A name for my 3rd- Feeling Stuck

Hello!

I am pregnant with my third, a girl, and my husband and I feel stuck on our names. There are three names we love most, but we have significant problems with each name- enough to need some opinions. Our first two children are [name_f]Cora[/name_f] (f) and [name_m]Findley[/name_m] (m) and we settled on their names without issue. This is uncharted territory for us. Eikes!

[name_f]Elodie[/name_f]- I feel like she would be plagued with this name explanation “Like [name_f]Melody[/name_f], without the M”.
[name_f]Ottilie[/name_f]- So cute. However, in our American English, it will often sound like “Oddly”.
[name_f]Tova[/name_f]- It seems too close to [name_f]Cora[/name_f], our other daughter.

I would love advice or suggestions for similar names. Thanks Berries!

I would go with [name_f]Tova[/name_f]. I don’t see that they are too similar - yes they have to of the same letter in the same place, but the O in [name_f]Tova[/name_f] is pronounced differently, so I wouldn’t notice them as similar or anything. It’s also a great name!

I think [name_f]Tova[/name_f] is adorable! I like [name_f]Elodie[/name_f] a lot too, but I wouldn’t use it if you worry about the [name_f]Melody[/name_f] issue. [name_f]Tova[/name_f] and [name_f]Cora[/name_f], while only two letters apart, aren’t too likely to be mixed up. I think [name_f]Cora[/name_f], [name_m]Findley[/name_m], and [name_f]Tova[/name_f] makes a great sibset!

[name_f]Cora[/name_f] and [name_m]Findley[/name_m] seem to me to be fresh but classic names that are quirky but not too quirky! So here are some I think would fit in:

  • [name_f]Brenna[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Thea[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Stella[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Rhea[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Iona[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Amalie[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Matilde[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Audrey[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Esme[/name_f]/[name_f]Esmee[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Ivy[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Elise[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Isla[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Elsa[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Zadie[/name_f]/[name_f]Sadie[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Iris[/name_f]
  • [name_u]Avery[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Molly[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Leonie[/name_f]
  • [name_u]Eloise[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Viva[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Audra[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Maris[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Cecily[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Freya[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Ziva[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Leonor[/name_f]/[name_f]Leonore[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Lola[/name_f]
  • [name_u]Romy[/name_u]/[name_f]Romilly[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Charis[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Delphine[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Roisin[/name_f]

[name_f]Ottilie[/name_f] and [name_f]Elodie[/name_f] both sound very [name_m]French[/name_m] to me, some more [name_m]French[/name_m] names that might fit:

  • [name_f]Anais[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Adilene[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Aline[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Amalie[/name_f]/[name_f]Amelie[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Angeli[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Aurelie[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Aurore[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Beatrice[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Camile[/name_f]/[name_f]Camille[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Cecile[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Celine[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Cloe[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Darcie[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Delphine[/name_f]
  • Edme/Edmee
  • [name_f]Elinore[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Eliane[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Emeline[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Esme[/name_f]/[name_f]Esmee[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Fleur[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Giselle[/name_f]
  • Geneve
  • [name_f]Genevieve[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Heloise[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Honore[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Honorine[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Isabeau[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Jolie[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Juliet[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Magali[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Manon[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Noemie[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Ophelie[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Oriane[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Orianne[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Oriel[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Riva[/name_f]
  • [name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Seraphine[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Sidonie[/name_f]
  • Solaine
  • [name_m]Tallis[/name_m]
  • [name_f]Tilly[/name_f]
  • Vilette
  • [name_f]Victoire[/name_f]

I love [name_f]Elodie[/name_f] it seems to fit perfectly with your other children’s names. I get where some people would say melody with out the “m” but I think if you love it enough it won’t seem so bad.

I don’t think [name_f]Elodie[/name_f] would require much explanation. And I don’t think [name_f]Tova[/name_f] and [name_f]Cora[/name_f] are similar at all, other than on letter count.

Your list is beautiful.

However, if you feel you would like some suggestions, here are a few…

[name_u]Eloise[/name_u] (similar to [name_f]Elodie[/name_f], perhaps)
[name_f]Elowen[/name_f] (also somewhat similar to [name_f]Elodie[/name_f])
[name_f]Elora[/name_f] (" ")
[name_f]Vera[/name_f]
[name_f]Odette[/name_f]
[name_f]Matilda[/name_f] nn [name_f]Tilly[/name_f] (a nickname reminiscent of [name_f]Ottilie[/name_f]?)
[name_f]Oona[/name_f]
[name_f]Tamsin[/name_f]
[name_f]Iris[/name_f]

Good luck finding the perfect name! And congratulations!

Thank you all for your insight and ideas. We still have months to sit on the name and let it be. I will definitely check back in with our final decision!

[name_u]Love[/name_u] your options, but because you have concerns with all why not start fresh.
Here are some suggestions I think fit well with [name_f]Cora[/name_f] and [name_m]Findley[/name_m]:
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
[name_f]Isla[/name_f]
[name_f]Evie[/name_f]
[name_f]Gwen[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f]
[name_f]Etta[/name_f]
[name_f]Ruth[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f] ([name_f]Bea[/name_f])
[name_u]Aspyn[/name_u]
[name_f]Leona[/name_f]

[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_m]Findley[/name_m]

[name_f]Elodie[/name_f]
[name_f]Ottilie[/name_f]
[name_f]Tova[/name_f]

I love all your choices with [name_f]Cora[/name_f] and [name_m]Findley[/name_m]. I’m a fan of your style!
I’m not American so I can’t really help with the pronunciation and cultural issues.
[name_f]Tova[/name_f] is quite close to [name_f]Cora[/name_f] but not too close.
What about [name_u]Tavi[/name_u]? Pronounced tay-vee. As a diminutive of [name_f]Octavia[/name_f] but used by itself.

Some names like [name_f]Elodie[/name_f] and [name_f]Ottilie[/name_f]:
[name_f]Romilly[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]
[name_f]Ramona[/name_f]
[name_u]Eloise[/name_u]

Personally I find [name_f]Tova[/name_f] and [name_f]Cora[/name_f] too close in sound and not enough in style. [name_f]Elodie[/name_f] and [name_m]Findley[/name_m] sound too much alike as well. I love the pp suggestion of [name_f]Elowen[/name_f], [name_f]Vera[/name_f], and [name_f]Odette[/name_f].

My favourite from your list is [name_f]Elodie[/name_f]. It’s a gorgeous name and goes beautifully with the other two kids names.
[name_f]Cora[/name_f], [name_m]Findley[/name_m] &:
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_f]Grace[/name_f]
[name_f]Hannah[/name_f]
[name_f]Iris[/name_f]
[name_f]Olive[/name_f]
[name_f]Adele[/name_f]
[name_f]Raine[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Juliet[/name_f]
[name_f]Lacey[/name_f]
[name_f]Freya[/name_f]
[name_f]Siena[/name_f]
[name_f]Natalie[/name_f]
[name_f]Isobel[/name_f]
[name_f]Abigail[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Alice[/name_f]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_f]Louisa[/name_f]
[name_f]Matilda[/name_f]
[name_f]Laura[/name_f]
[name_f]Ruth[/name_f]
[name_f]Sarah[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucille[/name_f]
[name_f]Lillian[/name_f]
[name_f]Greta[/name_f]
[name_u]Evelyn[/name_u]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]
[name_f]Pearl[/name_f]
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f]
[name_f]Tess[/name_f]