Wade, Conor, Brennan, Trey / Weston, Ray, Alvin, Beau, Jarrod / LN is mothers maiden name [July 12, 1991]
-DW (30): Devan, Maura, Alycia, Angela, Michelle / Constance, Reyna, Jana, Kacey, Antonia / MN: Fraire, Stalvey, Gowdy [September 12, 1993]
–StepDS1 (11): Aidyn, Fletcher, Kaeden, Tristin, Amos / Fathers FN: Jerome, Thomas, Steven, Damien, Brock / LN: Wagner, Farnum, Trafton [May 28, 2012]
–DD1 (4): Adelyn, Sawyer, Ellie, Fiona, Lena / Paternal grandmothers FN [August 12, 2019]
Live in same town as StepDS1 (32)'s mother
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DD3 (57, twin): [March 4, 1966]
ExDH (57): Eric, Stephen, Donald, Gary, Todd / Edward, Patrick, Keith, Douglas, Matthew / LN: Price, Kerber, Rowley [June 30, 1966] - father of children
DFiance (56): Nicholas, Duane, Derek, Andre, Harry / Kyle, Jerome, Theodore, Brad, Frederick / LN: Burman, Ziegler, Stout [June 2, 1967] - father of stepchildren
Live in Hardyston Township, NJ, Haledon, NJ, or Berkeley Township, NJ
DD1 (32): Chelsy, Madalyn, Kacy, Linsey, Eryn / Mothers MN [July 5, 1991]
Lives in Aiken, SC, Conway, SC, or Spartanburg, SC
StepDD1 (31): Shana, Antoinette, Kylie, Elle, Abbie / Janice, Rochelle, Jocelyne, Jacklyn, Rhiannon [August 14, 1992]
-DFiance (35): Kirk, Tristan, Harold, Kelvin, Demetrius / Dillon, Connor, Jermaine, Wade, Quentin / LN: La Torre, Emberton, Borus [January 6, 1988]
–StepDD1 (7): Tyler, Kaleah, Darcy, Salem, Carson / Freyja, Marlie, Jazmyn, Mayra, Annabeth [February 3, 2016]
–DS1 (2): Merrick, Draco, Lennox, Cormac, Jett / Seamus, Brent, Loki, Payton, Jakoby [March 7, 2021]
–DD1 (1): Bennett, Laynie, Holland, Calla, Wesley / Mileena, Oriana, Anneliese, Geraldine, Skylynn [July 27, 2022]
Live in Camarillo, CA, Irvine, CA, or San Clemente, CA
StepDD2 (28): Katlin, Demi, Karlee, Natalia, Mara / Ryan, Myranda, Skye, Sarah, Suzanne [April 29, 1995]
-DFiancee (32): Larissa, Yvonne, Tiana, Kyla, Dakota / Juliana, Iris, Kristine, Blanche, Roxanne / LN: Senecal, Durso, Wallen [October 21, 1991]
Live in Hoboken, NJ, Trenton, NJ, or Salem, NJ
DS1 (27): Fathers name, Jr. [September 15, 1996]
-ExGf (26): Emily, Hannah, Madison, Jessica, Sarah / Alexis, Samantha, Ashley, Elizabeth, Taylor / LN: Rice, Parrett, Weidman [December 5, 1996]
–DD1 (2): Cora, Ariana, Lydia, Eva, Emery / Jade, Heaven, Adeline, Piper, Rae [June 13, 2021]
Lives in Glassboro, NJ, Paramus, NJ, or Lambertville, NJ
DS2 (23): Ian, Branson, Sebastian, Rhys, Ethan / Broderick, Cain, Ervin, Harvey, Augustine [January 25, 2000]
Lives in same town as mother
StepDS1 (22): Francis, Darrin, Kade, Colton, Conrad / Norman, River, Courtney, Tracy, Lamont [February 21, 2001]
-DBf (21): Guy, Maximillian, Stephan, Clement, Denis / Charles, Augustin, Emmanuel, Marcel, Armand / LN: Laurent, Pelley, Borde [December 28, 2001]
Goes to school in Princeton, NJ (Princeton University), Mahwah, NJ (Ramapo College), or Hoboken, NJ (Stevens Institute of Technology)
DS3 (21): Bradley, Nevin, Caelan, Gannon, Dayne / Robin, Eugene, Killian, Zayne, Deacon [January 23, 2002]
-DGf (21): Sophia, Jennifer, Morgan, Hailey, Julia / Kaitlyn, Destiny, Katherine, Nicole, Alexandria / LN: Coss, Womack, Simms [April 17, 2002]
Go to school in Winter Park, FL (Rollins College), Orlando, FL (University of Central Florida), or DeLand, FL (Stetson University)
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DD4 (57, twin): [March 4, 1966]
DH (deceased): Myron, Bart, Rod, Mickey, Joshua / Julian, Stewart, Erick, Lyle, Preston / LN: Seymour, Lam, Schwartz [July 6, 1965]
Lives in same town as parents
DS1 (24): Kieran, Gunnar, Terrance, Toby, Garrett / Fathers MN [July 17, 1999]
Lives in Englewood, NJ, Paterson, NJ, or Maple Shade, NJ
DD1 (19): Lexie, Aspen, Hunter, Carlie, Gwendolyn / Mothers MN [January 8, 2004]
Goes to school in Pittsburgh, PA (University of Pittsburgh), Philadelphia, PA (Thomas Jefferson University), or Immaculata, PA (Immaculata University)
DD2 (18): Hailie, Justine, Allyson, Brynn, Juliette / Claire, Annette, Helen, Paula, Regina [July 10, 2005]
Goes to school in Elizabethtown, PA (Elizabethtown College), Scranton, PA (Marywood University), or Radnor, PA (Villanova University)