B is for Boy

We have finally decided on [name_f]Talullah[/name_f] [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] for a girl (the name is still in the air a bit, but it’s the biggest compromise so far)

Now, we get to think about boy names! Yay! :slight_smile:

He doesn’t like ANY boy names… At all, so his list is more of a “sure, okay” list. [name_f]My[/name_f] list are names that I love and he either isn’t budging on… Or has no comment! Suggestions are appreciated! Really just trying to find some he loves right now…

[name_f]My[/name_f] (pretty long) list that I like:

[name_m]Deveraux[/name_m]
[name_m]Amadeus[/name_m]
[name_m]Julian[/name_m]
[name_m]Harvey[/name_m]
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m]
[name_m]Frederick[/name_m]
Syler
[name_m]Heathcliff[/name_m]
[name_m]Maximillian[/name_m]
[name_m]Tanner[/name_m]
Aleron
[name_m]Griffin[/name_m]
[name_u]Leland[/name_u]
[name_m]Sean[/name_m]
[name_m]Osiris[/name_m]
Pogue
[name_m]Miles[/name_m]
[name_u]Roy[/name_u]
[name_u]Emmett[/name_u]

His sadly short list:
[name_m]Leo[/name_m]
[name_m]David[/name_m]
[name_m]Tobias[/name_m]
[name_m]Wyatt[/name_m]

[name_f]My[/name_f] [name_m]FAVORITE[/name_m] names are [name_m]Deveraux[/name_m] and [name_m]Amadeus[/name_m]… He likes them, but thinks it’s just “too much”

[name_f]Talullah[/name_f] [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] was our compromise because I love [name_f]Talullah[/name_f], and [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] honors his late grandmother. As of now, we have noone we’d like to honor for the middle name. I am also not a fan of naming after family anyways :slight_smile:

I really love his list!! [name_m]David[/name_m] and [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] are fantastic! From your list, I like: [name_m]Griffin[/name_m], [name_m]Oliver[/name_m], [name_u]Emmett[/name_u], [name_u]Leland[/name_u], and [name_u]Roy[/name_u].

I love [name_m]Deveraux[/name_m], [name_m]Amadeus[/name_m], [name_m]Frederick[/name_m], [name_m]Heathcliff[/name_m], [name_m]Griffin[/name_m], [name_u]Emmett[/name_u], [name_m]Leo[/name_m] and [name_m]Tobias[/name_m].

It seems he likes shorter, more common names. What if you compromised by having a long name with a short nickname that he can use day-to-day?

e.g Leonidus / [name_m]Leonardo[/name_m] nn [name_m]Leo[/name_m]
[name_m]Maximillian[/name_m] nn [name_u]Max[/name_u]
[name_m]Frederick[/name_m] nn [name_u]Freddy[/name_u]?

Other suggestions:
You like [name_m]Miles[/name_m], he likes [name_m]Leo[/name_m] - what about [name_m]Milo[/name_m]?
You like [name_m]Deveraux[/name_m], he likes [name_m]David[/name_m] - what about [name_u]Devin[/name_u]? [name_m]Davian[/name_m]?
You like [name_m]Amadeus[/name_m], he likes [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] - what about [name_m]Amias[/name_m]? [name_m]Alpheus[/name_m]? [name_m]Atticus[/name_m]? [name_m]Thaddeus[/name_m]?

He may also like:
[name_u]Arlo[/name_u], [name_m]Hugo[/name_m], [name_m]Jasper[/name_m], [name_m]Levi[/name_m], [name_u]Theo[/name_u], [name_u]Elias[/name_u], [name_m]Patrick[/name_m], [name_m]Ezra[/name_m], [name_m]Oscar[/name_m], [name_u]Elliott[/name_u], [name_u]Everett[/name_u], [name_m]Silas[/name_m] - do you like any of those?

Freddiethepink:
[name_m]Atticus[/name_m] and [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] are maybes… Any other ideas? I honestly feel that our tastes are just polar opposites!

I take that last comment back.
He only liked [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] and [name_m]Silas[/name_m]…

If he likes [name_m]Leo[/name_m] but you want something “more”, how about [name_m]Leonard[/name_m] or [name_m]Leopold[/name_m]?
I second [name_m]Silas[/name_m] - but then I would :slight_smile:
Or if you lilke Heathcliffe but he finds it “too much” - how about just [name_m]Heath[/name_m]?

I don’t like any long form of [name_m]Leo[/name_m] that I have ever come across. I do like [name_m]Leo[/name_m], but never enough for it to stand on his own.
He likes [name_m]Silas[/name_m], I don’t. And He doesn’t like [name_m]Heathcliff[/name_m], but is considering the idea of a longer name with a “cool” nickname. Lol

What about [name_m]Jeremiah[/name_m] or [name_m]Jebediah[/name_m]?
[name_u]Jem[/name_u], [name_f]Jez[/name_f] and [name_m]Jeb[/name_m] are cute and cool nns :slight_smile:

Lol I was reading aloud, and hear him say “nope and nope.” Haha also, I [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_u]Jem[/name_u]… [name_u]Love[/name_u] it, my late father was a [name_m]Jim[/name_m]… But he thinks it sounds girly :frowning:

My top names from your list are [name_m]Deveraux[/name_m], [name_u]Emmett[/name_u], and [name_m]Amadeus[/name_m].

My favorites from HIS list are [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] and [name_m]Leo[/name_m].

I like [name_m]Leo[/name_m], but wonder if you both might like [name_m]Lennox[/name_m], and that could be shortened to [name_m]Leo[/name_m] or maybe [name_u]Leighton[/name_u], which could be shortened to [name_m]Leo[/name_m] as well.

What about: [name_m]Tobin[/name_m], [name_m]Davis[/name_m], [name_m]Davian[/name_m], [name_m]Lachlan[/name_m], [name_m]Eamon[/name_m] ( [name_m]AIMon[/name_m] )

Or: [name_m]Raphael[/name_m] nn [name_m]Hayes[/name_m], [name_u]Theo[/name_u], [name_u]Seth[/name_u], [name_m]Santiago[/name_m] ( nn [name_m]Santos[/name_m] ), [name_m]Santos[/name_m], [name_u]Rhys[/name_u], [name_m]Malachi[/name_m]

[name_u]Flynn[/name_u], [name_u]Kai[/name_u], [name_m]Olsen[/name_m], [name_m]Octavian[/name_m], [name_m]Vincent[/name_m], [name_u]Schuyler[/name_u], [name_m]Merrick[/name_m], [name_m]Maverick[/name_m], Emrick

[name_m]Quintin[/name_m], [name_m]Quinlan[/name_m], [name_m]Josiah[/name_m]

So I know you said you weren’t considering honoring anyone with a boys middle name but, since his grandmother [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] did just die, and using her name as a mn helped you get him to soften up on names he might consider -> have you suggested or considered using a masculine form of [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] for a boys mn? You could still honor his grandmother with this baby regardless of gender… Everything from the traditional [name_m]Charles[/name_m] to the Danish [name_m]Kalle[/name_m] and Spanish [name_m]Carlos[/name_m] could work. [name_m]Even[/name_m] maybe something more fanciful like Charlemagne if you found that interesting. [name_m]Just[/name_m] a suggestion.

Instead of [name_m]Leo[/name_m] how about [name_m]Leon[/name_m]? It’s a little less popular than [name_m]Leo[/name_m] but still has that pop culture/hip feel due to the band Kings of [name_m]Leon[/name_m]. (I personally love [name_m]Leonidas[/name_m] nn [name_m]Leon[/name_m] and hate the whole thing with nn [name_m]Leo[/name_m] - but I’m weird like that).

Other suggestions: [name_m]Cedric[/name_m], [name_m]Enzo[/name_m] (Or [name_m]Vincenzo[/name_m], [name_m]Lorenz[/name_m] nn [name_m]Enzo[/name_m]), [name_m]Felix[/name_m], [name_u]Elias[/name_u], [name_m]Atlas[/name_m], [name_m]Bruce[/name_m] (like Batman and the Hulk)/[name_u]Bryce[/name_u], [name_m]William[/name_m] nn [name_m]Liam[/name_m], [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] nn [name_m]Thor[/name_m], [name_u]Theo[/name_u], [name_u]Teddy[/name_u], (Actually any name with a tor/thor could go with nn [name_m]Thor[/name_m] - which seems to be generally cool and manly - so [name_m]Hector[/name_m] might work), [name_m]Atlas[/name_m], Ender

Otherwise, what is your hubby into? It might help with coming up with suggestions. Big sports fan? Nonfiction reader? Sci-Fi nerd? [name_m]How[/name_m] about you? Maybe there is the perfect name out there that can be nostalgic for both or either of you that the other really likes as well.

Thank you for your suggestions! I will see if he likes any! :slight_smile:

As far as honoring the grandmother… I really do NOT like “honoring people” with my child’s name… I am not fond of doing it for the girl, but I am not wanting to be insensitive even more. Also, if it were the case of having to do it. We would use a different grandparent :slight_smile:

Currently he likes “[name_u]Billy[/name_u]” lol I have noooo idea why… All I can think of is [name_u]Billy[/name_u] [name_m]Zane[/name_m] and the [name_u]Billy[/name_u]&[name_f]Mandy[/name_f] show. Haha

I am more into names like [name_m]Deveraux[/name_m], [name_m]Amadeus[/name_m], Pogue, [name_m]Bastien[/name_m], [name_m]Claudius[/name_m], And my rare love for [name_m]Tanner[/name_m] and [name_u]Emmett[/name_u]!