Baby girl due in 5 weeks - need your help!

Hello -
We’re expecting a baby girl in 5 weeks and after weeks (months!) of trying to find the perfect name, my husband and I still can’t agree on one! We have two boys - [name_m]Bennett[/name_m] and [name_m]Foster[/name_m]. I love the unique but surname/traditional sound of their names, and want to find a girl name that fits in well with that style. I tend to prefer classic (my husband calls them “old lady”) names, and also like the idea of another surname, but am worried about the trendiness of names like [name_u]Emerson[/name_u] and [name_u]Harper[/name_u].

Here are my favorites, most of which have already been vetoed, but this should give you an idea of my preferences - would love your input/suggestions!! Middle name will likely be [name_f]Mae[/name_f] after my [name_f]MIL[/name_f] or [name_f]Lydia[/name_f] after my grandmother. Thanks in advance!

Classics:
[name_f]Willa[/name_f]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_u]Evelyn[/name_u]
[name_f]Vivienne[/name_f]
[name_f]Claire[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Amelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f]

Surnames:
[name_u]Emerson[/name_u]
[name_u]Harper[/name_u]
[name_u]Quinn[/name_u]
[name_u]Kennedy[/name_u]

Side note, love the nicknames “[name_f]Evie[/name_f]” and “[name_f]Emme[/name_f]”

Congratulations! I love your sons’ names :slight_smile:
Of what you listed, I like [name_f]Willa[/name_f] and [name_u]Evelyn[/name_u] the most: they’re probably the least trendy and match your boys so well. Since [name_m]Bennett[/name_m] and [name_m]Foster[/name_m] are both surname names, I’d probably consider making that protocol for boys and using classics for girls: otherwise, you’ll lock yourself into a pattern that might be difficult to keep up. Of course, if you’re not planning on having more kids (or many more) that stops being an issue, but I thought I should mention it.

Other ideas:
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m], and [name_f]Beatrice[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m], and [name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m], and [name_f]Clara[/name_f] (I know [name_f]Claire[/name_f] is on your list, but I think this one matches better and is also less popular)
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m], and [name_f]Delia[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m], and [name_f]Flora[/name_f] / [name_f]Florence[/name_f] ([name_f]Florrie[/name_f] seems like your kind of nickname, maybe?)
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m], and [name_f]Georgia[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m], and [name_f]Imogen[/name_f] (Not sure how you’d spell it, but you could definitely get your [name_f]Emme[/name_f] fix here)
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m], and [name_f]Josephine[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m], and [name_f]Margaret[/name_f] (you could go [name_f]Maggie[/name_f], [name_f]Molly[/name_f], [name_f]Polly[/name_f], [name_f]Daisy[/name_f]… all kinds of things)
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m], and [name_f]Victoria[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and [name_f]Virginia[/name_f]

[name_u]Cassidy[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Delaney[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Jane[/name_f] [name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_f]Valerie[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]

[name_u]Cassidy[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Delaney[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Jane[/name_f] [name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_f]Valerie[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]

Out of your lists I like from the Classics [name_u]Evelyn[/name_u] and [name_f]Vivienne[/name_f] the best and from the Surnames I like [name_u]Kennedy[/name_u] the best.

Names for nn [name_f]Emme[/name_f]:
[name_f]Emilia[/name_f]/[name_f]Emelia[/name_f]
[name_u]Emery[/name_u]/[name_u]Emory[/name_u]
[name_f]Emmaline[/name_f]/[name_f]Emaline[/name_f]
[name_f]Emmalyn[/name_f]/[name_f]Emalyn[/name_f]
[name_f]Emmanuelle[/name_f]/[name_f]Emanuelle[/name_f]
[name_f]Emanuela[/name_f]/[name_f]Emanuella[/name_f]
[name_u]Ember[/name_u]
[name_f]Emberly[/name_f]
[name_u]Embry[/name_u]
[name_f]Emerald[/name_f]
[name_f]Emeralda[/name_f]

Names for nn [name_f]Evie[/name_f]:
[name_f]Evangeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Evita[/name_f]
[name_f]Evanna[/name_f]
[name_u]Everly[/name_u]
[name_f]Evette[/name_f]
[name_f]Evonne[/name_f]
[name_f]Genevieve[/name_f]
[name_f]Neve[/name_f]

Surnames:
[name_f]Anniston[/name_f]/Aniston
[name_u]Darby[/name_u]
[name_u]Fallon[/name_u]
[name_u]Laine[/name_u]/[name_u]Lane[/name_u]
[name_f]Mallory[/name_f]
[name_u]Sloane[/name_u]
[name_u]Delaney[/name_u]
[name_u]Marley[/name_u]
[name_m]Prentice[/name_m]
[name_u]Sawyer[/name_u]
[name_f]Winslet[/name_f] (nn [name_f]Winnie[/name_f])
[name_u]Wylie[/name_u]

I like pp suggestions of [name_u]Delaney[/name_u]!

[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…
[name_f]Isla[/name_f]
[name_f]Katherine[/name_f]
[name_f]Charlene[/name_f]
[name_f]Joanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f]
[name_f]Sophie[/name_f]
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_f]Leona[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleni[/name_f]
[name_f]Claudia[/name_f]
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f]
[name_f]Norah[/name_f]
[name_f]Madeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f]
[name_u]Avery[/name_u]

[name_f]Lydia[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f] would be the perfect choice.

[name_u]Simone[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_m]Pruitt[/name_m] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Halsey[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Cyrilla[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_m]Jupiter[/name_m] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]

[name_f]Emmeline[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f] (nn [name_f]Emme[/name_f]) is such a gorgeous name and goes so well with your boys!

What names does your husband like?

If you like the nickname “[name_f]Emme[/name_f]”, maybe try [name_f]Emmeline[/name_f]!

What about:

[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Emma[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Camilla[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Lucia[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Cecilia[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Juliet[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Isabelle[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Grace[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Daisy[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Ginger[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Rose[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Patience[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Olivia[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Cordelia[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Cornelia[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Ava[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Ella[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Henrietta[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Adeline[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Annalise[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Alberta[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Constance[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Auden[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Ellery[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Shea[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_m]Kerrigan[/name_m]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Riley[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Mackenzie[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Teagan[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Piper[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Lena[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Lila[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Emilie[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Paulette[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Lucille[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Nora[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Aimee[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Celeste[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_f]Audrey[/name_f]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Kendall[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Peyton[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Addison[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Aubrey[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Foster[/name_m] and…[name_u]Finley[/name_u]

I would definitely go with more classic/vintage girl names over a surname for a girl with your boys [name_m]Bennett[/name_m] & [name_m]Foster[/name_m]. Of your choices, I like [name_u]Evelyn[/name_u], [name_f]Vivienne[/name_f] (I think you could use [name_f]Evie[/name_f] as a nn!) and [name_f]Claire[/name_f]. I like the suggestion of [name_f]Clara[/name_f]. And I love the suggestion of [name_f]Lydia[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f] - that would be a beautiful fit!

Thanks so much for your suggestions! :slight_smile:

Suggestions. Sorry if there are any repeats.

[name_f]Audrey[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Georgia[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Anneliese[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Laura[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Arden[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Kenley[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Henley[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Sienna[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Flynn[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosa[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Zola[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Charlise[/name_f] [name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_f]Summer[/name_f] [name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_u]London[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Arielle[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Ruelle[/name_f] [name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_f]Tahlia[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
Savannah Mae

[name_u]Everly[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Hartley[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Delaney[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_m]Callaway[/name_m] [name_f]Lydia[/name_f]

[name_f]Isla[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Georgette[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Viola[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Ren[/name_u]ée [name_f]Lydia[/name_f]

[name_u]Piper[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Kennedy[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Kingsley[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]

There have been a lot of great suggestions. I particularly like [name_f]Caroline[/name_f] on the classic side. One suggestion for a surname that I don’t think is too trendy would be [name_u]Ellison[/name_u], or [name_u]Ellis[/name_u] for short. That was on my list, but got vetoed :slight_smile:

Good luck!

I have seen a few suggestions of [name_f]Emmeline[/name_f], which is really growing on me! [name_m]How[/name_m] would you pronounce it? [name_f]Emme[/name_f]-line or [name_f]Emme[/name_f]-lean?

Thanks!!