I’m so sorry to reply so late! Thank you so much for these thoughtful lists — you get my type for sure.
From some inspiration from these lists as well as some browsing and family tree research, we have the following list but no decision yet at all. I’d love some feedback! I’ve included our reasons for hesitancy, too.
Louis — my husband LOVES “Lou”, but I want a formal name. I love the “Louie” pronunciation but worry this wouldn’t go over well in the US. Not sure I like the “Lewis” pronunciation.
Hugh — I thought this was a nice compromise on my love for Andrew/Drew and husband’s love for Lou. He’s not tickled by this option but hasn’t crossed it off. I like the Midcentury vibe and could see it growing on me super fast once I see a baby Hugh’s face
Merrick — love this. It’s a surname on my mom’s side and also sounds like my mom’s first name. We like any nickname we could think of (Mick, Mickey, Rick, Rickey). Only hold up is that I worry how this slightly obscure name pairs with our firstborn, Dean. Is Merrick too much of an outlier name for our family of common names? I like how they sound together, just wondering if they have to be equally common. And would I be setting him up for a lifetime of people mishearing his name as Eric or Derek? Or misspellings?
Kenneth — I love this one. Fits so well, and I think Kenny is super cute. However, “Ken” rhymes with my husband’s name and sounds a little too similar to firstborn, Dean. Do I run the risk of him going by Ken and living with a Ben, Dean, Ken trio? Not sure I like that. I’d be fine with Kenneth/Kenny.
Simon — checks all the boxes, no concerns like we have with the other name. Just doesn’t get us as excited as other names. Wondering if it would grow on us with time once there’s a baby in our arms with the name?
Lachlan — such a cool name and honors both of our roots (Scottish term to describe the Vikings) but feels like we’d be pigeon-holing ourselves for a third child to have a Celtic name.
Wade — my husband would go this route in a heartbeat. Does it sound like a cowboy name? That’s my issue. I like Dean for its sophisticated vibe, but I feel Wade pulls the sibset towards country western too much for my taste. Thoughts?
Harrison, Desmond, Henrik and Russell were mentioned. I absolutely love all of these but all are names of family members in my generation. Boooo!
Any input is SO appreciated! You’ve all been so helpful already!