Amelia and Daphne - cute sibset or too different?

[name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is another name I’ve been thinking a lot about lately. With our daughter [name_f]Amelia[/name_f], we picked a name that was very feminine yet strong ([name_f]Amelia[/name_f] [name_f]Earhart[/name_f] comes to mind). [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] sounds somewhat harsh (especially compared to the names I’m usually attracted to e.g. [name_f]Eliana[/name_f], [name_f]Miriam[/name_f], [name_f]Gabrielle[/name_f], [name_f]Arielle[/name_f], [name_f]Eloise[/name_f], etc.), but I’m finding myself very intrigued by it. What are your thoughts about [name_f]Daphne[/name_f]? What kind of child or woman do you picture?

Thanks!

Edit: harsh was not quite the right word - I just find it less lilting or ‘melodious’ than Amelia. Not a bad thing, just different. :slight_smile:

I really like [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] together! I think see a variety of girls/women being named [name_f]Daphne[/name_f]. [name_f]My[/name_f] first thought was of an intelligent, sweet little girl, for whatever that’s worth.

I think they sound lovely together. To me they both sound strong but still very pretty!

Oh my goodness, [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] would be perfect with [name_f]Amelia[/name_f].

Exact-equivalent vintage charm with no-frills spunk.

[name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is no-frills spunk, as well; I really do love her.

But, to me, [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] doesn’t say vintage like [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] or [name_f]Miriam[/name_f].

I like [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] very much. It doesn’t really “match” [name_f]Amelia[/name_f], stylistically, but they still complement each other well enough. They sound refined and also quite British together, in my opinion. [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] doesn’t seem harsh to me, it seems quirky-but-elegant.

I think [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] and [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] are great together. They both seem strong and British sounding to me. I would picture a [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] as a really sweet & creative person.

[name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] together! They are different but compliment each other and are both pretty in a strong kind of way!

I think they go together nicely. [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is a little quirkier than [name_f]Amelia[/name_f], but not overtly so I don’t think. I know a [name_f]Daphne[/name_f], so it’s hard to separate my thoughts on the name from the person. I like the name a lot. The [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] I know is slim and pretty and gentle, she’s a quiet person with a positive outlook on life. Hard working, very capable. In one word, she’s sweet.

I love the name [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] but it doesn’t sound right with [name_f]Amelia[/name_f]. [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] seems a little too whimsical next to the more sweet [name_f]Amelia[/name_f]. But if you live the name that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t use it.

I don’t like them together, sorry. [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] is vintage but has gotten a boost several years ago and is so popular nowadays that it doesn’t seem all that vintage anymore. [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is a very old, vintage name that, while not too harsh, sounds too old next to [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] (in my opinion of course).

[name_f]My[/name_f] daughter is named [name_f]Daphne[/name_f], so I’m biased of course. We picked it because it was beautiful, vintage and well-known but not popular. (I don’t get harsh?) We had been going back and forth with the name [name_f]Lily[/name_f], but [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] seemed feisty/spunky–like our daughter.

Although both seem British, [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] seem to be from different eras. I picture Gothic [name_f]England[/name_f] with [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] and the Roaring 20s with [name_f]Amelia[/name_f]. That said, I have a hard time matching [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] to any sibset. I expect I’ll be posting something similar to yours if we have baby No. 2.

TL;DR I love [name_f]Daphne[/name_f], but the match with [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] seems off.

I really love [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] together. I never really thought of ever pairing those two names together but I love it. I think both names are really sweet, I don’t think [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is a harsh name at all.

Thanks for the comments! I really like [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] but, to me, it sounds quite different from the usually quite soft/lilting names I tend to like (‘harsh’ was maybe the wrong word to use - after all, I do like the name). Different can be good though, because I would like my kids to have distinctly different names. But are the names too different? I don’t know. Thanks again for chiming in!

I love [name_f]Daphne[/name_f]. It doesn’t sound harsh to me at all. It sounds like the name of a woman who is all business when she wants to be, but has a quirky and fun loving side. [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] doesn’t really match [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] in my opinion, but I think it’s fine. I wouldn’t recommend them for twins, but for sisters it would work okay.

The styles are rather different. I thought [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] and [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] go together nicely. What about using [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] as a middle name?

[name_f]Susan[/name_f]

I think they go together really well!

We have a [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] and are so happy with our choice.

Our sibset:
[name_m]Andrew[/name_m], [name_u]Emmett[/name_u], [name_m]Henry[/name_m], [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f].

[name_f]Imo[/name_f], [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] and [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] are a good pair, especially if you have more children. They are complimentary but not the perfect match, which leaves you more choices for baby number three.

I think [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] and [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] go very well together. I imagine [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] to be extremely feminine and a bit whimsical.

I think [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] sounds light, and it goes fine w/[name_f]Amelia[/name_f]. [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] & [name_f]Athena[/name_f] would be ideal, but I doubt [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] wants to change her name :-).

I think [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] are great together! I think both carry a vintage, feminine feel, yet neither one is too commonplace or bland. [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] feels a tad more cozy, whereas [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is a little more buttoned-up, but together they play off one another nicely.

Of the other names you mention, I absolutely don’t think [name_f]Eliana[/name_f], [name_f]Gabrielle[/name_f], or [name_f]Arielle[/name_f] fit with [name_f]Amelia[/name_f]. They feel more modern - though they really aren’t, I realize - and also much more glam. [name_f]Miriam[/name_f], perhaps, is a little too staid, whereas [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] feels more lively and vibrant. I could potentially see [name_f]Eloise[/name_f] with [name_f]Amelia[/name_f], though she has a bit more sweetness to her. I do like that pairing most off your list there.

I don’t find [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] harsh. Sure, she isn’t lilting. But, she is rather ethereal, elegant, and suave. [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] doesn’t have a strong sound in her. Each one, from the gentle “ah” beginning to the anchoring “ME”, to the feminine “[name_f]Lia[/name_f]” at the close, creates a soft, melodious rhythm. [name_f]Daphne[/name_f], however, partly due to her comparable shortness and partly due to that strong initial “dah” sound, feels [harsh] in comparison, but I prefer sturdy. When paired with the light “ph” sound, though, and the effortless ending “ee,” she doesn’t feel too cold next to [name_f]Amelia[/name_f]. She merely seems anchored to me. Again, I’ll use the phrase “buttoned-up,” which I would also use for something like [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f].

I’d love to see [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] together. They create a striking, strong, ladylike sibling set, with a perky, gentle, vintage image. [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is an interesting name because she’s really never been “popular” in the way we think of it, in terms of numbers. Not even in the 1880s. [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] started her ascent in the late 1920s, saw some growth in the 40s, but really saw the most use - still not what we’d deem popular use - in the 1960s. She’s just in the last year started to climb back toward her heyday usage level, and she’s sure to climb further up the charts. Still, she’s not going to be one of those uber-popular vintage names, as her style doesn’t lend toward the style we latch on to today - the short, the sweet, and the frilly feminine ([name_f]Ella[/name_f], [name_f]Elsa[/name_f], [name_f]Lily[/name_f], etc.) or the simple, stylish, and strong ([name_f]Charlotte[/name_f], [name_f]Hazel[/name_f], [name_f]Alice[/name_f], etc.); [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is more in the second camp, but she’s got more of a grown-up feel that must be off-putting to some, although I think she fits a little one beautifully as well, and I personally adore her! [name_m]Just[/name_m] for kicks, I’ll tell you that [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] is a name that has been perennially popular from the 1880s, commonly used for ladies, falling just slightly out of favor - but really not out of favor, more to the current level of [name_f]Daphne[/name_f]'s usage - from the 40s to 70s and then really surging to popular usage in the 2000s, reaching an all-time high of #17 just last year! [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] has a lot going for her, from that smart A start, to the girly sweet [name_f]Lia[/name_f], to the plenty of nicknames, to the lilting, elegant sound, to the [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] [name_f]Earhart[/name_f] strong association. [name_m]Even[/name_m] so, [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is a powerful punch to bump up an [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] sibling set, adding a unique edge to a thoroughly vintage set and an flair of elegance to two ladylike names.