Adolf or Ashley - which would you rather name a boy?

See the results of this poll: Adolf or Ashley - which is the lesser of the two evils for a boy?

Respondents: 144 (This poll is closed)

  • Adolf: 8 (6%)
  • Ashley: 136 (94%)

If those were my two choicesā€¦ without question it would be [name]Ashley[/name].

The association with Hitler is reason enough for me.

Iā€™d rather have a feminine association than a mass murderer association any day.

[name]Ashley[/name]. I agree with the previous posters, there is NO way that Iā€™d name a son [name]Adolf[/name] while knowing that heā€™d share a name with Hitler. [name]Ashley[/name] does sound girly, but he could always go by [name]Ash[/name] or somethingā€¦

[name]Adolf[/name] will never be separated from Hitler. Itā€™s unfortunate because itā€™s kind of a cool name, and itā€™s even my husbandā€™s great and great-great grandfatherā€™s middle names. But itā€™s simply unusable. If your childā€™s name is strongly associated with someone else, you want it to be someone great. I canā€™t imagine how terrible it would be to go through life as [name]Adolph[/name].

[name]Ashley[/name] is originally a boys name. Itā€™s still fairly popular for girls, but [name]Asher[/name] and [name]Ashton[/name] are for boys, so itā€™s not so bad. He would just have to explain to everyone that questions his name that it was originally for boys! Or it could say, ā€œWell it was between [name]Ashley[/name] and [name]Adolf[/name], so I think I made out OK.ā€

[name]Ashley[/name]ā€¦Iā€™m from SC. I know a ton of boy Ashleys.

I love [name]Ashley[/name] for a boy so that would be my pick. Itā€™s so much more attracive on a boy.

i love [name]Ashley[/name] for a boy. i think itā€™s time the boys took back all their names! ([name]Whitney[/name], [name]Morgan[/name], [name]Adrian[/name], etcā€¦)

[name]Ashley[/name]ā€¦ For all the reasons listed above!

[name]ALFRED[/name]! :smiley:

Haha, just kidding. :wink: Since Iā€™m such a fan of [name]Lindsay[/name] on a boy, itā€™s no surprise that Iā€™d go with [name]Ashley[/name]. If he was uncomfortable with his name Iā€™d nn him [name]Ash[/name] or [name]Lee[/name].

I think itā€™s a sad, sad world when parents would rather their son be named after a mass-murdering f*ckhead than be perceived as ā€œfeminineā€.

[name]Ashley[/name]. Never would I ever even CONSIDER that as a possible name. Like the other nameberries have said, I would rather my son have a ā€œfeminineā€ name than have a name stained with the image of a true monster.

Oh, definitely [name]Ashley[/name]! I could call him [name]Ash[/name] and it wouldnā€™t be a big deal at all!

Most everyone above the age of ten nowadays associated [name]Adolf[/name] with Hitler, and that just isnā€™t an okay association. I doubt it will ever be lived down, and I wouldnā€™t want to deal with the questions and stares when I announce my childā€™s name and get responses like, ā€œ[name]Adolf[/name]? As in HITLER?!?ā€ Yeah, not gonna happenā€¦

[name]Lemon[/name] :slight_smile:

Definitely [name]Ashley[/name]! It is cruel and unusual to name a boy [name]Adolf[/name]. Sure, he may get teased for having a girls name if you go with [name]Ashley[/name], but if you name him [name]Adolf[/name] he will be teased for one of the largest massacres in human history! Also, if he finds his name to feminine he oculd easily be [name]Ash[/name] or [name]Lee[/name] or go by his middle name! Plus, maybe [name]Ashley[/name] wil come back as ā€œvintageā€ one day!

Omigosh! Name a kid ā€œ[name]Adolf[/name]ā€ and this is what youā€™ll wind up with:

ā€œEveryone gets the same size desk, Lā€™il Hitler.ā€

ā€“ [name]Nephele[/name]

I second that.

I replied in the girl name thread that I had a really hard time with this. I saw a picture somewhere on the internet several months ago of a nursery school class, where in the background, there were small plastic baskets with kidsā€™ names labeled on them, and one of them was [name]Adolph[/name]. I donā€™t personally like the sound of the name, but in that context, it just seemed rather ordinary if a little eccentric. It didnā€™t strongly associate with the genocider for me because you could see this circle of children sitting and listening to story time. I also think of [name]Dolph[/name] Lundgren, I think of it as a name a lot of people have. Then I think of [name]Harpo[/name] [name]Marx[/name] reputedly changing his name from [name]Adolph[/name] due to the association with Hitler as a very strong case for avoiding it. I found out that he just didnā€™t like his name instead. Did Adolph 'Harpo' Marx Change His Name Because of Hitler? | Snopes.com Ironically, I had first heard this from none other than [name]Penn[/name] [name]Jillette[/name], debunker of Bull$k/7, father of [name]Moxie[/name] CrimeFighter and [name]Zoltan[/name] ?, and itā€™s actually not true why A. ā€œ[name]Harpo[/name]ā€ [name]Marx[/name] changed his name to [name]Arthur[/name], which is not to say he wouldnā€™t have changed it then if he had not changed it much earlier, but itā€™s impossible to know.

Anyway, [name]Ash[/name] is an ok nickname if you have to live with [name]Ashley[/name], but I do not consider [name]Ashley[/name] a boysā€™ or mansā€™ name in the least. I realize it was ā€œstolen.ā€ I realize some places use it or reclaim it or do not have a lot of female Ashleys to make the name too sweet and girly. I also realize I like a lot more unisex names for girls in theory, as well as strongly not mind names ending in -son used for girls in the usage of surnames for given names. I usually do not like the softer side of boys names at all and favor standard masculine names, itā€™s just my taste. Iā€™ve also said before a few times that someday, there will be no ā€œstealing,ā€ everyone will just give in and pick from one big no-gender pile. No feminized versions for girls, boys will be [name]Lisa[/name] and [name]Kate[/name] as often as they are [name]John[/name] and [name]Michael[/name], and nobody will fret over why there are too many girls named [name]Cameron[/name] to choose it for their son. Utopia.

Anyway, [name]Ashley[/name]. Itā€™s not that boys canā€™t like flowers, but I really strongly associate the name [name]Ashley[/name] with the [name]Laura[/name] [name]Ashley[/name] sundresses and bedding suites. Teeny tiny flowers smacked all over everything. I know it was her last name to boot, but still. Itā€™s not just feminine for me, itā€™s too girly for a girl even. And yet some people really want their little girls with their princess ballerina names. If the choice was [name]Adolf[/name] or [name]Sophia[/name], I would probably choose [name]Sophia[/name], which is feminine but not flowery or frilly to me. If instead of [name]Sophia[/name], [name]Isabella[/name], then I would be stuck again. The hyper-feminine names suffocate me too much.

I could call him [name]Ash[/name], and while thatā€™s Evil Dead cool on one hand (well a severed arm thatā€™s replaced with a machine gun), itā€™s also that pukey stuff in the ashtray, burnt stuff. Gross. It also goes back to the girl question, e.g. [name]Benjamin[/name] or Ayllyzhabith. Masculine or Tryndee. I leaned toward the masculine, but I feel like itā€™s a copout to suppose we could call her [name]Bennie[/name], or how about [name]Minnie[/name], or [name]Jamie[/name], anything but the proper [name]Benjamin[/name] (in that survey, examples were given but not outright choice between this or that). Calling boy [name]Ashley[/name] ā€˜[name]Ash[/name]ā€™ so I could live with it would be similar. I found this a really conflicting set of questions, since I consider [name]Ashley[/name] so much more feminine than I can tolerate for a boy or girl, while I had an easier time choosing a straight-up masculine name for a girl. I did not easily dismiss the association with Hitler, but when it comes right down to it, I can mentally disassociate it while not ignoring or dismissing what he had done. Iā€™m sure millions of people share this name who arenā€™t in the KKK and are normal friendly people. Likewise, [name]Ashley[/name], I suppose. I am completely glad that these arenā€™t the last two names in the world and nobody is pointing a gun at my head asking me this poll question. I cannot very easily explain why the flower-patterned sheets and matching curtains and matching nightgown and matching bathrobe really dwell on my mind for a boy named [name]Ashley[/name] (or a girl), where I can look at a boy named [name]Adolf[/name] and while not forgetting in any way the Holocaust, consider it a valid name as long as you are not rearing him to be hateful. Kind of a heavy name to bear, and not either my style at all, Hitler or not, but I can work with it somehow. I think I would rather not choose either, if possible, but I definitely cannot go with [name]Ashley[/name]. Iā€™m sure if the survey were recast with a different boys-name-to-girls like [name]Madison[/name] or [name]Leslie[/name] or such, or even a straight-up girls name like [name]Katherine[/name] or [name]Brittany[/name], see, no floral overkill for me to contend with. Much easier.

[name]Ashley[/name] was first a boys name and the southern sons name of [name]Scarlett[/name] Oā€™[name]Hara[/name]'s untouchable first love! [name]Love[/name] [name]Ashley[/name] for a boy!

[name]Adolf[/name] on the other handā€¦

[name]Adolf[/name]. Not because Iā€™d not want my son being ā€œfeminineā€ but just because I love the name
Of course I wouldnā€™t actually ever have to make this choice so I wouldnā€™t have to worry about the connotations in the outside world :stuck_out_tongue:

[name]Ashley[/name]. same reasons.

my 6 yr old son has a good friend at school named [name]Adolf[/name]ā€¦ive always wondered why his parents chose to name him thisā€¦they are a hispanic family and dont speak much english so i dont know if its a cultural thingā€¦but how could it beā€¦surely they know who hitler is and what he did

I think [name]Ashley[/name] on a boy is quite handsome. I know a few male [name]Ashley[/name]'s and personally, I would use [name]Ashley[/name] on a boy before I would use it on a girl or [name]Ashton[/name] or [name]Asher[/name] on a boy. I really hope one day it does go back to the boys.