[name_m]Just[/name_m] [name_m]Elliott[/name_m] and [name_m]Dallas[/name_m] which i would say are gender neutral tbh. I especially feel weird about [name_f]Aditya[/name_f] and [name_m]Ilya[/name_m] because it feels like appropriating another language/cultural name and applying [name_m]English[/name_m] gender norms to it like not all names that end in “a” are feminine in other languages. I am not against BNOG but I do get a little prickly about how it only ever seems to go one way and kind of feels like it’s wishing the girl was less feminine or even rather a boy.
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