@IndiaGo oh I should have put [name_m]Rufus[/name_m] on my ācanāt useā list - I utterly adore him but husband has a relative with the name
also love [name_m]Rupert[/name_m], [name_u]Auberon[/name_u], [name_m]Stellan[/name_m] and [name_m]Tobias[/name_m]!
@somemelodioussonnet I really like [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] but it has been vetoed! [name_m]Kenneth[/name_m] is growing on me, it has a great meaning.
@tori101 love [name_u]Oberon[/name_u], and Iām quite into [name_m]Magnus[/name_m] and [name_m]Maximilian[/name_m] too!
@Shits_Giggles oh [name_u]Griffin[/name_u] is so lovely and cuddly, I also really like [name_u]Corin[/name_u] and [name_m]Crispin[/name_m]
@benton_s_mama I know arenāt they fab together! We think family would intuitively shorten it to [name_u]Cass[/name_u] which is a bit close to my husbandās name. I might have to stop caring about that because I love it so much haha. [name_m]Ambrose[/name_m] is another big favourite (esp nn Bram) but sadly a family member has used it. [name_u]Love[/name_u] all your suggestions, [name_m]Hugo[/name_m] was our first boy crush and he still has a special place in my heart!
@Greyblue fab list, Iām having a bit of a [name_m]Ferdinand[/name_m] phase at the moment! His meaning goes so well with [name_u]Peregrine[/name_u] too. Wish I could get husband on board with [name_m]Sholto[/name_m]. Also loving [name_u]Florian[/name_u], Banquo, [name_u]Oberon[/name_u] and [name_u]Maxwell[/name_u]
@seawillow [name_m]Lysander[/name_m], [name_u]Atlas[/name_u], [name_u]Oleander[/name_u], [name_m]Percival[/name_m] are all fabulous and my particular favourite is [name_m]Valerian[/name_m] 
@marysia [name_u]Leander[/name_u], [name_m]Lysander[/name_m], [name_m]Percival[/name_m], [name_u]Montgomery[/name_u], [name_m]Bartholomew[/name_m]
thanks!
@auroradawn yes! Thatās so interesting and I have so much respect for their excellent name taste, haha
I just really am a nickname person and think it would be odd for me not to have one at all. I think it intuitively shortens to [name_u]Cass[/name_u] which I donāt dislike at all, itās just a bit close to my husbandās name. [name_m]Horatio[/name_m] āRoryā is perfect but itās the beloved favourite boy name of a friend whose husband wonāt let her use it, so I think it would be a bit harsh to āstealā it from her 
@Lauren.Ley wonderful list - Iām a big fan of [name_m]Faramond[/name_m] and [name_u]Valentine[/name_u] and really like [name_m]Edmund[/name_m], [name_m]Hawthorne[/name_m] and [name_m]Archibald[/name_m]