I am re-posting this question to a different area.
[name]Hi[/name], Swatkins! I’m sorry about your remorse, but I’m glad that your husband likes the name. [name]Do[/name] you call her [name]Ellie[/name]? Does she have a feminine middle name you can use as a nickname? I’m sure she’s a darling little [name]Ellis[/name], and have no doubt that you’ll find great names for your future children, so don’t worry.
I think this post would be viewed by more readers/posters if you put it in the “Talk About Names” section. (I don’t think this section is as heavily traveled, and don’t want you to think you’re being ignored!)