[name_f]Love[/name_f] [name_m]Casper[/name_m] 
[name_f][/name_f] (and that you got married on Halloween!!)
From your list, I like:
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Atticus[/name_m] (though maybe the meaning is more in its associations, it’s such a cool and charming name)
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Lucian[/name_m] (I like the ‘light’ meaning but the way the name feels sort of elegant-gothic-novel-hero)
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Tate[/name_m] (short, breezy, cheerful, and lovely)
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Phoenix[/name_m] (cool and stylish with cool symbolism)
[name_m]Lucian[/name_m] is probably my favourite!
[name_f][/name_f]Some more ideas:
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Rory[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Forest[/name_m] / [name_m]Forrest[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Bram[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Reuben[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Watson[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Keaton[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Apollo[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Orlando[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Fox[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Linus[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Orion[/name_m]