I think all of these names suit your style. [name_m]Desmond[/name_m], [name_m]Peter[/name_m], [name_m]Soren[/name_m], and [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] feel especially you.
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Darby[/name_f] stands out the most to me. I don’t think it clashes with your list, but it doesn’t fit as well either. Visually it also reminds me of [name_f]Dagny[/name_f], which is such a staple of your girls’ list in my mind that it’s sort of throwing me off as far as [name_f]Darby[/name_f] on your boys’ list? 