Can't seem to compromise!

So I have a ways to go, but I just want to get this over with! Or at least have some ideas. When we FIRST talked names, he hated all of them. Now he likes one.

We have LOTS of names on the list, but he is stuck on [name_f]Miley[/name_f].

Names that I love, and upset that he has vetoed.
[name_f]Talullah[/name_f] (Still crying)
[name_f]Wilhelmina[/name_f] (Still crying.)
[name_f]Bellatrix[/name_f]
[name_u]Waverly[/name_u] (SO sad)
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f]
[name_f]Clover[/name_f]
[name_f]Elektra[/name_f]
[name_u]Echo[/name_u] (Still crying)
[name_f]Elektra[/name_f]
[name_f]Lacey[/name_f]
Yelisaveta (Yup. Tears)

Names that I vetoed, and he is mad about:
[name_f]Elise[/name_f]
[name_f]Senna[/name_f]
[name_u]Blair[/name_u]
[name_f]Talia[/name_f]
[name_f]Brittany[/name_f]
[name_f]Alexa[/name_f]
[name_f]Renesmee[/name_f]
[name_f]Wednesday[/name_f]

(We both still argue all of the names above! Haha)

Our list that we don’t love, but don’t hate:
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Elsa[/name_f]
[name_f]Hermione[/name_f]
Megaera
[name_f]Alana[/name_f]
Agnes (Watched Despicable Me lately, and both love it currently)

I haven’t completely vetoed [name_f]Miley[/name_f], because I do like the name… I just can’t seem to like enough to get over the [name_m]Cyrus[/name_m] issue… He wants the name to be [name_f]Miley[/name_f] [name_u]Valentine[/name_u] (Valentines [name_u]Day[/name_u] is the day I was adopted)

Help? I have a 2nd cousin names [name_u]Rylee[/name_u], and although I [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_u]Riley[/name_u] for a girl… He’s a boy, and I see him often… As much as I wish I could do it, I know Id get scolded! Haha and I dislike [name_u]Kiley[/name_u].
Help? Please… The picture is our “morph baby!”

P.s.
[name_f]My[/name_f] [name_m]FAVORITE[/name_m] name is [name_f]Talullah[/name_f], and he has already said no with having her [name_f]Talullah[/name_f] nickname [name_f]Talia[/name_f], [name_u]Tallie[/name_u], Terminator etc. He hates flower names, AND I [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] THEM.

Since you love flower names, how about other word names???
Lisbon
[name_u]Sunny[/name_u]
[name_f]Snow[/name_f]
[name_f]Sunshine[/name_f]
[name_f]Fay[/name_f]

From your list, my favorite is [name_f]Agnes[/name_f].

[name_f]My[/name_f] 3.5 year old is [name_f]Tallulah[/name_f] and her nicknames are [name_f]Lulu[/name_f] or [name_f]Lula[/name_f] or Lulabelle. Could you win him over with any of those? Good luck :slight_smile:

What about if you chose a different name and used [name_f]Miley[/name_f] as a nickname. Like [name_f]Magnolia[/name_f] off of your list but he can choose to call her [name_f]Miley[/name_f] if he wants? I much prefer longer names like [name_f]Magnolia[/name_f]. I just feel like [name_f]Miley[/name_f] isn’t a full name! Also, the popularity of [name_f]Miley[/name_f] [name_m]Cyrus[/name_m] is too much for me.

Some other suggestions:

[name_f]Amelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Amelie[/name_f]
[name_f]Camilla[/name_f]
[name_f]Elmira[/name_f]
[name_f]Emmeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Millicent[/name_f]
[name_f]Milena[/name_f]
[name_f]Gemima[/name_f]
Hermoine
What about [name_f]Mila[/name_f]? I prefer it over [name_f]Miley[/name_f]
[name_f]Romilly[/name_f]

I love [name_f]Magnolia[/name_f] and [name_f]Clover[/name_f], and like [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] a lot from your agreeable list. [name_f]Elsa[/name_f] is OK, but I like [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] better. I think it’s good you’re having a hard time getting over the [name_f]Miley[/name_f] [name_m]Cyrus[/name_m] association as many people will immediately think you named your child after her.

Some ideas for you based off both your lists:

[name_f]Brynn[/name_f]
[name_u]Sasha[/name_u]
[name_f]Eliana[/name_f]
[name_f]Luella[/name_f]
[name_f]Willa[/name_f]
[name_f]Thea[/name_f]
[name_m]Huxley[/name_m]
[name_f]Tinsley[/name_f]
[name_f]Sienna[/name_f]
[name_u]Sierra[/name_u]

I’m not a fan of [name_f]Miley[/name_f] but I completely love [name_u]Valentine[/name_u] in the middle spot, especially considering your connection to it. Looking at your compromise list, [name_f]Elsa[/name_f] [name_u]Valentine[/name_u] and [name_f]Agnes[/name_f] [name_u]Valentine[/name_u] would be amazing, imo.

Edit to add: Just a little side note about Miley, there’s an Elvis movie called Blue Hawaii in which the love interest is called Maile, prn Miley. Its a pretty spelling I think, although I know nothing about its origins.

What about [name_f]Mylee[/name_f] or [name_f]Mylie[/name_f]? Maybe a different spelling will help you associate the name with something other than [name_f]Miley[/name_f] [name_m]Cyrus[/name_m].
Some other suggestions:
[name_f]Lily[/name_f] or [name_f]Lillie[/name_f]
[name_f]Mollie[/name_f] or [name_f]Molly[/name_f]
[name_f]Lyla[/name_f]
[name_f]Chloe[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
[name_f]Myra[/name_f]
[name_f]Myla[/name_f]
[name_u]Oakley[/name_u]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f]
[name_f]Maggie[/name_f]

I say if you love [name_u]Riley[/name_u] go ahead and keep it in the running unless someone would truly be upset if you used it.

[name_u]Piper[/name_u]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_f]Bronwyn[/name_f]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f]
[name_f]Penelope[/name_f]
[name_f]Genevieve[/name_f]
[name_f]Carys[/name_f]
[name_u]Eden[/name_u]
[name_f]Kaia[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_f]Daphne[/name_f]
[name_f]Brynn[/name_f]

I forgot to mention - I really don’t like [name_f]Miley[/name_f]. Some of your name choices are very classy and beautiful but still unique. I feel like [name_f]Miley[/name_f] is so unattractive, trendy and forgettable. Plus, it really does only bring images of [name_f]Miley[/name_f] [name_m]Cyrus[/name_m] and no one wants to have those images in their head!

Raevynstar: Hmm, I am fond of word names, but am very picky! [name_f]My[/name_f] favorite two are [name_u]Echo[/name_u] and Lights :slight_smile:

Lulabellatillybea: I have tried ever nickname imaginable. [name_f]My[/name_f] favorite is [name_f]Tula[/name_f]

Caligal: All I got was a shake of the head regarding [name_f]Miley[/name_f]/[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f] :frowning: I feel like the more I see “[name_f]Miley[/name_f]” the more unattractive it feels. He didn’t like any of the suggestions, but I like [name_f]Elmira[/name_f] and [name_f]Millicent[/name_f].

Goodkarmavt: I like [name_u]Sasha[/name_u] and [name_f]Willa[/name_f], but again, he said no. It would be a lot more helpful if HE would get on here (ugh)

Freya55: I like [name_u]Valentine[/name_u] more and more as well! I love both [name_f]Elsa[/name_f] and [name_f]Agnes[/name_f]! He prefers [name_f]Elsa[/name_f], so I wonder if I prefer [name_f]Agnes[/name_f] because my conscious wants to be difficult or if I really do prefer it! Lol, and I do not like [name_f]Maile[/name_f].

Ashleyf: I find the [name_f]Mylee[/name_f], [name_u]Rylee[/name_u], [name_f]Kylee[/name_f], [name_f]Mylie[/name_f], etc. spellings VERY distasteful. He likes [name_f]Lily[/name_f] and [name_f]Chloe[/name_f] and yes they are nice names… But just not for me. I do love [name_u]Riley[/name_u], but I would get an earful from the ENTIRE family.

Sllah: He doesn’t seem fond of any of the choices, but I have a soft spot for [name_u]Ruby[/name_u]!

Did I mention that he is impossible?

I wouldn’t go with [name_f]Miley[/name_f], especially now when she’s so popular. I wouldn’t want anyone to think I named my baby after her. I’m not a fan of [name_f]Agnes[/name_f] (too old-lady), but I like [name_f]Alana[/name_f], though I’d make it [name_f]Elana[/name_f] or [name_f]Elena[/name_f] to get away from the Toddlers and Tiaras reference. I’m also intrigued by Megaera.

[name_f]Alice[/name_f]
[name_f]Analia[/name_f]
[name_f]Athena[/name_f]
[name_f]Brielle[/name_f]
[name_u]Cameron[/name_u]
[name_u]Campbell[/name_u]
[name_u]Devyn[/name_u]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
[name_f]Jessamine[/name_f]
[name_f]Juliette[/name_f]
[name_f]Kaylen[/name_f]
[name_f]Philomena[/name_f]
[name_f]Sappho[/name_f]/[name_f]Sapphira[/name_f]/[name_f]Sapphire[/name_f]
[name_f]Tabitha[/name_f]
[name_f]Tanith[/name_f]/[name_f]Tanitha[/name_f]

Has he seen all the crazy stuff Miss Cyrus has been doing lately? Maybe that will convince him to drop the name! XP

I haven’t seen [name_f]Allegra[/name_f] mentioned? I feel like that seems to fit the bill?

Mmm, nothing I really like…

Right now ([name_f]My[/name_f] list)

[name_f]Talullah[/name_f]
[name_f]Wilhelmina[/name_f]
[name_u]Waverly[/name_u]
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f]
[name_f]Elektra[/name_f]
[name_u]Echo[/name_u] *
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] *
[name_f]Elsa[/name_f] *
[name_f]Hermione[/name_f] *
[name_f]Agnes[/name_f] *
[name_u]Riley[/name_u]
[name_f]Amelia[/name_f]
[name_u]Valentine[/name_u]

[* means he is warming up to or likes it]

He likes [name_u]Peyton[/name_u] and [name_f]Miley[/name_f] best right now…

[name_f]Wilhelmina[/name_f] is so sublime. I wish men had no say in the naming - we’d have better names.

I am half tempted to tell him to find cute nicknames he likes out of the formal ones I like if he keeps giving me
“[name_u]Peyton[/name_u], [name_f]Brittany[/name_f], [name_f]Miley[/name_f], [name_f]Elise[/name_f], and [name_f]Senna[/name_f]”

[name_f]My[/name_f] only thought is to each pick a name and whichever way it flows better put one as the first and the other as the middle.

I tried :frowning:
He chose [name_f]Elise[/name_f], and I chose [name_f]Wilhelmina[/name_f] and [name_f]Talullah[/name_f]. He did everything but throw a tantrum. Lol

I think [name_f]Elsa[/name_f] is cute, have you tried [name_f]Etta[/name_f]?