I’ve got problems.
Our top boy name is [name]Crispin[/name], Y middle name, with nn [name]Cy[/name]. There’s also [name]Vincent[/name], but he’s strictly younger brother material. If we have two boys, there’s no problem.
Our two girl names are neck-and-neck - [name]Imogen[/name] Dear (nn [name]Ginger[/name]) and [name]Mab[/name] [name]Margaret[/name]. [name]Imogen[/name] shares a namesake with [name]Crispin[/name] (my grandmother [name]Christine[/name] aka “Dear”) It seems odd to me to have two children named after the same relative, and [name]Imogen[/name] and [name]Crispin[/name] are a bit rhymey, so I’m unsure about these two as a pair. Seems to me they’d work in a three-kid family, but as a pair they’re maybe too matchy.
As it stands, if I were to give birth to an [name]Imogen[/name]/[name]Ginger[/name] and adopt a second girl (I may be starting ttc late) that adopted daughter would be named [name]Mab[/name] (if she were young enough to be renamed.) I love [name]Mab[/name], but it strikes me as a lot of otherness to put on an adopted kid. DH disagrees, citing the Mercutio speech about [name]Mab[/name] being “the fairies’ midwife,” riding in a hazelnut chariot drawn by sprites, filling people’s heads with dreams and desires. He thinks the name could be a link to the magical aspect of adoption, the child being this precious, dreamed-of gift from a mostly unknown source. I’m not so sure about his romantic notions.
What if… a third girl’s name were thrown into the mix?
[name]Beatrix[/name], nickname [name]Bette[/name] (prn “[name]Betty[/name]”) I have always loved [name]Bette[/name] but never thought of it for a child of my own. [name]Beatrix[/name] may be a bit trendier than my other choices (in the USA) but it’s a great name. It feels warm and familiar to me. My mother would be overjoyed about a [name]Beatrix[/name].
[name]Ginger[/name], [name]Bette[/name], [name]Cy[/name], [name]Vinny[/name]… vintage nickname heaven.
[name]Mab[/name] and [name]Imogen[/name]?
[name]Mab[/name] and [name]Crispin[/name]?
[name]Crispin[/name] and [name]Beatrix[/name]? or [name]Crispin[/name] and [name]Mab[/name]?
[name]Beatrix[/name] and [name]Imogen[/name]? (though if we had a boy after [name]Beatrix[/name], we’d be left without [name]Imogen[/name] OR [name]Mab[/name], which might break my heart)
[name]Beatrix[/name] and [name]Crispin[/name]? …Not too shabby, but… NO [name]IMOGEN[/name]/[name]GINGER[/name]?
Basically, my questions are:
I can’t use [name]Imogen[/name] first, can I?
[name]Do[/name] you think it’s odd to have different criteria for an adopted child’s name?
What are you’re favorite pairings of these four names? (excluding [name]Vincent[/name]) G/G, B/G, and G/B.
What do you think of [name]Beatrix[/name]? In general? In my sibset?
I need a middle for [name]Beatrix[/name] that’s [name]Margaret[/name]/[name]Maggie[/name]-related, or just [name]Margaret[/name]/[name]Maggie[/name].
Any other brilliant suggestions?
Confused? I know I am. Thanks for reading, beautiful Berries!