Hey, so this post has no urgency as we are not yet pregnant with our 2nd, however, we [name_f]DO[/name_f] know we want a 2nd. Our son is [name_m]Charles[/name_m] [name_u]Everett[/name_u]. We call him [name_u]Charlie[/name_u]. His name is an honor name but we also knew we loved the name [name_u]Charlie[/name_u] and have not found any other name that even comes close.
The idea of finding a name we love as much is daunting and it stresses me out to think of naming another baby (other name nerds relate?) and I thought a brainstorm could be fun.
Names we have considered (but don’t seem like the ‘one’):
[name_f]Anneliese[/name_f] (spelling bothers me…don’t know if I want an ‘annie’)
[name_f]Ada[/name_f] (getting popular? too close to all the ava/eva, etc?)
[name_f]Amelia[/name_f] (an honor name but the grandmother was not beloved necessarily so could be odd plus I think it’s getting too popular)
[name_f]Tess[/name_f]–like, don’t love. Seems like a nickname
[name_f]Noemi[/name_f]–too odd/different with [name_u]Charlie[/name_u]?
[name_f]Zoey[/name_f]–popularity
[name_f]Eliza[/name_f]–nixed by partner
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]–can’t help but think of [name_f]STELLA[/name_f]!!! from streetcar
[name_f]Sylvie[/name_f]–like/don’t love, should probably do [name_f]Sylvia[/name_f], but I don’t like that for some reason
[name_f]Paige[/name_f]–nixed by partner
[name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]–partner says too boring, but I like the idea of an [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], no nickname. I feel like I don’t meet kid Elizabeths these days
[name_f]Sena[/name_f]–pronounced ‘seena’, but would keep this spelling b/c it’s an honor name, but that’s part of my issue and also I think it’s an odd choice with [name_u]Charlie[/name_u], but my mom lobbies for it hard and I know it’s my choice, but I’d love to make my mom happy. I just don’t love it the way I wish I did.
Other names I like but that are out for a variety of reasons: [name_f]Kiera[/name_f], [name_f]Cara[/name_f], [name_u]Sasha[/name_u], [name_f]Anya[/name_f], [name_f]Mila[/name_f], [name_f]Lila[/name_f] ([name_f]LOVE[/name_f] this one, so sad it’s out)
Ideas? I generally like classic, older, but with cute nickname options, but doesn’t have to completely follow that as you can see some are all over the map. I don’t like gender neutral names. I know [name_u]Charlie[/name_u] is being used by girls, but that’s part of why he’s [name_m]Charles[/name_m], which we do call him occasionally.
Thanks!