Astraea - A$$ tray? Australia?

Since parting ways with my previous favourite (au revoir, [name_f]Sylvie[/name_f]!) I’m considering which of my runner-ups will take it’s place.

I’ve liked [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] nn [name_f]Astra[/name_f] for ages, but it has always hovered in the background due to a few concerns I have:

  • I worry [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] sounds too much like “australia” said in a thick aussie accent
  • I also worry it sounds like a$$ tray, astray or ash tray.
  • Astra is apparently the name of a rather shoddy [name_u]Holden[/name_u] car? Does anyone make that connection?
  • Do you think any names that begin in As- are safe? [name_u]Or[/name_u] is there always a risk of a$$ related teasing?

What are your general (brutally honest) thoughts on [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] / [name_f]Astra[/name_f]? I’d love to hear them!

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I think both names are perfectly usable. I don’t think of any of the things you mentioned when I read or heard [name_f]Astra[/name_f]/Astraea/Astrid/Aster/etc.

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I don’t think of any of the things you mentioned when I hear [name_f]Astraea[/name_f].

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It reminds me of the Spanish word for star [name_f]Estrella[/name_f], it’s said in that pronunciation too, the connection with the goddess makes me love it :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: personally I don’t see it given how it’s related to the stars for me, but I’m not sure what [name_f]English[/name_f] speakers will say

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I can see what you’re talking about, but personally none of those things come to mind for me. Astraea is totally usable in my view (though I personally prefer Astra or Astrid).

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from being aussie myself, i find [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] being more similar to [name_f]Austria[/name_f] than Australia - if that helps! haha but i do see what you are saying!!
as for the ashtray part, i seem to pronounce it more like ah-stray-ah with more emphasis on the stray part

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Omg you can’t imagine the relief I feel hearing an Aussie say it doesn’t sound too much like Straya! I’m from [name_u]New[/name_u] Zealand and am concerned about it being too close for comfort. Lol.

I too emphasise the second syllable, so it’s good to know that nullifies some of the ashtray similarity.

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  • I adore [name_f]Astraea[/name_f], as well as [name_f]Astra[/name_f]
  • I hear Australia I guess, but, especially in my accent, it’s barely there
  • I definitely don’t hear any of the other things
  • not a car person, not familiar with the car, even if I was, it’s by far not the first association
  • in my accent, they’re very safe, because that’s not how I say ass but honestly any name can be mocked, I don’t think they’re any riskier than others
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I’ve never heard someone say the name in a think aussie accent so I’m not sure but I don’t think this will be a big problem

I hadn’t made this connections before but now I see them.

I’ve never heard about it. I don’t think it’s a bad connection and I think the connection is a bit indirect.

Of couse, the risk is aways there.

I don’t really like the spelling of [name_f]Astraea[/name_f]. The aea-part is confusing to me. I personally do love [name_f]Astraia[/name_f], with that spelling. [name_f]Astra[/name_f] is beautiful, both as a nickname and as a stand-alone.

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  1. I’ve liked [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] for ages and that never occurred to me before. But now that you’ve said it, I can here it. But I don’t think it’s a big issue or a problem.
  2. If it was Astrée you were considering, then I’d say it sounds too much like a** tray or ash tray. But I don’t think it’s a big issue with [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] since the emphasis is on the “ay-a” part.
  3. We don’t have [name_u]Holden[/name_u] cars in the UK but there is a Vauxhall [name_f]Astra[/name_f] (I don’t know if it’s shoddy or not :sweat_smile:). I would associate [name_f]Astra[/name_f] with the car, but not [name_f]Astraea[/name_f].
  4. I suppose there is always a risk, but I pronounce the A at the start of [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] as a schwa sound rather than actually like “a**”. So [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] seems less immediately teasable to me than [name_u]Aspen[/name_u] or [name_m]Aston[/name_m].
  5. I think it’s a bold and beautiful name.
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Another Aussie here … [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] doesn’t make me think of “Straya”. I find the syllable emphasis and length to be very different.

Astra is great too … It doesn’t make me think of the car. [name_f]My[/name_f] first thought was a character from Supergirl! I love it!

“As” names are lovely.

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Astraea is wonderful.

I do hear the word astray more than Australia or [name_u]Ash[/name_u] tray but it’s a bold and beautiful enough name that I can put that aside.

Equally, my mum had an astra car and I tend to think of stars before the car model

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I love the sound of [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] and [name_f]Astra[/name_f] and think they look beautiful, but I also worry about teasing. I didn’t hear “Australia” until you mentioned it because I more hear “[name_f]Austria[/name_f]” so I don’t think that is worrisome! Either way, the name sounding like a country I don’t think is too bad. I also didn’t think “ash tray” or about the [name_u]Holden[/name_u] car for either of these names; however, I work in a school and kids can be mean. I had an [name_f]Aster[/name_f], pretty close to [name_f]Astra[/name_f], who started going by her mn because she was tired of kids calling her “A$$y” and other variants which has made me quite wary of As- names. This is in [name_u]California[/name_u], though, and saying [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] in other accents doesn’t immediately lead to that nickname. I feel like she could get away with it in other parts of the world, but it could be cause for teasing in some parts of the states.

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I’m so sad to hear about poor wee [name_f]Aster[/name_f] :frowning: Kids can be absolutely vile to one another. I suppose with American accents the a in a$$ is a short a, which lends [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] more easily to a$$-related teasing. I’m thankfully not in the US, but still worry about it. Thanks for sharing!

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Astraea and [name_f]Astra[/name_f] are exquisite names! I don’t associate them with any of the things you brought up, though I see how you could hear some of those similarities. When I think of [name_f]Astraea[/name_f], I think of the lovely connection it has to mythology and the stars. She’s a lovely namesake! They’re both criminally underused names, and I think some people can take any name and find a way to twist it into an insult, so I don’t see it as more prone to teasing than others. That’s not to say that teasing doesn’t occur, but to say that there is no name that is not nickname-able. I hope it stays on your list! :slight_smile:

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I’m a Aussie and there’s definitely a pronouciation of Australia that is very similar sounding. It’s normally used my Aussies taking the piss out of their broad accent too. I would steer clear of it on those grounds but [name_f]Astra[/name_f] is fine.

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Lol [name_m]Can[/name_m]’t say I care much for this name… for the reasons/ concerns you’ve listed and because it just sounds slightly medical to me. I think its the ea ending like trachea. Though I do like [name_f]Astrid[/name_f] and it has some concerns too.