[name]Ah[/name], yes, the woman who chose [name]Violet[/name] [name]Catherine[/name] and it just didn’t fit. A beautiful name, but sometimes that just isn’t enough.
I couldn’t agree with your post more. There are so many things that are considered when naming a child - names you’ve loved since childhood, names the father loves, input from family and friends, input from strangers, the surname, family names, names already taken by people in the family, and the list goes on and on! To find a name that both parents love - and the rest of the family at least agrees with - by the time you consider all of those things is a miracle to say the least!
So, let me get this straight. You - I’ll assume your name is [name]Ellen[/name] - have a daughter named [name]Catherine[/name], who has a daughter named [name]Emma[/name] (the baby’s mother), who has a sister with the middle name [name]Jane[/name]. So, [name]Emma[/name] is choosing to name her daughter after two important people in her life - her mother and her sister - to some extent. That truly is lovely, I must say. I was actually going to suggest that [name]Emma[/name] could reverse the name and name her little girl [name]Catherine[/name] [name]Jane[/name] [name]Smith[/name], as [name]Catherine[/name] [name]Smith[/name] is more appealing - at least to me - than [name]Jane[/name] [name]Smith[/name]. But, I sense that [name]Emma[/name] might feel odd about giving her daughter her mother’s first name. Yet, the baby could go by something else - [name]Cate[/name], [name]Catie[/name], [name]Rina[/name], or even [name]Jane[/name]. I happen to know a girl - one of my very close friends - whose name is [name]Catherine[/name]. Her mother, too, is [name]Catherine[/name], and my friend has expressed interest in naming her first daughter [name]Catherine[/name] as well. So, I guess it CAN be done!
[name]EDIT[/name]: YOU [name]SAID[/name] YOU WERE THE GREAT-GRANDMOTHER, SO YOUR DAUGHTER, [name]CATHERINE[/name], IS THE GRANDMOTHER, RIGHT? SO I GOT THIS ALL WRONG! SORRY.
Like you said, sometimes the name you keep coming back to ends up being the one, as if by fate. If that proves true in this situation, then so be it.
[name]Just[/name] one last question. Is [name]Smith[/name] the baby’s father’s name, or is it [name]Emma[/name]'s last name? Has [name]Emma[/name] considered a hyphenated last name for her child(ren)? This could change things around - for the better, in my opinion - considerably.
I’m sorry if these posts are bothersome or nosy. Sometimes I get caught up in a particular situation or thread - or mommy-to-be - for some reason and can’t resist responding, and then I end up monopolizing the thread. So, I apologize for that.
Good luck with this, and keep us all posted.