My husband and I have seen so many lists of boys names and I just can’t find one for baby boy number 2. [name_m]Ashur[/name_m] is the name of our first child and we have considered names like [name_m]Archer[/name_m], [name_m]Roman[/name_m], [name_m]Dimitri[/name_m], and [name_u]Sterling[/name_u] for a middle name. However we think [name_m]Ashur[/name_m] and [name_m]Archer[/name_m] sound too similar. I tend to like more unique names while the hubby likes what he calls ‘normal’ names. Anyways that’s just a little background on our name hunting and any help is greatly appreciated!! 
I think [name_m]Roman[/name_m] goes fairly well with [name_m]Ashur[/name_m].
I agree that [name_m]Ashur[/name_m] and [name_m]Archer[/name_m] are too close. Maybe you would like…
[name_m]Julian[/name_m]
[name_m]Desmond[/name_m] - [name_u]Desi[/name_u] is such a cute nn
[name_m]Alexander[/name_m]/[name_m]Xander[/name_m]
[name_m]Marcus[/name_m]
[name_m]Silas[/name_m]
I have to agree that [name_m]Archer[/name_m] is too similar to [name_m]Ashur[/name_m]. From the names you mentioned I think [name_m]Roman[/name_m] fits well. What about [name_m]Ashur[/name_m] and:
[name_m]Jasper[/name_m]
[name_m]Lowell[/name_m]
[name_m]Jacoby[/name_m]
[name_m]Caspian[/name_m]
[name_m]Jago[/name_m] (pr.‘jay-go’)
[name_u]Rowan[/name_u]
[name_m]Viggo[/name_m]
[name_m]Macsen[/name_m]
[name_m]Ozias[/name_m]/[name_m]Osias[/name_m]
[name_u]Hartley[/name_u]
[name_m]Marco[/name_m]
[name_u]Reeve[/name_u]
[name_u]Lennox[/name_u]
[name_u]Zephyr[/name_u]
[name_m]Bramwell[/name_m]
[name_u]Blaise[/name_u]
Rilo/[name_m]Milo[/name_m]
From your ideas I also like [name_m]Roman[/name_m] the best. I also really like the suggestions of [name_m]Caspian[/name_m], [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] and [name_m]Silas[/name_m].
Some other suggestions:
[name_m]Cassius[/name_m]
[name_m]Casper[/name_m]
[name_m]Colton[/name_m]
[name_u]Colby[/name_u]
[name_m]Ottis[/name_m]
[name_m]Oz[/name_m]
[name_m]Aurelius[/name_m]
[name_u]Oberon[/name_u]
[name_m]Sirius[/name_m]
[name_m]Knox[/name_m]
[name_u]Lennox[/name_u]
[name_m]Xavier[/name_m]
[name_u]Percy[/name_u]
[name_m]Pierce[/name_m]
Thanks or all the suggestions it’s been reassuring seeing that people like the name [name_m]Roman[/name_m] my family has hated the name from the start but I’m thinking we will go with [name_m]Roman[/name_m] or [name_m]Aurelius[/name_m] that name to me sounds great
[name_m]Heath[/name_m]
[name_u]Casey[/name_u]
[name_m]Ethan[/name_m]
[name_m]Nate[/name_m]
[name_m]Koby[/name_m]
[name_m]Axel[/name_m]