Back again, please help me with DH's picks

My DH and I can never agree easily on boy names :slight_smile: I was pushing for [name_u]Elliot[/name_u] to be [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m]'s little brother, but DH just can’t find the love. Almost every name we discuss (and we’ve gone through over 100) he deems either “too common/dull” ([name_m]William[/name_m], [name_m]Samuel[/name_m], [name_m]John[/name_m], [name_m]Charles[/name_m]), “too out there” ([name_u]Arlo[/name_u], [name_u]Rhys[/name_u], [name_m]Declan[/name_m], [name_m]Asher[/name_m], [name_m]Atticus[/name_m], [name_m]Ezra[/name_m], etc). Obviously he has a rather narrow view of “out there!” :wink:

Out of the 100+ we discussed, there were 7 that were “just right” but none that he is sure he absolutely loves:

[name_m]Silas[/name_m]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]
[name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]
[name_m]Jonah[/name_m]
[name_m]Tobias[/name_m]
[name_m]Simon[/name_m] (his name, ha!)
[name_u]August[/name_u]

Favorites? Thoughts on these? I like all of them, though I’m not crazy about having a [name_m]Jr[/name_m] (I do love [name_m]Simon[/name_m] as a middle name though). It really threw me for a loop that he likes [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]! I’ve never really gotten into it, but I’m warming up to it more and more. [name_f]Love[/name_f] [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]…but I know he would end up “[name_m]Ben[/name_m]” and I just can’t decide if I’m ok with that. [name_m]Silas[/name_m] seems too close to [name_m]Simon[/name_m] to me…not sure about [name_m]Tobias[/name_m]…looking forward to hearing your opinions!

I like the sound of [name_u]August[/name_u] [name_m]Simon[/name_m]. [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m] and [name_u]August[/name_u] sound nice together as well.

I think [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m] and [name_u]August[/name_u] sound wonderful together. [name_u]August[/name_u] [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] or [name_u]August[/name_u] [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] are very handsome combos.

I agree that [name_u]August[/name_u] and [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m] sound lovely together. Personally [name_u]August[/name_u] [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] is my favorite combination. I also adore [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] as a first name, but maybe use a nickname, (Bass), when he’s growing up as [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] is rather a heavy name to bear.

Thanks everyone! Is [name_u]August[/name_u] everyone’s favorite? I’d be curious to hear from folks who have children with these names.

My favorite is [name_m]Jonah[/name_m].
I know tons of people on nameberry love [name_u]August[/name_u] but I can’t get into it.

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I’ve never been able to understand the appeal of [name_m]Silas[/name_m] because I really dislike the sound of it
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] is great and goes well with [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m] but the only Sebastians I’ve know have gone by [name_m]Seb[/name_m] which, personally, I can’t stand
[name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] I love but I’m also not that keen on the nn [name_m]Ben[/name_m], what about nn [name_m]Benji[/name_m]?
[name_m]Jonah[/name_m] I think sounds good with [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m] and is a great name
[name_m]Tobias[/name_m] is also nice, I don’t think you could go wrong with [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m], [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m], [name_m]Jonah[/name_m] or [name_m]Tobias[/name_m], they are all lovely
I am also not a fan of Juniors, have you considered anything similar to Simon in meaning/sound? The only one I can think of is [name_m]Simeon[/name_m] but it’s so similar to [name_m]Simon[/name_m] that you may as well just go with [name_m]Simon[/name_m]! I’m not sure [name_m]Simon[/name_m] flows that well with any of your favourite names but my favourite is probably [name_m]Jonah[/name_m] [name_m]Simon[/name_m] or [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] [name_m]Simon[/name_m]
[name_u]August[/name_u] I have not been able to like for some reason, do you like [name_m]Augustus[/name_m]?

I have a [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] and we’d considered the name [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m] for our third little boy :slight_smile: [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] goes by [name_m]Ben[/name_m] (or, now while he is little, [name_m]Benny[/name_m]) and we like the nickname so it wasn’t an issue for us. I agree that it would be difficult to avoid [name_m]Ben[/name_m]. However, a friend of mine has a teenage [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] who goes by [name_u]Jamie[/name_u], and has never gone by [name_m]Ben[/name_m], so that’s an option.

I like [name_m]Simon[/name_m], [name_u]August[/name_u] and [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] with [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m], as well.

[name_m]Silas[/name_m], [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m], and [name_m]Jonah[/name_m] are my favorites! I love [name_m]Simon[/name_m], but not big on [name_m]Jr[/name_m]'s.

[name_m]Silas[/name_m] [name_u]Elliot[/name_u] would be my #1 pick for a little brother to [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m]. So handsome, and it would age well!

[name_m]Jonah[/name_m] [name_m]Simon[/name_m] / [name_m]Jonah[/name_m] [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] has my #2.

Thank you, berries! You always have great taste and ideas :slight_smile:

I love the suggestion of [name_m]Barnaby[/name_m]! It’s so spunky! Not sure if DH will go for it, but it’s worth a shot. Maybe as a middle…[name_u]August[/name_u] [name_m]Barnaby[/name_m] sounds awfully handsome. Or [name_m]Barnaby[/name_m] [name_m]Simon[/name_m]…wonder if I could get away with the nn [name_m]Bruno[/name_m]??

At the moment, I’m really loving [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] ([name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] [name_m]Simon[/name_m] is just too much alliteration/same endings). I also love the idea of [name_m]Jonah[/name_m] [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]. [name_m]Silas[/name_m] [name_u]Elliot[/name_u] is also fantastic! I do think [name_m]Benji[/name_m] is a cute nn for [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]…not too keen on [name_u]Jamie[/name_u].

I like [name_u]August[/name_u] [name_m]Simon[/name_m] and [name_m]Jonah[/name_m] [name_m]Simon[/name_m] as several pp’s have mentioned, but something about the fact that both the fn and mn are two syllables kind of bugs me.

Thoughts on the combos I’ve mentioned here?