Conflicting tastes. Help us agree on a girl name!

My husband and I are having a terrible time agreeing on a girl name. We have had our boy name picked out for years- [name_u]Cameron[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u] [name_m]Barkley[/name_m] [name_m]Stewart[/name_m]. We are having a much harder time agreeing on a girl name. My husband likes popular top 20 names while I prefer names which are less popular. I like names that are classy but not stuffy and also names that are unique but not too far out there. We are desperately trying to find a middle ground and will take all the help/suggestions we can get!

*Also, my husband does not like names which he considers to be “old lady” names.
** The middle name will be [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f].

I guess what I am asking for is combinations of the names below or new suggestions! Thanks!

Husband’s likes
[name_u]Madison[/name_u]
[name_f]Maddy[/name_f]
[name_u]Taylor[/name_u]
[name_u]Payton[/name_u]
[name_u]Riley[/name_u]
[name_u]Lindsay[/name_u]
[name_f]Bayleigh[/name_f]

My Likes
[name_f]Isobel[/name_f]
[name_u]Lennox[/name_u]
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_u]Reece[/name_u]
[name_f]Annabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_f]Macy[/name_f]
[name_f]Hanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Elena[/name_f]
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
Gracelynn

LOL do we have the same husband?! haha! Hmm, are you looking for suggestions or a combo from the list you provided? From your list I like:

[name_f]Isobel[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] (not the best flow)
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]

Not a huge fan of his names. What about:

[name_u]Piper[/name_u] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Isabella[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Adeline[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Emmeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]

Thank you for your reply! I absolutely [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_f]Stella[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] [name_m]Stewart[/name_m] but my husband is worried that [name_f]Stella[/name_f] [name_m]Stewart[/name_m] sounds funny. I disagree :slight_smile:

From your list, I love:

[name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_f]Hannah[/name_f]
[name_f]Isabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f]

Suggestions:

[name_f]Audrey[/name_f]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f]
[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f]
[name_f]Mia[/name_f]
[name_f]Adeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f]
[name_f]Georgia[/name_f]

I really like [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]. I have it on my list spelled a bit different ([name_f]Elinor[/name_f]). I also like [name_f]Caroline[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f].

Other possibilities include:
[name_f]Fiona[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Margret[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] (my friend’s daughter’s name)
[name_f]Amelia[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Mary[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Emily[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]

I dislike the names on your husband’s list.

I like:
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]

I also like [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], [name_f]Elena[/name_f] and [name_f]Isobel[/name_f] (though I prefer [name_f]Isabel[/name_f]) but I feel they do not flow well with [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f].

Is there a name on your list or one that you like, that a nickname would work for your husband to call her, e.g.

[name_f]Isobel[/name_f] and he may like [name_u]Izzy[/name_u]?
[name_f]Genevieve[/name_f] or [name_u]Vivian[/name_u] nn [name_f]Vivi[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] nn [name_u]Nori[/name_u]
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f] nn [name_f]Maggie[/name_f]/[name_u]Noli[/name_u]/[name_f]Lia[/name_f]

[name_m]How[/name_m] about…
[name_f]Miranda[/name_f]
[name_f]Penelope[/name_f]
[name_f]Daphne[/name_f]
[name_f]Cecily[/name_f]
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f]
[name_f]Arabella[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Viviana[/name_f]
[name_f]Adriana[/name_f]
[name_f]Claire[/name_f]
[name_f]Clarissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Nadia[/name_f]
[name_f]Maura[/name_f]
[name_f]Isaura[/name_f]
[name_f]Thisbe[/name_f]
[name_f]Rebekah[/name_f]
[name_f]Fleur[/name_f]
[name_f]Freya[/name_f]
[name_f]Delilah[/name_f]
[name_f]Davina[/name_f]
[name_f]Serena[/name_f]
[name_f]Zora[/name_f]
[name_f]Zosia[/name_f]
[name_f]Heather[/name_f]

I think [name_f]Cora[/name_f], [name_f]Nora[/name_f], or [name_f]Flora[/name_f] would be great choices. All are elegant and classic sounding without being stuffy. [name_f]Cora[/name_f] in particular is becoming more popular. Some additional ideas are- [name_f]Audrey[/name_f], [name_f]Violet[/name_f], [name_f]Hannah[/name_f] (might be too popular), [name_f]Clara[/name_f], [name_f]Thea[/name_f] (she is a character on a popular T.V. show so I expect the name to rise in popularity), [name_f]Luna[/name_f],

I really don’t like any of the names in his list ahahaha

From your list I like:
[name_f]Isobel[/name_f]
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_f]Annabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_f]Elena[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Gracelynn[/name_f] (I prefer [name_f]Grace[/name_f])

What about [name_f]Madeleine[/name_f]? It was the first one It came to my mind since he seems to like [name_f]Maddy[/name_f]. Also, [name_f]Madeleine[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] looks like a winning combo for me.

I wouldn’t use [name_f]Isobel[/name_f] with [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] as a middle name because [name_f]Isobel[/name_f] is a form of [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]. I wouldn’t use [name_f]Annabeth[/name_f] too because it’s basically combination of [name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] (which is a good combo, btw and you could use [name_f]Annabeth[/name_f] as a nickname).

I think:
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Gracelynn[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]

…sound really good.

Good luck!

You both have a little overlap! [name_u]Lennox[/name_u] and [name_u]Reece[/name_u] are more unisex/surname type of girls’ names and many of his names are a similar style. Would it work if you could find one of that type to agree on?

My choice would be [name_u]Addison[/name_u]. I’m not a fan of the [name_u]Madison[/name_u]/[name_f]Madeline[/name_f] names but [name_u]Addison[/name_u] works for me for some reason. I also love [name_f]Adelyn[/name_f] (again something about the lack of the “m” sound makes it so much better!)

Other ideas:

[name_u]Emerson[/name_u]
[name_u]Harper[/name_u]
[name_u]Kendall[/name_u]
[name_f]Marlo[/name_f]
[name_u]Quinn[/name_u]
[name_u]Rowan[/name_u]

I think it’s better to find ways you can overlap with naming styles rather than trying to persuade each other into things you just don’t like at all. I also think most guys who aren’t really into names tend to gravitate to things they’ve heard before. [name_f]Hope[/name_f] you find something!

I think most of your picks are great choices! [name_f]Hanna[/name_f] seems like it could crossover for your SO? Or like someone suggested a more classic name with a trendy nickname? [name_f]Madeline/name_f [name_f]Adelaide/name_f? [name_u]Sidney[/name_u]? [name_f]Adalyn[/name_f]? [name_f]Magnolia[/name_f] ( [name_f]Maggie[/name_f])? Good luck!

I suggest either [name_f]Nora[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] or Helaina [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]

[name_u]Lennox[/name_u] [name_u]Taylor[/name_u] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]?

What about [name_f]Annabella[/name_f], [name_f]Beatrice[/name_f], [name_u]Kendall[/name_u], [name_f]Kaylee[/name_f], [name_f]Clara[/name_f], or Brynleigh?

(side not, it’s actually funny because my picks are very similar to yours and my parents are very similar to his… They had [name_u]Madison[/name_u] [me], [name_u]Peyton[/name_u], and [name_f]Bayleigh[/name_f])

With the middle name [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], I think the best options from the lists are:

[name_f]Hanna[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]

To try to be fair, I will pick one from his list :wink:
[name_u]Taylor[/name_u] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]

I like [name_u]Reese[/name_u] from your list!

I like [name_f]Caroline[/name_f], [name_f]Stella[/name_f], [name_f]Elena[/name_f], [name_f]Magnolia[/name_f], [name_f]Hanna[/name_f], [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] and [name_u]Lindsay[/name_u] from your list. :slight_smile:

I personally won’t use [name_f]Isobel[/name_f] (because it’s basically a variant of [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]) and [name_f]Annabeth[/name_f] (because the same ending).

Suggestions:
[name_u]Aubrey[/name_u]
[name_f]Madeleine[/name_f] - he gets [name_f]Maddy[/name_f] and you get a classy name.
[name_f]Coralie[/name_f]
[name_f]Lenore[/name_f]
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]

Hi,
With potential brother Cameron I like:

Madison
Maddy*instead of these two maybe Madeline, Adeline, Adelaide for more classic names with some popularity…they also have more common nickname options-maddy, Addie, even Ella

Taylor-dated, maybe Tallulah or Layla instead?

Payton-not my style…I’ll suggest London, or Vivian.

Riley
Lindsay
bailey

  • personally I find these a bit dated, nice enough but not my style. Maybe Ainsley, Hadley, Harper, or Amelia would appeal to him?

My Likes
Isobel-so pretty, but common-perhaps Annabel? Have you considered Eliza?
Lennox-Alexandra mm Alex would be lovely
Caroline-love! Love the new Callie for Caroline. I’ll also suggest Cecelia or Celia.
Reece-love! Maybe Alice or Elise
annabeth-it’s ok, prefer Annabelle or Annabel
Stella-love! Maybe your husband would prefer Ella? Estella is pretty too but maybe too old lady for your dh;)
Macy, cute also like Marcy.
Hanna,
Elena. Not a fan I’m hearing this name everywhere lately…tons of baby Alaina, Elianna’s and Elenas
I’ll suggest Alice, or Eleanor.
Magnolia-love!
Eleanor-haha just saw this I Love Eleanor…maybe Nora, Ellie, Evie…
Gracelynn-maybe just Grace, Hope, Greyson.

From both lists my favorite is Eleanor. I think Nora would be a more common nickname maybe your dh could get on board with?

Madeline might be a good compromise with a less common mm like Ellie, Addie.
Annabelle would be lovely too.

As far as combos
Annabelle Grace would be darling, Madeline Violet, Caroline Isobel, or Eliza Grace.
Hopefully that helps!

*whoops! I somehow missed that her middle name is Elizabeth! I still like Annabel for you, Caroline, or Madeline:)