Name chosen! Thanks everyone!
I love [name_m]Deacon[/name_m] & [name_u]Parker[/name_u] / [name_u]Parker[/name_u] & [name_m]Deacon[/name_m]…
[name_u]Corbin[/name_u] was my favourite standalone but with [name_m]Deacon[/name_m] it sounded a bit too similar with the same letter ending. (Also [name_u]Corbin[/name_u] is my favourite spelling variation)
I’d go with [name_u]Parker[/name_u]. I prefer [name_m]Deacon[/name_m] & [name_u]Parker[/name_u] rather than [name_m]Deacon[/name_m] & [name_u]Corbin[/name_u].
I do like a different ending, but [name_u]Parker[/name_u] seems more common and less intriguing to me than [name_m]Deacon[/name_m]. Maybe I just know too many. If it were me, I’d like something a little more unique like [name_u]Corbin[/name_u].
Some ideas: [name_m]Wilder[/name_m], [name_u]Lennox[/name_u], [name_m]Evander[/name_m], [name_m]Archer[/name_m], [name_u]Gardner[/name_u], [name_u]Ellis[/name_u], [name_u]Calder[/name_u], [name_m]Miller[/name_m], [name_u]Porter[/name_u], [name_m]Palmer[/name_m], [name_u]Colby[/name_u], [name_m]Conall[/name_m]…
Good luck!
I love love love all 3 of these names. I would probably go with [name_u]Corbin[/name_u] just because I have seen [name_u]Parker[/name_u] getting used with the girls recently. My best friend does have a boy [name_u]Parker[/name_u] though so it is a total boys name for me.
[name_u]Porter[/name_u] might be another option…
I really like [name_u]Parker[/name_u] [name_u]Corbin[/name_u] [name_m]Ford[/name_m] (I made up a last name to try to sound it all out). I do understand honor names though, as I will be using a lot of them myself. But maybe 2 middle names? [name_u]Parker[/name_u] [name_u]Corbin[/name_u] [name_m]Robert[/name_m] [name_m]Ford[/name_m]. [name_u]Parker[/name_u] [name_m]Charles[/name_m] [name_u]Corbin[/name_u] [name_m]Ford[/name_m]. That way you both sorta get your way. 
[name_u]Corbin[/name_u] for me
I much prefer the name [name_u]Corbin[/name_u] to [name_u]Parker[/name_u]. However, I am not sure if [name_u]Corbin[/name_u] sounds too similar to [name_m]Deacon[/name_m].
[name_u]Parker[/name_u] feels a bit tired and has started going to the girls. [name_u]Corbin[/name_u] fits in terms of uniqueness. If you want suggestions:
[name_m]Callen[/name_m]
[name_m]Preston[/name_m]
[name_m]Lincoln[/name_m]
[name_m]Asher[/name_m]
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m]
Thanks for the help! We’ve made a decision!