now that she is 16 month old already??! [name]Both[/name] me and my husband are originally from [name]China[/name] and have lived in the US for more than 13 years. When our daughter was born here last year we decided to give her an English first name and Chinese middle name. And we picked ‘[name]Erin[/name]’ as her first name. We went through a lot of names and this is the name we picked while I was already at the hospital and both liked under the circumstances. My husband knew at the time that it was a very Irish-sound name, but we also love the ‘[name]Peace[/name]’ meaning part of the name and that’s the main reason we went with it. I wasn’t aware at the time how Irish-sounding it was. What starts to bother me is that whenever we tell people my daughter’s name we always get this kind of weird look on people’s face. I would like to let people know that there is absolutely nothing wrong with Irish-sounding names, I just think it’s kind of weird for a Chinese-American girl to have a name meaning ‘From [name]Ireland[/name]’!! Very people will know the ‘peace’ part of her name meaning.
Some people may think that it is too late to change a baby’s name when she’s already 16 month old. In our case, it may not be that bad. My in-laws have been taking care of our daughter since she was born and we almost never call her ‘[name]Erin[/name]’ at home, always call her Baobao (little nick name) at home. Only our friends and her play date’s parents call her [name]Erin[/name], which she doesn’t meet often. So she’s not attached to the name at all right now. But the more we try to call her [name]Erin[/name] the more it bothers me now. In addition to its strong Irish implication none of us like the name much either now. I am willing to go through the whole nine yard if it’s not too crazy, to change her name legally, both on her birth certificate and social security card.
Me and my husband just started having this crazy thought of changing her name and we don’t have a name ready yet. I would love to hear people’s opinions on the Irish implication of the name [name]Erin[/name] for a Chinese girl and the practical feasibility of changing our daughter’s name at this point. I would hate myself to death if I gave my daughter an awkward name to grow up with. Thank you so much for any opinions on this in advance!!