A Sister for Hank

HELP!

We are choosing to be surprised with gender at delivery. We have one son, [name_m]Hank[/name_m] [name_m]Robert[/name_m]. We picked that name 10+ years ago and never wavered.

If it’s a boy this time, we’re pretty confident he will be named: [name_u]Arlo[/name_u] [name_m]Gregory[/name_m]. ([name_m]Gregory[/name_m] after grandpa). Our back-up choice was [name_m]Otto[/name_m] [name_m]Gregory[/name_m], but we recently discovered that combined with our [name_m]German[/name_m] last name, we get the name of an infamous Nazi. Yikes.

My husband and I can’t agree on a girl name to save our life. Same issue last go-around. I feel like the perfect name is out there, but I’ve been looking for inspiration everywhere and haven’t found it yet.

I like the idea of using [name_f]EDNA[/name_f] after my great grandma. I like that it’s a vintage name and not widely used, but really not so different than [name_f]Ada[/name_f], [name_f]Emma[/name_f], etc ([name_f]IMO[/name_f]). Maybe we’d call her “[name_f]Eddi[/name_f]” for short. Husband says he could come around, but I also want us both to [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] it.

Hoping to use [name_f]Kathleen[/name_f], [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], [name_f]Rose[/name_f] or [name_f]Anna[/name_f] as middle name (family names).

Names I [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] That Husband HATES…

  1. [name_f]Georgia[/name_f]
  2. [name_f]Oona[/name_f]
  3. [name_u]Vivian[/name_u]

Classic Names My Husband Loves. I like them, just too common for my liking.

  1. [name_f]Anna[/name_f]
    I’m open to doing an [name_f]Anna[/name_f]-Combo name. [name_f]Anna[/name_f]-[name_f]Kat[/name_f] ([name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Kathleen[/name_f] is my current favorite).
  2. [name_f]Greta[/name_f]
  3. [name_f]Emmy[/name_f]

Names we both Like, just don’t [name_u]LOVE[/name_u]…

  1. [name_f]Estelle[/name_f]
  2. [name_f]Matilda[/name_f]
  3. [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f] ([name_f]Rosie[/name_f])
  4. [name_f]Mabel[/name_f]

Names we both Like, but are they too hard to pronounce?

  1. [name_f]Delia[/name_f]
  2. [name_f]Beata[/name_f]
  3. [name_f]Noemi[/name_f]
  4. [name_f]Ottilie[/name_f] / [name_f]Ottoline[/name_f]

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] there.

Ooh, I love [name_m]Hank[/name_m]! [name_u]Arlo[/name_u] would be adorable for a brother.

If it’s a sister…here are my thoughts:

[name_f]Edna[/name_f] is a cool idea. It’s honestly not my personal favorite, but I love that it’s after your grandmother. You’re right that it’s simple yet very unique. That’s always a good combo. I like [name_f]Edna[/name_f] [name_f]Kathleen[/name_f]. I also quite like [name_f]Kathleen[/name_f] as a fn. The nns [name_u]Kit[/name_u] or [name_f]Kitty[/name_f] especially.

I love [name_f]Greta[/name_f] from your husband’s list. I don’t think that it’s all that popular. My favorite part of [name_f]Greta[/name_f] is the n [name_f]Gerty[/name_f]. I also really like [name_f]Estelle[/name_f] & [name_f]Mabel[/name_f] from your kid of like list.

As for your names that you both like list, I think that [name_f]Delia[/name_f] is great. It’s not too hard to pronounce. It’s simple enough & beautiful. I agree that [name_f]Ottilie[/name_f] may be complicated for people, but it’s so sweet.

Here are a few more suggestions:

[name_f]Annelise[/name_f]

[name_f]Annika[/name_f]

[name_f]Adele[/name_f]

[name_f]Adela[/name_f]

[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f]

[name_f]Bridget[/name_f]

[name_f]Cora[/name_f]

[name_f]Celia[/name_f]

[name_f]Dahlia[/name_f]

[name_f]Eve[/name_f]

[name_u]Eloise[/name_u]

[name_f]Edith[/name_f]

[name_f]Fern[/name_f]

[name_f]Flora[/name_f]

[name_f]Gemma[/name_f]

[name_f]Ilse[/name_f]

[name_u]June[/name_u]

[name_f]Laurel[/name_f]

[name_f]Lucille[/name_f]

[name_f]Lyra[/name_f]

[name_u]Marian[/name_u]

[name_f]Marie[/name_f]

[name_f]Olive[/name_f]

[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]

[name_f]Polly[/name_f]

[name_f]Primrose[/name_f]

[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]

[name_f]Stella[/name_f]

[name_f]Thea[/name_f]

[name_f]Tess/name_f

[name_f]Willa[/name_f]

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps. :slight_smile:

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[name_f]Pearl[/name_f], [name_f]Edith[/name_f], [name_f]Anya[/name_f], [name_f]Vera[/name_f], [name_f]Frederica[/name_f], [name_f]Constance[/name_f], [name_f]Lara[/name_f] and [name_f]Elise[/name_f] came to mind

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If [name_f]Delia[/name_f] is hard to pronounce, what about [name_f]Dahlia[/name_f]?
Sorry for any repeats. I’m going for something familiar but slightly quirky:
[name_f]Anneliese[/name_f]
[name_f]Amelie[/name_f]
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]
[name_f]Aveline[/name_f]
[name_f]Ariana[/name_f]
[name_f]Adele[/name_f]
[name_f]Astoria[/name_f]
[name_u]Auburn[/name_u]
[name_f]Blythe[/name_f]
[name_f]Bridget[/name_f]
[name_f]Briar[/name_f]
[name_f]Betsy[/name_f]
[name_f]Catalina[/name_f] (for [name_f]Kathleen[/name_f])
[name_f]Clementine[/name_f]
[name_f]Constance[/name_f]
[name_f]Cosette[/name_f]
[name_f]Celeste[/name_f]
[name_f]Cecelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Cecily[/name_f]
[name_f]Celia[/name_f]
[name_f]Cleo[/name_f]
[name_f]Claudia[/name_f]
[name_f]Cordelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Calla[/name_f]
[name_f]Daphne[/name_f]
[name_f]Delphine[/name_f]
[name_f]Daisy[/name_f]
[name_f]Dinah[/name_f]
[name_f]Eliza[/name_f]
[name_f]Emmeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Eira[/name_f]
[name_u]Ever[/name_u]
[name_f]Evangeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Flora[/name_f]
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f]
[name_f]Francesca[/name_f]
[name_f]Fay[/name_f]
[name_f]Fern[/name_f]
[name_f]Gwen[/name_f]
[name_f]Genevieve[/name_f]
[name_f]Hope[/name_f]
[name_f]Harriet[/name_f]
[name_f]Helena[/name_f]
[name_f]Isadora[/name_f]
[name_f]Ida[/name_f]
[name_f]Indie[/name_f]
[name_f]Juliet[/name_f]
[name_f]Joy[/name_f]
[name_u]Juniper[/name_u]
[name_u]June[/name_u]
[name_f]Juno[/name_f]
[name_f]Louisa[/name_f]
[name_f]Louella[/name_f]
[name_f]Laurel[/name_f]
[name_f]Lorelei[/name_f]
[name_f]Leonora[/name_f]
[name_f]Lenore[/name_f]
[name_f]Mirabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Marigold[/name_f]
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f]
[name_f]Mallory[/name_f]
[name_f]Margot[/name_f]
[name_f]Maisie[/name_f]
[name_f]Mira[/name_f]
[name_f]Noelle[/name_f]
[name_f]Odette[/name_f]
[name_f]Ophelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Primrose[/name_f]
[name_f]Pippa[/name_f]
[name_f]Polly[/name_f]
[name_f]Pandora[/name_f]
[name_f]Raina[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalind[/name_f]
[name_f]Roxanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Roxy[/name_f]
[name_f]Romilly[/name_f]
[name_f]Ramona[/name_f]
[name_f]Seraphine[/name_f]
[name_f]Sylvie[/name_f]
[name_f]Susannah[/name_f]
[name_u]Simone[/name_u]
[name_f]Tessa[/name_f]
[name_f]Thea[/name_f]
[name_f]Thalia[/name_f]
[name_f]Veronica[/name_f]
[name_f]Verity[/name_f]
[name_f]Vera[/name_f]
[name_f]Vianne[/name_f]
[name_f]Viola[/name_f]
[name_f]Winne[/name_f]
[name_f]Zara[/name_f]

[name_f]Edith[/name_f] nn [name_f]Edie[/name_f] was my first thought for you-- I think you could use it to honor [name_f]Edna[/name_f]. I also really like [name_f]Greta[/name_f], what about [name_f]Gretel[/name_f] instead? I also like [name_f]Beata[/name_f], but I agree that people usually don’t pronounce it correctly. [name_f]Noemi[/name_f] is pretty accessible though and this could get you to [name_f]Emmy[/name_f] as a nn too. I think most people pronounce [name_f]Delia[/name_f] correctly.

Some other possibilities:

[name_m]Hank[/name_m] and

[name_f]Adele[/name_f]/[name_f]Adela[/name_f]
[name_f]Agnes[/name_f]
[name_f]Avis[/name_f]
[name_f]Bettina[/name_f]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f]
[name_f]Clover[/name_f]
[name_f]Diana[/name_f]
[name_f]Dorothy[/name_f]
[name_f]Ellen[/name_f]
[name_f]Eliza[/name_f]
[name_f]Elsie[/name_f]
[name_f]Emmeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Esther[/name_f]
[name_f]Ethel[/name_f]
[name_f]Frances[/name_f]
[name_f]Freda[/name_f]
[name_f]Garnet[/name_f]
[name_f]Gertrude[/name_f]
[name_f]Gretchen[/name_f]
[name_f]Harriet[/name_f]
[name_f]Helen[/name_f]
[name_f]Ida[/name_f]
[name_f]Imogen[/name_f]
[name_f]Irene[/name_f]
[name_u]Jean[/name_u]
[name_f]Jemima[/name_f]
[name_u]Joan[/name_u]
[name_f]Judith[/name_f]
[name_f]Lorelei[/name_f]
[name_f]Louise[/name_f]
[name_f]Marjorie[/name_f]
[name_f]Marta[/name_f]
[name_f]Maud[/name_f]
[name_f]Miriam[/name_f]
[name_f]Nancy[/name_f]
[name_f]Petra[/name_f]
[name_f]Rita[/name_f]
[name_f]Rowena[/name_f]
[name_f]Roxanne[/name_f]/[name_f]Roxana[/name_f]
[name_f]Ruth[/name_f]
[name_f]Shirley[/name_f]
[name_f]Susan[/name_f]
[name_f]Sybil[/name_f]
[name_f]Sylvia[/name_f]
[name_f]Tabitha[/name_f]
[name_f]Tilda[/name_f]
[name_f]Una[/name_f]
[name_f]Valerie[/name_f]
[name_f]Veronica[/name_f]

I [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_f]Edna[/name_f] nn [name_f]Eddi[/name_f], but in the same boat: DH nixed it. (Along with [name_f]Edith[/name_f] and [name_f]Agnes[/name_f].) If your’s came around, [name_m]Hank[/name_m] and [name_f]Edna[/name_f] would be super cute, imo. Especially as it’s a family name.

I love [name_f]Greta[/name_f], too, and don’t think it’s so common?

[name_f]Matilda[/name_f] is great and esp the nn [name_f]Tilda[/name_f] or [name_f]Tillie[/name_f]. Or you could do your loved [name_f]Ottilie[/name_f], if you were okay with using [name_f]Tillie[/name_f] in daily life?

What about [name_f]Stella[/name_f] instead of [name_f]Estelle[/name_f]?
[name_f]Rosalind[/name_f] instead of [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f]?
[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]?
[name_f]Naomi[/name_f] instead of [name_f]Noemi[/name_f]?

I think these are repeats, but I also love [name_f]Annelise[/name_f], [name_f]Beatrice[/name_f] or [name_f]Beatrix[/name_f] or [name_f]Olive[/name_f] for you.

^^^ great suggestions

Please consider repeats as seconds

[name_m]Hank[/name_m] & ______

[name_f]Etta[/name_f]
[name_f]Leona[/name_f]
[name_f]Della[/name_f]
[name_f]Talia[/name_f]
[name_f]Jocelyn[/name_f]
[name_f]Nina[/name_f]
[name_f]Rita[/name_f]
[name_f]Sally[/name_f]
[name_f]Betsy[/name_f]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f]/[name_f]Marnie[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_f]Wendy[/name_f]
[name_f]Sylvie[/name_f]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f]
[name_f]Iris[/name_f]
[name_f]Zelda[/name_f]
[name_f]Zeta[/name_f]
[name_f]Lorna[/name_f]
[name_f]Myrna[/name_f]
[name_f]Maxine[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_f]Bonnie[/name_f]
[name_f]Tess[/name_f]
[name_f]Elsie[/name_f]
[name_f]Raquel[/name_f]
[name_f]Maisie[/name_f]
[name_f]Ramona[/name_f] “[name_u]Romy[/name_u]”
[name_f]Lorelei[/name_f]
[name_f]Laurel[/name_f]
[name_f]Miriam[/name_f]
[name_f]Daisy[/name_f]
[name_f]Freida[/name_f]
[name_f]Marla[/name_f]
[name_f]Audra[/name_f]
[name_f]Polly[/name_f]
[name_f]Wanda[/name_f]
[name_f]Gemma[/name_f]

I know a girl whose brother is [name_m]Hank[/name_m]. She is [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], so that goes with your middle name selection!

Edna is not personally my style, but it is kind of falling into the vintage-two syllable-ends in A category that is popular right now. [name_f]My[/name_f] niece is [name_f]Ada[/name_f], which has really grown on me since she’s been born. I’ve never met another [name_f]Ada[/name_f] before. I think [name_f]Ada[/name_f] and [name_m]Hank[/name_m] would be cute together, but I assume that’s not a favorite of yours, or you would have mentioned it. ha.

I do love [name_f]Anna[/name_f] combo names, and I think [name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Kathleen[/name_f] is lovely!

I don’t know how you pronounce [name_f]Delia[/name_f]. I would look at it and say “[name_f]Deal[/name_f]-ya”. However, there was a girl in my class growing up named [name_f]Delia[/name_f], and she pronounced it “[name_f]Dee[/name_f]-luh”. I think a lot of people would get that one wrong, no matter how you chose to pronounce it. Probably the same with the others in that list, in my opinion.

I love [name_f]Ottilie[/name_f]!

We had a boy! [name_u]Arlo[/name_u] [name_m]Gregory[/name_m] it is. Fits him perfectly and we didn’t need to stress about a girl name haha. But, I am keeping all these names in case we have a 3rd. I’ll probably only have boys!! Thanks all

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How about [name_f]Annabeth[/name_f]? That sounds great with [name_m]Hank[/name_m]? There is also [name_f]Anabelle[/name_f] ?

[name_f]My[/name_f] first thought for you was [name_f]Alma[/name_f]!

[name_f]Alma[/name_f] [name_f]Kathleen[/name_f] is gorgeous, I also like [name_f]Enid[/name_f] and [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] with [name_m]Hank[/name_m] as well :slight_smile:

For what it’s worth, I think [name_f]Greta[/name_f] is a beautiful and well-fitting option for you :slight_smile: it’s not at all popular in my area.

Other:
[name_f]Nellie[/name_f]
[name_f]Sally[/name_f]
[name_f]Edith[/name_f]
[name_f]Blythe[/name_f]

I think [name_m]Hank[/name_m] and [name_f]Mabel[/name_f] go together really well!

How about [name_f]Edie[/name_f] - similar you [name_f]Edna[/name_f] but a bit softer.

I would also suggest [name_f]Zara[/name_f]!