6/30 Update:
It’s time to retire this thread and go back to the drawing board. We don’t seem to have a first name that really resonates for both parents. We both agree that we really like Constance, but more as a middle name, and we like Rose as a second-middle since the older kids are on such a cute campaign for it. These are definitely NOT the middle names we thought were “priority” when we started out at all… but they seem to have emerged as the ones we really love.
I’ll start a new message soon. It’s not very usual for us to have the middle names picked out first, but hey, every name hunt is different! Thanks for all the feedback, discussion, and ideas along the way!
6/22
Our two older boys have decided that we should name the baby Rose, so she will be Rose Tyler like on Doctor Who. They told me all about it last evening: clearly they have spent some time thinking this over. The levels of “adorable” and “cute” were just about enough to kill me of overdose, lol. Their second choice is Zelda; which, they say, is definitely not too close to Z e p h a n, and they say if her name is Zelda then we have to put her hair in three braids and get her a dress like the video game character’s. LOL - they pretty much made my day. I may just try a little harder to work in Rose as the second-middle name, just because it’s so cute how much they want it.
Is Zelda-Rose as nerdy as I think it is? Yes, but not obvious unless you know it’s video games and Doctor Who? It seems really nerdy to me, lol. My husband saw this idea scrawled on one of my scrap pages, and he brought it up after I told him what the boys advised me to name the baby. (Wow… there is a Muppet named Zelda Rose too, lol). Should I move this one into consideration, or just leave it as an amusing passing idea?
I’ve decided that I’m definitely going to work on finding a great combo for Rowenna. Also, re-address the Constance combos and have that option available.
Rowenna Constance Rose - I think this one pulls the names that we really want the most. Still don’t know what to do about the MIL situation since Constance is an honor name for my dad, but so many of the combos that use the honors for both grandparents feel forced, but I’m still open to ideas. I like this one because it feels strong but feminine, like the name of the intelligent princess who is smart enough to figure out how to defend her land.
Rowenna Colanthe Rose - this one gets in two family honors from my side, which I like, but maybe it’s just a touch on the flowery side.
Rowenna Autumn Rose - just to be all fall-like with names my husband likes.
I really don’t have any combos that use any of the Peggy Jean names. Ideas on that, or thoughts on the above? Seems like I probably have to “lose” one of the middle names to fit in the MIL name… in which case I guess it could be an option to use Rose as a nn for Rowenna. I’m really liking Rowenna as-is though.
Going back to the list of Constance ideas, I like these best today… opinions or other ideas?
Constance Ivanna Rose
Constance Ivanna Zelda
Constance Ivanna Aurora
Constance Colanthe Rose
Constance Autumn Rose
Entertaining Zelda-Rose for a bit:
Zelda-Rose Colanthe - too much?
Zelda-Rose Constance - weird flow?
Zelda-Rose Ivanna - meh?
Zelda-Rose Constance Jeannine - list of names?
I might possibly reconsider something like Iselda Rose _____, nn Zelda-Rose, because Iselda would technically pull in the meaning from Ethan and give me the “Dad Honor” name (thus clearing up space to add in a MIL honor). On the other hand, I rather like the look of Zelda-Rose better than Iselda Rose _____, so I don’t know.
Iselda Rose Jeannine
Iselda Rose Ivanna
All the middle name ideas from the original post:
One or two middles are ok. I’m especially interested in including a “Nicole” update if it sounds good. I have some other family name ideas and favorites of my husband’s as options as well.
Nicole Variation Name:
Colanthe
[name_f]Annika[/name_f] (the A sounds like apple in our accent, just so you know)
Nilsine (Norwegian variant, prn nil-SEE-neh)
Nilsa (prn NIL-seh)
Nicaea (prn nye-see-ah)
Vanika
Velica
Zorica
Nicolia/NikoleaKaloniki/Kalonice
Vinka
[name_f]Victory[/name_f]
Valenica
[name_u]Verona[/name_u]
[name_f]Nicolina[/name_f]
[name_u]Nika[/name_u]
Zannika
Palakika
[name_u]Nia[/name_u] (this is where the “if it works” starts… I really like everything above)
[name_u]Coletta[/name_u]
(I’ve definitely vetoed Nicolette, Nicoline, Nike, Nikita, Nicola, Vivika, Veronica, Monica, Colleen, Keiko, Coco, Colette, Cosette for various reasons)
Nikolia
We can use one middle or two, as we have both in our family. Next priority for a second-middle is my husband’s favorites, then the MIL names, and finally the my-dad honors, because I just can’t say goodbye to those two favorites.
Husband’s Favorites: (I’m not convinced that many of these work anymore… I can try to get some new options if none of these work).
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
[name_f]Emily[/name_f]
[name_f]Aurora[/name_f]
[name_u]Dagny[/name_u]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f] (prefer as second middle if we use it)
[name_f]Autumn[/name_f]
[name_f]Serafina[/name_f]
[name_f]Hermione[/name_f]
MIL Honor Name: her name is [name_f]Peggy[/name_f] [name_u]Jean[/name_u], and we really don’t love either of these names, so we have looked for foreign variants and similar-meaning names. (Note: anything with “[name_f]Marge[/name_f]” in it is disqualified due to another relative).
[name_u]Gia[/name_u]
[name_u]Gianna[/name_u]
[name_u]Iva[/name_u]
[name_u]Ivanna[/name_u](my husband seems to like these four best of the options though he isn’t crazy about any)
[name_u]Vanya[/name_u] (and this one is OK)
[name_u]Jane[/name_u]/[name_u]Jayne[/name_u] (also just OK)
[name_u]Ginara[/name_u]
[name_u]Gionna[/name_u]
[name_u]Giovanna[/name_u]
[name_u]Jean[/name_u]
[name_f]Jeannine[/name_f]
[name_u]Xoana[/name_u]/[name_u]Zona[/name_u]
[name_u]Zanna[/name_u]
[name_u]Merete[/name_u]
[name_u]Mairead[/name_u]
[name_u]Meg[/name_u]
[name_u]Madge[/name_u]
[name_u]Greta[/name_u]
[name_u]Gretel[/name_u]
[name_u]Rita[/name_u]
[name_f]Penina[/name_f]
[name_f]Pearl[/name_f]
Pelagie
[name_f]Petra[/name_f] (husband likes this one)
Jeana
My Dad Honor Name: Least priority because using one of these has the potential of causing drama with the MIL, but I love them so much so I would still consider some genius combo using them.
[name_f]Constance[/name_f]
[name_u]Iolanthe[/name_u]
Colanthe
THANKS for your ideas!

[name_f]Phaedra[/name_f], um… I think my sister had it on her list. My husband is finicky about the F names.