Warning for failed tubal litigation.
[name_f]SnieguolÄ[/name_f] â [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] â LukoĆĄiĆ«tÄ (35) was Zitaâs biological mother who admittedly doesnât see [name_f]Zita[/name_f] as a daughter, but sheâs grateful for [name_f]Julija[/name_f] seeing her as her own. Sheâs glad [name_f]Zita[/name_f] isnât left in the dark about the fact she was adopted but at the same time, isnât treated as any lesser than [name_f]Julija[/name_f] or Paulâs other children. [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] is an athlete and is very honest that she wants to focus on footballing first. Sheâs been contacted for sports magazines but she doesnât want people seeing her as âjust a pretty face on the fieldâ which is why sheâs more into fierce and edgy models. She wouldnât have tried to get into a famous career, it just naturally happened due to skill. [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] tends to worry too much about what others think, she didnât want to come off as, âIâm not ready for a baby but Iâm ready for FAMEâ, and she would have kept the adoption closed regardless. [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] was born in a family where all children were planned, though she doesnât entirely consider that the reason for giving [name_f]Zita[/name_f] up for adoption. Part of the reason [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] was so shocked by her pregnancy is because she had gotten her tubes tied before conceiving [name_f]Zita[/name_f], but it turns out the process was a flop and she was a rare instance of having a pregnancy post-surgery. Sheâs felt horrible about this because she thought she was being safe and staying true to her decision to be child-free. Despite still having the strong insistence to not have children, she took a lot of precautions to make sure [name_f]Zita[/name_f] was healthy in the womb and would be safe when she was born. Sniegaâs since gotten another surgery to ensure this time it wouldnât happen again although deep down, sheâs glad she could provide for [name_f]Julija[/name_f].
[name_f]Sniega[/name_f] doesnât have any plans to move to [name_f]Canada[/name_f], though itâs not because [name_f]Zita[/name_f] lives in [name_f]Canada[/name_f]. She is happy in her hometown of Pakruojis but also because she had a bad experience as a teenager. She was a foreign exchange student living in the [name_m]Watson[/name_m] house, which she at first was happy by but slowly stopped liking it. There were two girls there: [name_f]Emily[/name_f], who was a few months younger than [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] and Emilyâs little sister, who was two years older than the Watsonsâ now-family friend, [name_f]Sophia[/name_f] [name_m]Thompson[/name_m]. [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] got along with [name_f]Emily[/name_f] more given their closeness in age but with the time passing, she stopped getting along with [name_f]Emily[/name_f]. It wasnât necessarily the Watsonâs fault, it was likely culture shock seeing how Canadian families do things differently, but [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] had a hard time fitting in and it rubbed the wrong way. At the same time, [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] wasnât just about celebrating her own Lithuanian culture, she still wanted to try more Canadian culture while she was there. But she felt like a stranger in a sense, especially with her broken [name_f]English[/name_f], which [name_f]Emily[/name_f] looked at her a lot when she did this. [name_f]Emily[/name_f] didnât want to correct [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] all the time so she stayed quiet, but [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] actually hated this more. She wanted to know what she was doing wrong. Eventually near the end of her time in the [name_m]Watson[/name_m] house; she and [name_f]Emily[/name_f] were feuding a lot and she refused to see either sister as a friend, let alone family. She had a lot bottled up because she knew her host family was letting her into their home, plus she was trying so hard not to let Emilyâs younger sister see the feud. She left on good terms at least, but only because she and [name_f]Emily[/name_f] were awkwardly trying to stay civil for the sake of the family.
She has since apologised for how she reacted especially since itâs put a dent in the [name_m]Watson[/name_m] familyâs decision to take on more exchange students. They didnât want to repeat a bad experience. The way [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] apologised to the family was writing an apology note a year later, with better [name_f]English[/name_f] and a genuine explanation for everything sheâs done wrong. But not in a way to excuse or justify her actions. [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] never got a response back and when she was visiting [name_f]Julija[/name_f] in [name_f]Canada[/name_f] years later, she saw Emilyâs now-adult sister. [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] couldnât help but ask if anyone in the family saw it. She told [name_f]Sniega[/name_f], âYes we saw it and we forgive you. Sorry we never wrote back.â However when [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] asked if [name_f]Emily[/name_f] read it, she was disappointed to hear [name_f]Emily[/name_f] did not. In fact, [name_f]Emily[/name_f] threw it out, to Sniegaâs disdain. She threw it out because she didnât want âbad memories,â which [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] felt was inexcusable given she poured her heart out into that letter and tried to hard to make it understandable [name_f]English[/name_f]. Though now as time passed on, Sniegaâs been more understanding of Emilyâs decision not to look back. Maybe she had come off harsher than she intended to and didnât realise it. Also, [name_f]Emily[/name_f] hasnât been very happy in her college years and [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] herself wouldnât want to look back on her own unplanned pregnancy. Though sheâs also more content in life now and so are the [name_m]Watson[/name_m] sisters, especially with the help of [name_f]Sophia[/name_f]. While [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] wishes [name_f]Emily[/name_f] gave her a chance, sheâs accepted it and moved on, much like sheâs moved on after finding out her tubal litigation was botched. Sheâd be glad to know the [name_m]Watson[/name_m] parents have since taken in a new foreign exchange student this year, although the parents are empty-nesters now. [name_f]Sniega[/name_f] doesnât like when things end badly because of her so sheâd be very pleased if she knew they hadnât.
Emily and Sophia were created by @Lindseylloyd052399.