I do think [name_u]Easton[/name_u] and Weslee is a bit too much, sorry, agree with your husband.
I love [name_f]Sadie[/name_f], [name_f]Clara[/name_f], [name_f]Hazel[/name_f], and [name_f]Mary[/name_f] [name_u]Seth[/name_u]. [name_f]Mary[/name_f] [name_u]Seth[/name_u] is just amazing, hands down my favorite. [name_f]Hazel[/name_f] and [name_f]Clara[/name_f] coming in hot for second place. Obviously, I like the more typically feminine names from your list, but that is my preference and I get that it’s not necessarily something you care about. All of these feel very Southern genteel to me, and definitely not prissy, though they are sweet.
Aside from that, I’d avoid [name_u]Ellery[/name_u] and [name_u]Elliot[/name_u] because they are so similar to [name_u]Easton[/name_u] - surnames, unisex, start with E.
[name_u]Hayden[/name_u] and [name_u]Easton[/name_u] also sound really similar… same goes for [name_u]Sutton[/name_u].
[name_u]Ryan[/name_u], [name_u]Lindsey[/name_u], and [name_u]Logan[/name_u] almost seem, dare I say, boring? I feel like if you had more kids, and you had [name_u]Easton[/name_u], [name_u]Collins[/name_u], [name_u]Merritt[/name_u], and [name_u]Ryan[/name_u], [name_u]Ryan[/name_u]'s name would be a little bland. I do have a personal fondness for [name_u]Lindsey[/name_u], but only on boys, so it’s a little backwards for me to think of it on a girl.
[name_u]Merritt[/name_u], [name_u]Collins[/name_u], and [name_u]Macrae[/name_u] are okay, but they seem to me like the kind of name you use if it were a family name, you know? Not that you can’t, it just feels funny. Personally, I do like [name_u]Merritt[/name_u] a lot. I think [name_u]Macrae[/name_u] might get misspelled and mispronounced. [name_u]Collins[/name_u] is cute but it also feels close to [name_u]Easton[/name_u] when you say them aloud together.
But seriously, [name_f]Mary[/name_f] [name_u]Seth[/name_u], please and thanks.