All ages are as of November 23, 2023. Not everyone will live in New York, but most will.
LN: Fludd, Printz, McEachern
DH (88): Paul, Francis, Raymond, Gerald, John / Harold, William, Joseph, Robert, Lawrence [May 3, 1935]
DW (86): Carole, Thelma, Lorraine, Josephine, Wilma / Lillian, Florence, Yvonne, Pauline, Darlene / MN: Lambert, Kerlin, Helsley [August 27, 1937]
Live in Ira, NY, Big Flats, NY, or Ellisburg, NY
DD1 (62, twin): Penelope, Danna, Lorene, Clarissa, Charmaine / Mothers FN [July 11, 1961]
DD2 (62, twin): Tonya, Gerri, Janna, Jocelyn, Maryanne / Mothers MN [July 11, 1961]
DS1 (59): Burton, Charles, Elijah, Norris, Grover / Fathers FN [December 5, 1963]
DD3 (58): Silvia, Sallie, Margaret, Edwina, Aimee / Paternal grandmothers FN: Mamie, Stella, Leona, Cora, Vera [May 3, 1965]
DS2 (54): Duncan, Richard, Kenton, Kristopher, Harley / Fathers MN [December 31, 1968]
DD4 (50): Kerrie, Antonia, Aileen, Grace, Rosalind / Maternal grandmothers FN: Lucinda, Mathilda, Alvina, Claudia, Wilhelmina [June 11, 1973]
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DD1 (62, twin): [July 11, 1961]
DH (deceased): Randell, Sandy, Linwood, Blair, Edward / Robin, Lanny, Rocco, Dane, Frederick / LN: Padilla, Draves, Cilley [May 2, 1955] - father of child
DFiance (67): Nicholas, Noel, Christopher, Clause, Linus / Anselm, Benedict, Eugene, Mark, Peter / LN: O’Hearn, Trumbauer, Swartwood [December 24, 1955] - father of stepchildren
Live in Mount Morris, NY, Geddes, NY, or Yonkers, NY
StepDD1 (42): Bernice, Shanon, Violet, Rhea, Greta / Roseann, Rae, Damaris, Starla, Joleen [June 12, 1981]
-DFiance (45): Trevor, Edwin, Ernest, Ruben, Jerome / Eugene, Dale, Oscar, Kelly, Omar / LN: Newcombe, Morillo, Lalli [April 22, 1978]
–DS1 (7): Crosby, Lucian, Finnley, Rex, Tristen / Layton, Tatum, Boston, Thaddeus, Sylas [August 9, 2016]
Live in same town as StepDD1 (42)'s father
StepDS1 (37): Simeon, Deron, Forest, Roscoe, Boyd / Ramone, Dustan, Harlan, Domenic, Lenard [September 3, 1986]
-ExGf (deceased): Ami, Liana, Misti, Mallorie, Cherelle / Jeanine, Kandice, Micah, Marcelle, Colette / LN: Insley, Hadsell, Giesen [October 22, 1986]
–DD1 (15): Ivy, Savanna, Lucia, Kamryn, Emely / Daniella, Joselyn, Kailey, Cynthia, Rihanna [October 9, 2008]
Live in University Heights, Bronx, NY, Windsor Terrace, Brooklyn, NY, or Hamilton Heights, Manhattan, NY
DD1 (32): Rhiannon, Alesha, Kylie, Judi, Kassandra / DD2 (62, twin)'s FN [May 18, 1991]
-DW (31): Ashlie, Kathleen, Kenya, Alexandria, Shanna / Alisa, Janice, Beth, Norma, Christine / LN: Slocum, Severino, Rickels [September 19, 1992]
–DS1 (2): Maxton, Merrick, Blaise, Decker, Beck / Hollis, Dayton, Ash, Pierre, Oliver [June 25, 2021]
Live in Elmhurst, Queens, NY, Richmond Valley, Staten Island, NY, or Lenox Hill, Manhattan, NY
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DD2 (62, twin): [July 11, 1961]
ExDH (61): Donny, Mack, Jesse, Royce, Marlon / Sterling, Wilson, Randell, Sergio, Ian / LN: Denmark, Corvin, Carrozza [May 30, 1962]
Lives in Richmond, NY, Wallkill, NY, or Wayland, NY
DS1 (36): Torey, Quinten, Jarret, Sunny, Dallin / Garland, Denis, Kendell, Elton, Blaise [December 8, 1986]
-DFiancee (30): Mikaela, Maranda, Jacklyn, Cayla, Keri / Genevieve, Tonya, Araceli, Gianna, Lucinda / LN: Behler, Stackpole, Rempe [September 21, 1993]
Live in Esopus, NY, Macedon, NY, or Rye, NY
DD1 (32): Corinna, Kaycee, Marci, Allegra, Kirby / Dianne, Gail, Shavon, Francisca, Kenisha [July 16, 1991]
-DFiance (34): Walter, Max, Ruben, Lee, Arthur / Ivan, Nicolas, Jon, Darius, Joseph / LN: Paschke, Motsinger, Mascorro [August 9, 1989]
–DD1 (3): Clementine, Ivory, Salem, Julieta, Ellis / Maternal grandmothers FN [March 7, 2020]
Live in Barrington, RI, Hopkinton, RI, or Providence, RI
DD2 (28): Cathleen, Lindy, Tisha, Codi, Adilene / Marta, Jelisa, Ursula, Jenae, Brianne [August 18, 1995]
-DH (29): Eli, Isaac, Levi, Jonathan, Joshua / Nathaniel, Ira, Ezra, Yaron, Benjamin / LN: Liberman, Stern, Rubenstien [March 18, 1994]
–DD1 (3): Mabel, Mara, Delilah, Selah, Shiloh / Emilia, Hannah, Ruth, Alison, Astrid [November 13, 2020]
Live in Pelham, NY, Fallsburg, NY, or Seneca Falls, NY
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DS1 (59): [December 5, 1963]
DW (58): Tricia, Shawna, Jeannie, Darcy, Deirdre / Deana, Vera, Amber, Claire, Nanette / MN: Kovar, Hedstrom, Foerster [February 20, 1965]
Live in East Rutherford, NJ, Verona, NJ, or West Milford, NJ
DD1 (33): Mallory, Abigail, Meagan, Kirsten, Teresa / Anne, Allyson, Amelia, Lisa, Nina [January 3, 1990]
-DH (36): Michael, Brice, Jeffrey, Wayne, Robin / Everett, Clark, Lamont, James, Tobias / LN: Danek, Breiner, Bellanger [May 23, 1987]
–DD1 (6): Ariya, Charlotte, Maia, Adeline, Alanna / Mothers MN [May 12, 2017]
–DS1 (infant): Fathers name, Jr. [November 12, 2023]
Live in Battery Park City, Manhattan, NY, Bay Ridge, Brooklyn, NY, or Rego Park, Queens, NY
DD2 (29): Jasmin, April, Marisa, Ashlee, Deanna / Bridget, Katelynn, Monique, Celeste, Tatiana [December 12, 1993]
-DFiancee (29): Lora, Marian, Sheena, Eryn, Tamera / Kaylan, Breeanna, Juliette, Sydnie, Miracle / LN: Albers, Walt, Torres [April 20, 1994]
Live in Dover, NJ, Fairfield, NJ, or Little Ferry, NJ
DS1 (26): Chandler, Caleb, Derrick, Sebastian, Conner / Fathers MN [March 25, 1997]
-DFiancee (26): Dominique, Bianca, Daisy, Sophia, Carly / Jocelyn, Rachael, Makayla, Holly, Brenda / LN: Gervais, Rustin, Pasternak [November 30, 1996]
–StepDS1 (5, twin): Cairo, Dustin, Ryland, Tatum, Duke / Fathers FN: Zackary, Michael, Russell, Lawrence, Isaiah [September 7, 2018]
–StepDS2 (5, twin): Parker, Julian, Wilder, Tyler, Emmitt / Fathers MN: Rodney, Jamal, Kody, Arthur, Jonah [September 7, 2018]
–DD1 (infant): Laynie, Alessia, Avalon, Bentlee, Juno / Noelle, Evangeline, Wesley, Sedona, Reece [October 14, 2023]
Live in Maplewood, NJ, Brick Township, NJ, or Bogota, NJ
DD3 (24): Aubrey, Kennedy, Carla, Victoria, Lily / Mercedes, Alissa, Serena, Krystal, Tabitha [April 11, 1999]
-DBf (25): Killian, Brandt, Cayden, Rhys, Chadwick / Lyle, Maxim, Claude, Jackson, Rodrick / LN: Natale, Meyers, Mannon [November 2, 1998]
Live in Cherry Hill, NJ, East Orange, NJ, or Howell, NJ
DD4 (20): Alexis, Madelyn, Ciera, Katrina, Janessa / Brooke, Sofia, Isabelle, Priscilla, Kyra [August 21, 2003]
Lives in same town as parents
DS2 (18): Chance, Calvin, Gage, Landon, Carter / Jordan, Curtis, Dennis, Mathew, Andrew [April 22, 2005]
-DBf (18): Julius, Declan, Camron, Holden, Braylon / Douglas, Bryant, Dallas, Orlando, Ramon / LN: Lenahan, Mattel, Hambly [July 8, 2005]
Go to school in Manhattan, NY (Pace University), Syracuse, NY (Syracuse University), or Ithaca, NY (Ithaca College)
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DD3 (58): [May 3, 1965]
DH (59): Darrel, Morris, Xavier, Dominic, Felix / Bart, Clay, Myron, Shaun, Scott / LN: Garney, Flaville, Cotton [September 27, 1964]
Live in Carmel, NY, Schroeppel, NY, or Van Buren, NY
DAS1 (21): Steven, Cole, Timothy, Cody, Seth / Carlos, Jesus, Adrian, Lucas, Julio [May 22, 2002]
-DGf (20): Tanya, Frances, Zoie, Melina, Jaida / Kay, Bailee, Barbara, Lola, Mariel / LN: Hullings, Kindel, Marro [September 6, 2003]
Go to school in Morrisville, NY (SUNY Morrisville), Oswego, NY (SUNY Oswego), or Alfred, NY (Alfred State College)
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DS2 (54): [December 31, 1968]
DH (56): Richard, William, Curtis, Dean, Stephen / Martin, Walter, Philip, Robert, Jay / LN: Sandin, Tauber, Vizzini [November 7, 1967]
Live in Lockport, NY, Irondequoit, NY, or Claverack, NY
DAS1 (10): Gannon, Rory, Brock, Chandler, Colby / Warren, Albert, Hugo, Adriel, Ryan / Amaker, Beerman, Bormann, Dooley, Gerrish [August 19, 2013]
DAD1 (8): Rowan, Kennedi, Amira, Aleah, Emersyn / Gwendolyn, Justice, Zara, Anaya, Amber / same 2nd middle name as DAS1 (10) [January 16, 2015]
DAS2 (7): Daxton, Landyn, Warren, Kayson, Jameson / Malcolm, Elias, Kellen, Maximillian, Davis / same 2nd middle name as DAS1 (10) [April 6, 2016]
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DD4 (50): [June 11, 1973]
ExDH (54): Courtney, Rufus, Thaddeus, Wilbur, Percy / Frederick, Aubrey, Wilfred, Ashley, Homer / LN: Lembo, McCrady, Shields [April 21, 1969] - father of children
DFiance (49): Reed, Wyatt, Brenton, Brad, Winston / Darwin, Kevin, Roger, Rufus, Shelton / LN: Wittmer, Creger, Knapp [November 18, 1974] - father of stepchildren
Live in same town as DD4 (50)'s parents
DS1 (25): Logan, Nathan, Kevin, Thomas, Hunter / Cameron, Caleb, Gabriel, Kyle, Jason [April 17, 1998]
Lives in Hempstead, NY, Islip, NY, or Rochester, NY
StepDS1 (24): Fathers name, Jr. [September 23, 1999]
Goes to school in Manhattan, NY (SUNY State College of Optometry), Ithaca, NY (New York State College of Veterinary Medicine), or Albany, NY (Albany College of Pharmacy and Health Sciences)
DD1 (21): Morgan, Chloe, Kaitlyn, Natalie, Haley / Katherine, Nicole, Amanda, Maria, Stephanie [December 24, 2001]
-DBf (19): Alexander, Clifton, Guy, Ray, Sebastian / Vernon, Latrell, Mathias, Ervin, Sullivan / LN: Nees, Pietsch, Sheeley [December 1, 2003]
Go to school in Purchase, NY (Manhattanville College), East Farmingdale, NY (SUNY Farmingdale), or Garden City, NY (Adelphi University)
StepDS2 (20): Chad, Marc, Jonas, Jadon, Christian / Maurice, Carl, Marshall, Roger, David [September 17, 2003]
Goes to school in Sparkill, NY (St. Thomas Aquinas College), Henrietta, NY (Rochester Institute of Technology), or Upper East Side, Manhattan, NY (Hunter College)
StepDS3 (18): Tate, Dean, Braydon, Sean, Isaac / Lionel, Jon, Kelvin, Deandre, Justin [March 5, 2005]
Goes to school in New Brunswick, NJ (Rutgers University), Madison, NJ (Drew University), or West Long Branch, NJ (Monmouth University)
DD2 (17): Sophia, Alexandra, Mackenzie, Savannah, Jenna / Mary, Andrea, Gabrielle, Faith, Sierra [October 14, 2006]
StepDS4 (14): Elliot, Weston, Reese, Luca, Graham / Nelson, Jesse, Branden, Rodney, Jermaine [May 24, 2009]
StepDS5 (13): Jaxson, Easton, Bennett, Kade, Beau / Franklin, Skylar, Brent, Terrance, Dane [November 21, 2010]