[name_f]Welcome[/name_f]!
Soppressata is an awesome (if semi-challenging) name to work with. [name_u]Luca[/name_u] sounds great with it.
I don’t know how popular is too popular for you - looking at the SSA’s 2013 list, [name_f]Eloise[/name_f] was #338 and [name_f]Isla[/name_f] was #167. [name_u]Sloane[/name_u] is #406, [name_f]Willa[/name_f] and [name_f]Mira[/name_f] are in the 600s and [name_f]Serafina[/name_f] isn’t in the top 1000. Different names can get really popular in different areas, which the national list doesn’t show, so if you feel like you’re hearing a name a lot in your area, go by that instead of the national list. For comparison’s sake, [name_u]Luca[/name_u] was #202 for 2013, so currently it’s a bit less popular than [name_f]Isla[/name_f] but more popular than the others on your list.
I respectfully disagree that another name that ends in A would set you up for an unbreakable pattern if you have more children later on. Names ending in “a” are pretty common, especially among girls, and personally I don’t think it would faze me at all to meet siblings named [name_u]Luca[/name_u], [name_f]Willa[/name_f], and [name_f]Maeve[/name_f]. I definitely wouldn’t think [name_f]Maeve[/name_f] got the short end of the stick and must feel very left out. If they all ended in X, I’d probably notice, but not A.
I don’t think any of [name_f]Willa[/name_f], [name_f]Mira[/name_f] or [name_f]Isla[/name_f] sounds too matchy with [name_u]Luca[/name_u].
I do agree that [name_u]Sloane[/name_u] doesn’t feel anything like the rest of your list or like [name_u]Luca[/name_u].
[name_f]Serafina[/name_f] feels like [name_u]Sloane[/name_u]'s polar opposite. [name_f]Serafina[/name_f] Soppressata is a whole lot of name… if you want to go for something super frilly, look no further. I’m torn - on one hand I feel like it’s kind of over the top, and on the other hand I love it because it’s kind of over the top!
[name_m]Minor[/name_m] issue with [name_f]Eloise[/name_f]: if your surname starts with “S”, I don’t love how the end of [name_f]Eloise[/name_f] sort of runs into the beginning of it. Not a big deal and probably nothing that most people would notice, but I thought I’d point it out.
Depending on what your last name really is (I take it from the “like” that it isn’t actually Soppressata but is similar to it?), I may or may not want to suggest [name_f]Francesca[/name_f]. [name_f]Francesca[/name_f] Soppressata proably has too much “s” sound and comes around to sounding hissy, and the repeated short “e” sounds bother me a bit, but if those don’t apply to your real surname, maybe consider [name_f]Francesca[/name_f]. I love it with [name_u]Luca[/name_u] and in theory with your surname.
Others you might like:
[name_f]Talia[/name_f]
[name_f]Noelle[/name_f]
[name_f]Maia[/name_f]
[name_f]Helena[/name_f]
[name_f]Corrina[/name_f] or [name_f]Karina[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Vivienne[/name_f]
[name_f]Julia[/name_f] or [name_f]Giulia[/name_f] or [name_f]Juliette[/name_f]
ETA Gemma