I love your list so very much 
dh: [name_m]Calder[/name_m] [name_m]Sonny[/name_m]
dw: [name_f]Mabel[/name_f] [name_f]Aurinda[/name_f]
ds: [name_m]Audie[/name_m] Bohen
dd: Onella Roam
[name_m]Calder[/name_m] and [name_f]Mabel[/name_f] have [name_m]Audie[/name_m] and [name_f]Nellie[/name_f] 