Sorry to be the bearer of bad, news, but looks like your impression is pretty accurate.
According to the SSA’s data for popular baby names, [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] for a boy ranks #371 and has been falling for the past decade.
For girls, [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] ranks popularity #59, down from #10 in 2000.
I always thought of [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] more as a boy name than girl name, but it would appear that the rest of the country thinks otherwise. I suppose the popularity of [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] Swift only boosts the use for girls.
Now, the similar [name_u]Tyler[/name_u] is at #63 for boys, down from #10 in 2000. For girls, their popularity numbers dropped below the Top 1000 way back in 2008.
I think it would be fine to use [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] on a boy if it’s your favorite. Especially if it’s a family name or something. If it bothers you that [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] is pretty likely to be taken for a girl at first, [name_u]Tyler[/name_u] is a good option.
Have you thought about suggesting other ER/ OR names to him…
[name_u]Tyler[/name_u] like saracita00 has said
Only other suggestion i can think of that isn’t too indifferent to [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] is [name_f]Baylor[/name_f] - [name_u]Bay[/name_u] [nature nickname]
I would have to agree it’s primarily used on girls these days. Depends on whether that bothers you and your husband. I know lots of people who like [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] because it lends itself to the nickname ‘[name_u]Tay[/name_u]/[name_u]Taye[/name_u]’ which is a lovely sound.
Would you consider just [name_u]Taye[/name_u] for your son? I think that would work a lot better and is way less common. Or maybe [name_u]Tate[/name_u]?
I [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] on a boy. I don’t have children myself and I imagine whether it would be seen as a girl name would vary by region. [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] on a boy feels almost refreshing to me now, since I’ve seen/heard of it being used on girls so much in the last decade or so, and while it has seen more use on girls lately, I don’t think people would be shocked to see it used on a boy. [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] [name_u]Michael[/name_u] is a great, solid combo.