[name]Emma[/name],
[name]Don[/name]'t worry about it - I like a good novella.
Okay, so you’ll have another child, most likely. That’s fine! I still think a three- or four-syllable name would be great, though. If you don’t use a four-syllable name for this baby and then you come back in a bit and tell me you’re having another baby, I’d tell you the same thing - use a four-syllable name. Ha! Okay, that might just be me. And, it’s tough because you can’t know if you’ll have a boy or a girl next time around, if you even have another child! I just did a search for four-syllable boy names, and it came back with some hilarious ones. [name]Huckleberry[/name]? I love it, but not as a first name, and certainly not with [name]Alexander[/name], [name]Harrison[/name], and [name]Lydia[/name]. [name]Isaiah[/name] and [name]Ignatius[/name]? Those are borderline three-syllable names, to me. [name]Bartholomew[/name]? Wow. What a name! Wow, finding a four-syllable boy name is tough, beyond [name]Alexander[/name]! I want you to name a future boy [name]Nathaniel[/name], partly because it is one of my favorites, but also because it bridges the gap between three- and four-syllables. Okay, let’s get back to the point at hand, shall we?
[name]Alexander[/name], [name]Harrison[/name], [name]Lydia[/name], and [name]Elizabeth[/name] make a very nice set. I’m also loving the Pride and Prejudice influence here, but I love [name]Jane[/name] [name]Austen[/name], too. He likes [name]Lizzie[/name] and [name]Libby[/name]? Me too. With [name]Lydie[/name], I think you can get away with either one, honestly, but I vote [name]Lizzie[/name]. B and D are harder to distinguish than Z and D. But, as you said, nicknames are sort of a personal thing, and there are so many for [name]Elizabeth[/name]. You can call her [name]Elle[/name] if you feel like it, and he can call her [name]Lizzie[/name]. Popularity in terms of nicknames doesn’t really bother me. But, then again, I have a very rare nickname, so maybe I can’t really speak on the subject! Another poster suggested [name]Tibby[/name] or something for a nickname, and I guess that could work, but you could go in the direction of [name]Ibby[/name], which I know has been used in the past, [name]Betsey[/name], or Busy, like Busy [name]Phillips[/name]! So, basically, I think you’re safe there…
Now, another thing I like is for each member of the sibling set to have a name with a unique first letter - A for [name]Alexander[/name], H for [name]Harrison[/name], L for [name]Lydia[/name], and something new for baby - and a unique end-sound. Obviously, this is really hard to do in reality! And, I’m a bit of a nut when it comes to these things, so they don’t matter at all. But, in the case of [name]Cecilia[/name] versus [name]Elizabeth[/name], I’d vote [name]Elizabeth[/name], simply because of that. Anyway, I think [name]Cecilia[/name] is a beautiful, sorely underused classic name. Some people are put off by its meaning - “blind” - but it doesn’t bug me too much, honestly. And, I’m not a huge Office fan - I’ve seen the show once, actually! - but I doubt that [name]Cecilia[/name] will immediately make people think of [name]Jim[/name] and [name]Pam[/name]'s baby, firstly because [name]Cecilia[/name] isn’t unheard of or anything, and secondly because [name]Cecilia[/name] is a TV baby (i.e., she’s fake). I mean, it’s not like we’re talking about [name]Harlow[/name] here, right? I could be wrong about that, though, and maybe people look to TV characters when looking for inspiration on naming. I feel like someone recently wrote an NB blog about this. Ugh, whatever, I can’t remember it.
[name]Caroline[/name]. That’s lovely. Seriously, I love it. Personally, I love [name]Charlotte[/name] that much more, so I kicked [name]Caroline[/name] off my list for future kids, but I love [name]Caroline[/name] with your kids’ names. Your husband has a negative association, though. Not so good! It would make a stunning middle name, though! [name]Elizabeth[/name] [name]Caroline[/name] [name]West[/name]. [name]Ah[/name], so glamorous. Sorry, I’m jumping ahead of the naming process now!
[name]Georgia[/name] [name]West[/name]. Eh, no. It makes me think of some place in [name]West[/name] [name]Georgia[/name]. [name]Georgina[/name] [name]West[/name]. Hm. I’m liking this one! It has a bit of an upper-crust feel to it, but it is very sophisticated. [name]Georgiana[/name] [name]West[/name]. That is a stunner, I think. I can’t really decide if I like [name]Georgina[/name] or [name]Georgiana[/name] more with [name]West[/name], but I like [name]Georgiana[/name] more as a name. It happens to be another Pride and Prejudice name, in case you were wondering - you probably weren’t, though. But, you need to pick a pronunciation. Apparently in [name]Britain[/name] they tend to say [jor-jay-na], which is weird because in the 2005 version of Pride and Prejudice, the one with [name]Keira[/name] Knightley as [name]Elizabeth[/name], they use the [jor-jee-ah-na] pronunciation, which is much more natural in my opinion. I love that pronunciation, and I think it works best for your purposes. Now, [name]Alexander[/name], [name]Harrison[/name], [name]Lydia[/name], and [name]Georgiana[/name]? It works, for sure. [name]Lydia[/name] isn’t the most classic of classic names - it isn’t very common, is what I meant to say. It’s vintage and leaves open the possibility of many different styles - you can go uber-classic with [name]Lydia[/name] and [name]Caroline[/name], more Colonial with [name]Lydia[/name] and [name]Susannah[/name], or more sophisticated with something like [name]Lydia[/name] and [name]Georgiana[/name]. It’s up to you, and each are perfect in my opinion. As an aside, I wouldn’t worry about [name]Virginia[/name] [name]West[/name] - for some reason, it isn’t as much “in your face” (or in mine, maybe) as [name]Georgia[/name] [name]West[/name]. [name]Georgia[/name] [name]West[/name] sounds like a high school or community college, and [name]Virginia[/name] [name]West[/name] sounds like an old-time-y author, maybe because it is rather similar to Virgina [name]Woolf[/name]. Now that’s a thought!
Okay, there we have an original [name]Lemon[/name] novella. I tend to get a bit conversational and often carried away when I reply to these posts, but hopefully something in there was useful. Let me know if I can be of further assistance. Good luck!
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