Can you suggest names I might like?

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] all

I am looking for a new first name. My first name is [name_f]Laura[/name_f] at the moment. I am planning on changing my name for reasons I won’t go into here except I will say each time someone calls me the name [name_f]Laura[/name_f] I have painful memories. So please don’t try and persuade me to keep the name [name_f]Laura[/name_f] as it simply won’t happen.

Names I have considered in the past…

[name_f]Lucy[/name_f] - I love this name and would use it in a heartbeat. However my sister is using [name_f]Lucia[/name_f] as her futures daughters name so now I can no longer use the name [name_f]Lucy[/name_f].

[name_f]Sophia[/name_f] - To close to my siblings name who passed before I was born. Her name was [name_f]Sofie[/name_f] though.

[name_f]Elisabeth[/name_f] - I prefer [name_f]Elisabeth[/name_f] as a middle name.

[name_f]Elisa[/name_f] - While I like [name_f]Elisa[/name_f] I don’t feel like it’s the one. I prefer [name_f]Elisabeth[/name_f] anyway.

[name_f]Isobel[/name_f] - [name_f]Isobel[/name_f] is a good contender for the first name. I do have a cousin called [name_f]Isabelle[/name_f] though. We never see each other however. She is a third cousin.

[name_f]Louisa[/name_f] - My sister feels it is to close to the name [name_f]Lucia[/name_f] even though [name_f]Louisa[/name_f] and [name_f]Lucia[/name_f] have different origins.

I know I have considered other names for middle names but I won’t mention them here as I am not considering them for the first name. I am looking for a name with history of use. It doesn’t matter about popularity.

One name I am considering now is [name_f]Kayla[/name_f]. Not sure I love it though.

Any suggestions?

Thanks in advance.

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] there! From your list, I like [name_f]Isobel[/name_f] the best. It might also suit you better since you’re now an adult. But here are the names I thought of:

  1. [name_f]Luna[/name_f] - same [name_f]Lu[/name_f] sound as [name_f]Lucia[/name_f]
  2. [name_f]Julia[/name_f]
  3. [name_f]Olivia[/name_f]
  4. [name_f]Louise[/name_f] - maybe eliminating the A sound won’t make it sound similar to [name_f]Lucia[/name_f]
  5. [name_f]Lily[/name_f] or [name_f]Lillian[/name_f]
  6. [name_f]Leila[/name_f] or [name_f]Layla[/name_f] - close to [name_f]Kayla[/name_f]

[name_f]Olivia[/name_f] (or just [name_f]Livia[/name_f])
[name_f]Helena[/name_f] - shares similar meaning with [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] and gives the similar vibe too imo.
[name_f]Amelie[/name_f]
[name_f]Cassia[/name_f]
[name_f]Sylvie[/name_f]/[name_f]Sylvia[/name_f]
[name_f]Fiona[/name_f]
[name_f]Alice[/name_f]
[name_f]Isla[/name_f] - similar to [name_f]Isobel[/name_f] and [name_f]Kayla[/name_f]
[name_f]Viola[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f] - probably my favourite for you. What about keeping [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] as a middle? [name_f]Stella[/name_f] [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] would mean bright star. :slight_smile:

Thank you for the suggestions. I really like [name_f]Olivia[/name_f] and [name_f]Lily[/name_f]. While I like [name_f]Luna[/name_f] I don’t have the confidence to use it for myself. [name_f]Louise[/name_f] is a nice name but I prefer [name_f]Louisa[/name_f]. [name_f]Leila[/name_f] is a good option.

Thank you for the suggestions. I like [name_f]Livia[/name_f] but I think I like [name_f]Olivia[/name_f] more, not sure though so will have to think about that one. [name_f]Helena[/name_f] has been a love of mine for a while now. Not sure why I haven’t added to my list yet. [name_f]Amelie[/name_f] is nice but I prefer [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] I think. [name_f]Cassia[/name_f] is to out there for me. I have never liked [name_f]Sylvie[/name_f] or [name_f]Sylvia[/name_f]. [name_f]Fiona[/name_f] reminds me of Shrek. I have a friend called [name_f]Alice[/name_f] even though she spells it [name_f]Alys[/name_f] so that is out. [name_m]How[/name_m] do you pronounce [name_f]Isla[/name_f]? I really like [name_f]Viola[/name_f] and [name_f]Stella[/name_f]. [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] as a middle name is an option.

You seem to like classic names…

[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f]
[name_f]Claire[/name_f]
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f]
[name_f]Mathilda[/name_f]/[name_f]Matilda[/name_f]/[name_f]Mathilde[/name_f]
[name_f]Melanie[/name_f]
[name_u]Julie[/name_u]/[name_f]Julia[/name_f]
[name_f]Emily[/name_f]/[name_f]Emilie[/name_f]
[name_f]Emma[/name_f]
[name_f]Audrey[/name_f]
[name_f]Alexandra[/name_f]
[name_f]Juliet[/name_f]/[name_f]Juliette[/name_f]
[name_f]Camilla[/name_f]/[name_f]Camille[/name_f]
[name_f]Agnes[/name_f]
[name_f]Nicole[/name_f]
[name_u]Eloise[/name_u]
[name_f]Margot[/name_f]/[name_f]Margaux[/name_f]
Daphné
[name_f]Diane[/name_f]
[name_f]Agatha[/name_f]

I sure hope you keep [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] in the middle. You love it so much that you also deserve to use it, imo, even not as a first name. [name_f]Isla[/name_f] is pronounced like [name_f]Ayla[/name_f]… so more similar to [name_f]Isobel[/name_f] in looks only and not sound, lol. [name_f]Glad[/name_f] you like [name_f]Viola[/name_f], [name_f]Stella[/name_f] and some others. Good lucking in finding the name. :slight_smile:

Yes you are right I do like classic names. From your suggestions I like [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f], [name_f]Emily[/name_f], [name_f]Emma[/name_f], [name_u]Eloise[/name_u] and [name_f]Margot[/name_f]. Thanks.

My favorites for you are [name_f]Isobel[/name_f] and [name_f]Elisabeth[/name_f] as they are not close to the names of your family. I’d go for something that doesn’t feel out of place on somebody born in your era but still with a classic feel.

Maybe: [name_f]Sara[/name_f], [name_f]Hannah[/name_f], [name_f]Olivia[/name_f], [name_f]Alice[/name_f] or [name_f]Alicia[/name_f], [name_f]Julia[/name_f]/[name_f]Juliet[/name_f], [name_f]Katherine[/name_f]/[name_f]Catherine[/name_f]/[name_f]Kate[/name_f], [name_f]Celia[/name_f], [name_f]Emma[/name_f], [name_f]Gemma[/name_f], [name_f]Madeline[/name_f]/[name_f]Madeleine[/name_f], [name_f]Abigail[/name_f], [name_f]Rose[/name_f] or [name_f]Rosa[/name_f], [name_f]Mia[/name_f], [name_f]Ella[/name_f], [name_f]Stella[/name_f], [name_f]Rebecca[/name_f], [name_f]Rachel[/name_f], [name_f]Jasmine[/name_f], [name_f]Emily[/name_f] or [name_f]Emilia[/name_f], [name_f]Megan[/name_f], [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], [name_f]Erin[/name_f], [name_f]Anna[/name_f], [name_f]Holly[/name_f], [name_f]Leah[/name_f], [name_f]Cara[/name_f], [name_f]Joanna[/name_f], [name_f]Lily[/name_f], [name_f]Nina[/name_f], [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f], [name_f]Zoe[/name_f], [name_f]Chloe[/name_f], [name_f]Georgia[/name_f], [name_f]Victoria[/name_f], [name_f]Alexa[/name_f] or [name_f]Alexandra[/name_f], [name_f]Grace[/name_f], [name_f]Molly[/name_f], [name_f]Claire[/name_f], [name_f]Naomi[/name_f], [name_f]Lydia[/name_f], [name_f]Aimee[/name_f], [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] or [name_f]Ellen[/name_f].

Out of curiosity, what does your family call you now since your name causes you pain? Also, can you go by your middle name?

Thank you for your suggestions. From them I like [name_f]Olivia[/name_f], [name_f]Juliet[/name_f], [name_f]Katherine[/name_f], [name_f]Celia[/name_f], [name_f]Emma[/name_f], [name_f]Stella[/name_f], [name_f]Emily[/name_f], [name_f]Emilia[/name_f], [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], [name_f]Anna[/name_f], [name_f]Lily[/name_f], [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f], [name_f]Chloe[/name_f], [name_f]Grace[/name_f], [name_f]Naomi[/name_f], [name_f]Lydia[/name_f], [name_f]Amelia[/name_f], [name_f]Ellen[/name_f].

I think both [name_f]Isobel[/name_f] and [name_f]Elisabeth[/name_f] would be really lovely choices and for the reasons you have given, the best on your list for you. You could use [name_f]Elisa[/name_f] for a short form of [name_f]Elisabeth[/name_f] sometimes too. I don’t think a 3rd cousin that you rarely see called [name_f]Isabelle[/name_f] is any issue at all! I was concerned when you brought up [name_f]Sophia[/name_f] as an option before that it wouldn’t be a good idea because of your sister [name_f]Sofie[/name_f].

I hope you consider using [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] as a middle name

Besides [name_f]Isobel[/name_f] and [name_f]Elisabeth[/name_f], I second the suggestions of [name_f]Olivia[/name_f], [name_f]Juliet[/name_f], [name_f]Celia[/name_f], [name_f]Emma[/name_f], [name_f]Emily[/name_f], [name_f]Emilia[/name_f], [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], [name_f]Anna[/name_f], [name_f]Lily[/name_f], [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f], [name_f]Grace[/name_f], [name_f]Lydia[/name_f], [name_f]Helena[/name_f] and [name_f]Ellen[/name_f] for you. All of these have a classic charm.

Other ideas: [name_f]Julia[/name_f], [name_f]Anthea[/name_f].

What about:

[name_f]Antonia[/name_f]
[name_u]Alva[/name_u]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_f]Elsa[/name_f]
[name_u]Evelyn[/name_u]
[name_f]Elena[/name_f]
[name_u]Eloise[/name_u]
[name_f]Felicia[/name_f]
[name_f]Gemma[/name_f]
[name_f]Gwendolyn[/name_f]
[name_f]Helene[/name_f]
[name_f]Hermine[/name_f]
[name_f]Isadora[/name_f]
[name_f]Josephine[/name_f]
[name_f]Juliana[/name_f]
[name_f]Leonor[/name_f]
[name_f]Leona[/name_f]
[name_f]Marlena[/name_f]
[name_f]Nora[/name_f]
[name_f]Paulina[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]
[name_f]Susanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Veronica[/name_f]
[name_f]Victoria[/name_f]

Good luck finding your perfect name :slight_smile:

[name_u]Lisa[/name_u] [name_f]Arabel[/name_f] sounds like a good name for you.

[name_f]Lily[/name_f] / [name_f]Lila[/name_f]
[name_f]Jasmine[/name_f] / [name_f]Jessamine[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Romilly[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f] / [name_f]Rosa[/name_f] / [name_f]Rosalie[/name_f] / [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Lumi[/name_f]
[name_f]Eliza[/name_f]
[name_f]Eva[/name_f] / [name_f]Evie[/name_f]
[name_f]Annabel[/name_f] / [name_f]Anneliese[/name_f]
[name_f]Brianna[/name_f]
[name_f]Adeline[/name_f] / [name_f]Adele[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoey[/name_f]
[name_f]Maia[/name_f] / [name_f]Maya[/name_f]
[name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_f]Amara[/name_f]
[name_f]Selene[/name_f]
[name_f]Elena[/name_f]
[name_f]Tamsin[/name_f]
[name_f]Ella[/name_f]
[name_f]Chloe[/name_f]
[name_f]Aria[/name_f]
[name_f]Diana[/name_f]
[name_f]Sarah[/name_f]
[name_f]Annora[/name_f]
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f]
[name_f]Cleo[/name_f]
[name_f]Thalia[/name_f]
[name_f]Marnie[/name_f] / [name_f]Marcie[/name_f] / [name_f]Marcelle[/name_f] / [name_f]Marcella[/name_f]
[name_f]Saffron[/name_f]
[name_f]Tansy[/name_f]
[name_f]Rhea[/name_f]
[name_f]Alyssa[/name_f] / [name_f]Alissa[/name_f] / [name_f]Alessa[/name_f]
[name_f]Alanna[/name_f] / [name_f]Alannah[/name_f]
[name_f]Leanne[/name_f]
[name_f]Imogen[/name_f]
[name_f]Paige[/name_f]
[name_f]Poppy[/name_f]
[name_f]Molly[/name_f]
[name_u]Brooke[/name_u]
[name_f]Gwen[/name_f]
[name_f]Rachel[/name_f]
[name_f]Tessa[/name_f]
[name_f]Natalie[/name_f]
[name_f]Susanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Jocelyn[/name_f]
[name_f]Sabrina[/name_f]
[name_f]Keira[/name_f]
[name_u]Seren[/name_u]
[name_f]Victoria[/name_f]
[name_f]Annabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Lorelei[/name_f]

From your list I really like [name_f]Louisa[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], it has a lovely flow! I pronounce [name_f]Lucia[/name_f] like [name_f]Lu[/name_f]-CHEE-uh and I don’t think that [name_f]Louisa[/name_f] is too close, especially if you use different nns like [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] and [name_f]Lulu[/name_f] (if you use nns in the first place).
Here are some more suggestions:

[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f]
[name_f]Jane[/name_f]
[name_f]Alice[/name_f]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f]
[name_f]Anna[/name_f]
[name_f]Julia[/name_f]
[name_f]Grace[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_f]Margaret[/name_f]
[name_f]Cecilia[/name_f]
[name_f]Cordelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Fiona[/name_f]
[name_f]Georgia[/name_f]
[name_f]Josephine[/name_f]
[name_f]Audrey[/name_f]
[name_f]Isabella[/name_f]
[name_f]Abigail[/name_f]
[name_f]Catherine[/name_f]
[name_f]Emely[/name_f]
[name_f]Ella[/name_f]
[name_f]Annabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Penelope[/name_f]
[name_f]Alyssa[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_f]Madeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Victoria[/name_f]
[name_u]Eloise[/name_u]
[name_f]Matilda[/name_f]
[name_f]Olive[/name_f]
[name_f]Emma[/name_f]
[name_f]Amelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Juliet[/name_f]
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_f]Claire[/name_f]
[name_f]Katherine[/name_f]
[name_f]Adeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f]
[name_f]Ava[/name_f]
[name_f]Flora[/name_f]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f]
[name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_f]Celia[/name_f]
[name_f]Lily[/name_f]
[name_f]Sophie[/name_f]

I’m thinking that something one or two syllables is best, an easy/familiar name or nickname for people to call you and that feels natural to you. Going from [name_f]Laura[/name_f] to [name_f]Evangelina[/name_f] for instance could be a bit of a shocker, but if not, then the sky’s the limit!

[name_m]How[/name_m] about [name_f]Liv[/name_f]? On its own or as a nickname for [name_f]Olivia[/name_f]? The suggestion of [name_f]Lily[/name_f] is perfect too. I picture [name_f]Liv[/name_f] or [name_f]Lily[/name_f] for you.

I really like [name_f]Isla[/name_f] for you, although I don’t pronounce it ‘[name_f]Ayla[/name_f]’ like someone else suggested, I pronounce it ‘Eye-la’.

I also really love [name_f]Louisa[/name_f] from your options and I don’t agree that its too close to [name_f]Lucia[/name_f]

[name_f]Eloisa[/name_f] could be a good substitute for [name_f]Louisa[/name_f].

They call me [name_f]Honey[/name_f] mostly. They used to use [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] but I can’t use that anymore. I was never given a middle name at birth so I can’t use it.