I have loved the name [name_u]James[/name_u] for as long as I can remember. It’s traditional, religious, and sophisticated. There isn’t anything I don’t love about it - it seems like the perfect name in every way.
There’s just one problem - it’s my cousin’s name.
He’s twelve years older than me and we’ve never been particularly close, but I come from quite a tight-knit family and worry I would be offending my aunt if I used the name [name_u]James[/name_u] in the first name spot.
[name_f]Do[/name_f] you think it’s unusable as a first name due to family ties?