[name_m]Hi[/name_m] ladies. My name is [name_f]Tiffany[/name_f] and I just found out that I am expecting. This really caught me off guard since we’ll haven’t had any luck since getting off bc when my diva was 1. This definitely came at an unexpected time. The bf and I have been together almost 5 yrs. He has a son from a previous relationship as I have a diva. Well the bf has said plenty of times he doesn’t want anymore and qell with my issues pcos and endo we haven’t worried about protection and I did fertility for my diva. My question is how would I bring it up to him? I thought but meeting with his mom.and telling her 1 and go from there but idk. My 2 thing is I need name idea for a lil girl to go with the middle names [name_u]Frankie[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]. Want something different that you don’t hear every day. But go with his my divas name jolee and his son [name_u]Owen[/name_u]. I already have the boy name decided but if it’s a girl that where I need help. Some ideas of girls names with the mns I have are
Alright,well firstly,congratulations on the future baby!I’m sure she will be lovely!
Also,okay,let’s get down to the plan.I would not recommend telling his mother about it before him.If you told her first,it would seem like going behind his back,and that is not what you would want.You want him to accept the baby,so to do that,you have to be honest with him.If you really want to make him want this child you can always do something sweet to change his mind (telling him in a romantic way),it has the potential to work,and he may be won over by it.Now,if he doesn’t take this well,then that is not the end of the world.If he tries to get you to abort,then you need to put your foot down!This child is not solely his and you are entitled to your own opinions and your own choices.
As for names,I really like [name_f]Scarlet[/name_f] [name_u]Frankie[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]!
Have you considered [name_f]Hazel[/name_f],[name_f]Opal[/name_f],[name_f]Lucy[/name_f],[name_f]Mila[/name_f]?
also,even though I am not a man and have never been in your place,If I was your boyfriend,I would want complete honesty.If he takes it poorly,then shame on him,it is not your fault.
If you need help/support anything,message me,I’ll try to help out as best as I can. Best luck.
PCOS isn’t birth control, sure it’s harder to get pregnant, but you can still get pregnant, so I would recommend thinking about using protection in the future. I have PCOS and got pregnant naturally (we were about to start fertility treatment, but surprise!).
As @perfectlyimperfect said, do not tell his mother before telling him. He is the father and he should know first. From the sounds of it, you are planning on keeping the child, so you are going to have to consider that he may not and your relationship may end there if he was adamant on not having anymore kids.
As to how to bring it up, just be honest. Maybe make a nice dinner and have a date night, that way you are both in a good mood and just tell him straight out that you are pregnant and that you want to keep the baby. What he does from there is completely up to him.
I am going to be 100% honest with him that I am pregnant and I am keeping this baby no matter what. When we have had talks about babies I’ve always told him that I would tell him since he has the right to know but I wasn’t going to beg and easy with him to stay knowing he doesn’t want anymore. It is completely up to him if he stays or he goes. Hid mom.and I are close that’s why I thought about telling her first. I’ll tell him first trying decide how to do it but after telling him if he doesn’t want to be there I’m going to tell his mom myself. I don’t want her to not one because he decides not to share and it will be obvious since we talk. [name_m]Don[/name_m]'t want her upset I didn’t tell her. I love [name_f]Scarlet[/name_f]. [name_f]Opal[/name_f] is our dogs name, [name_f]Hazel[/name_f] is a cousin I do like [name_u]Ruby[/name_u].
