I wouldn’t use a one syllable name because it doesn’t flow well with the last name. Aside from that, I like [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] the best from the list.
I really like [name_u]Wade[/name_u]! It is pretty short paired with a short last name, but I think it works really well in this case. [name_u]Wade[/name_u] has a sort of rugged gravitas in my opinion, so it pulls it off well.
[name_m]Trevor[/name_m] is also very cool and handsome. It does sound kind close to [name_u]Everett[/name_u] to my ears though.
I think [name_m]Griffin[/name_m], [name_u]Toby[/name_u], and [name_m]Trevor[/name_m] work best with your last name and with the brothers’ names. They are all great choices!