Okay, well I thought I had some great names and they have all been shot down. DH hates my top 2 [name]Alice[/name] and [name]Esther[/name].
So here are some names that he likes. [name]Allison[/name] better than [name]Alice[/name]. [name]Stephanie[/name] better than [name]Esther[/name]. He has suggested [name]Abigail[/name], [name]Samara[/name], [name]Rachel[/name], [name]Amanda[/name]. He generally hates my old lady name style, though he was the one who came up with [name]Matilda[/name] for our daughter.
What could be some good compromise names for us?
I think we both like classic sort or names, nothing too quirky or modern, but I lean more toward the vintage names where he seems to be into names that were more popular when we were growing up, but I find dated.
I think [name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Allison[/name] would be very cute together! I do not like [name]Abigail[/name], [name]Samara[/name], [name]Rachel[/name], or [name]Amanda[/name] though.
[name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Emma[/name] comes to mind… it’s a little more old fashioned but still common. Maybe it’s too popular now though? [name]Olivia[/name]? [name]Nora[/name]? [name]Ruby[/name]?
Well I do like [name]Abigail[/name] and [name]Rachel[/name] out if his choices. However, I also really like [name]Alice[/name] and [name]Esther[/name].
Perhaps maybe…
[name]Amy[/name] (classic name…out of the top 100 now)
[name]Lucy[/name] (classic…more on the popular side now)
[name]Helena[/name] (vintage without sounding too old ladyish)
[name]Heidi[/name] (really cute, not popular at the moment)
[name]Anna[/name] (super classic…however is also common)
[name]Margaret[/name] ( classic, you could use the nn [name]Maggie[/name])
[name]Clara[/name] (really cute. Not too popular at the moment. I think of silent film star [name]Clara[/name] [name]Bow[/name])
[name]Julia[/name]/[name]Julianna[/name]/[name]Julianne[/name]/[name]Julie[/name]/[name]Juliet[/name] - all really classic. [name]Love[/name] all of them.
[name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Abigail[/name] were meant for each other.
pp’s suggestion of [name]Olivia[/name] and [name]Matilda[/name] are lovely also
[name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Piper[/name] or [name]Phillipa[/name]
[name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Eloise[/name]/[name]Ellen[/name]
[name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Adelaide[/name]/[name]Adele[/name]
[name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Amelia[/name]
[name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Genevieve[/name]
[name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Imogen[/name] nn [name]Mimi[/name]
[name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Penny[/name]
[name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Caroline[/name]
[name]Matilda[/name] and [name]Juliet[/name]
Thanks for all the suggestions
Adding to the list [name]Clara[/name], [name]Julia[/name]/et/anna, [name]Samantha[/name], [name]Annabel[/name]
Maybes: [name]Caroline[/name] and [name]Rebecca[/name].
Like but can’t use: [name]Olivia[/name] (because of 1) popularity and 2) we are set on the middle name [name]Pearl[/name] and our last name begins with P and I just couldn’t give my daughter the initials OPP) and [name]Violet[/name] (already nixed) and [name]Ramona[/name] (love it, but doesn’t come out of my mouth right )