[name_f]My[/name_f] boyfriend and I faced many difficulties when thinking of names for our first daughter, mostly because of our distinct cultural and linguistic origins and traditions.
I am a Brazilian daughter of a Greek mother and a Portuguese father who immigrated to [name_u]Rio[/name_u] de Janeiro a year before I was born. He on the other hand is Bulgarian, but grew up in [name_f]Canada[/name_f] (where we both met).
However, we were able to come up with a lovely name for our first child, but are having a rough time with our second and final child, which we now discovered to be another girl (his third):
[name_f]Helena[/name_f] [name_f]Petrova[/name_f] (Age two)
- After my mother’s country of Greece ([name_f]Hella[/name_f]) and the name of my maternal grandmother. His mother’s patron saint. We also decided on the traditional Bulgarian patronymic, as long as she also had my family name.
[name_f]My[/name_f] step-daughter’s name is:
[name_f]Constantina[/name_f] [name_f]Petrova[/name_f] (Age six)
- Originally in Bulgarian, the name’s spelled with a “k”, but he and his ex decided on the spelling with a “c”, to soften the name, which I find as equally strong, timeless, elegant and unique, as [name_f]Helena[/name_f].
We are stuck between:
[name_f]Maria[/name_f], a beautiful cross-culture name, as well as a family name (his grandmother and my paternal grandmother, aunt and sister)
Nevena (Bulgarian for the [name_f]Marigold[/name_f] [name_f]Flower[/name_f]), after his favorite Bulgarian actress. Reminds me of the Catholic Novenas, which I’m not so sure about.
[name_f]Emilia[/name_f], a more Portuguese version of his mother’s name, Emiliya.
[name_f]Theodora[/name_f], beautiful meaning (one of my favorites)
[name_f]Cecilia[/name_f] (his favorite), after the patron saint of music (he’s a musician)
[name_f]Julia[/name_f], beautiful name but so common in [name_u]Brazil[/name_u] right now it bother’s me. There are three [name_f]Julia[/name_f]'s just in [name_f]Constantina[/name_f]'s class.
[name_f]Valentina[/name_f], also lovely and strong. This is also a family name from his side, but I’m afraid of it being too similar to [name_f]Constantina[/name_f].
So, what do you guys think?