Desperate for new suggestions đŸ˜©

I know I post so many similar posts, but I am in desperate need of some fresh ideas. [name_f]My[/name_f] husband has been agreeing that these [name_m]Solomon[/name_m], [name_m]Felix[/name_m], and [name_m]Frederic[/name_m] combos were our top contenders. Now he suddenly “doesn’t know how I feel about them” or just straight up doesn’t like them. I feel like I’ve looked at every name ever recorded in history trying to come up with something new to pitch. I started really liking [name_m]Abram[/name_m] and thought that might be something he would get on board with but he won’t say anything other than he doesn’t know how he feels about it either. I can NOT for thĂ© Life of me find any names that I like on par with these names, but we apparently need new ideas on the drawing board. Help!

Names that had been our contenders:

[name_m]Solomon[/name_m] [name_u]Ames[/name_u]

[name_m]Abram[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]

[name_m]Abram[/name_m] [name_m]Obadiah[/name_m] (husband was never on board with [name_m]Obadiah[/name_m], though)

[name_m]Abram[/name_m] [name_u]Nolan[/name_u]

[name_m]Felix[/name_m] [name_u]Finch[/name_u]

[name_m]Frederic[/name_m] [name_u]Finch[/name_u]

Tend to like timeless, old school names that are still uncommon and a little unexpected, yet recognizable, not made-up, not misspelled, and not trendy.

Big brother is [name_m]Warren[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m].

Last name is two syllables, starts with St-, has an o in the middle and ends in -er.

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I made name flash cards for my husband and asked him repeatedly for a week. Things changed. It was presented in a “let’s keep it on the table until we’re sure we want to eliminate it” way. [name_f]Hope[/name_f] that’s helpful!

Your names are all going in a great direction; not scattered.

I’ve also put away names for a few days to try to gain a fresh perspective.

One last thing. If meaning is important to you, isolate the meaning and see which meaning stands out most.

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Eamon has immediately come to mind as something you may like as it’s composed of sounds found in Solomon Ames.

Perhaps you could ask your husband to take it in turns to research names - it isn’t fair that one person does all the name work.

Luckily, the Berries are here :slight_smile:

How about Bram as a middle?

Also inspired by the names you like ~

Wilfred
Finnegan
Finley
Elliot
Eames
Gabriel
Nico
Maxwell
Tristan

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[name_u]Davis[/name_u]
[name_u]George[/name_u]
[name_m]Isaac[/name_m]
[name_m]Peter[/name_m]
[name_m]Raymond[/name_m]
[name_m]Shepherd[/name_m]
[name_m]Armond[/name_m]
[name_m]Jethro[/name_m]
[name_m]Louis[/name_m]
[name_m]Sayer[/name_m]
[name_u]Albie[/name_u]
[name_u]Elias[/name_u]
[name_m]Deacon[/name_m]

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Ideas based on your list:

Arthur
Bradley
Clive
Collin
Conor
Dennis
Dominic
Edmund
Ellis
Gavin
Grady
Joey
Landon
Laurence
Lukas
Marshall
Mitchell
Myles
Quincy
Robert
Vidal
Wesley
Wyatt
Zachary

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[name_u]Sullivan[/name_u]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]
[name_m]Aaron[/name_m]
[name_m]Oran[/name_m]
[name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m]
[name_m]Eric[/name_m]
[name_m]Lucian[/name_m]
[name_m]Victor[/name_m]

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Hopefully your husband will come back around to the names you are loving :heart:

Some other ideas:

[name_m]Edwin[/name_m]
[name_m]Ralph[/name_m]
[name_m]Rafferty[/name_m]
[name_m]Conrad[/name_m]
[name_u]Axel[/name_u]
[name_m]Ansel[/name_m]
[name_m]Benedict[/name_m]
[name_m]Nikolai[/name_m]
[name_u]Nico[/name_u]
[name_m]Alistair[/name_m]
[name_m]Alaric[/name_m]
[name_u]Joss[/name_u]
[name_m]Tobias[/name_m]
[name_u]Franklin[/name_u]
[name_m]Gideon[/name_m]
[name_u]Curtis[/name_u]
[name_m]Gilbert[/name_m]
[name_u]Carlyle[/name_u]
[name_m]Joel[/name_m]
[name_m]Roland[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m]
[name_m]Ernest[/name_m]
[name_u]Clyde[/name_u]
[name_m]Lucian[/name_m]
[name_u]Declan[/name_u]
[name_m]Otis[/name_m]

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I like the flash card idea.

Some suggestions:
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m]
Comrad
[name_m]Desmond[/name_m]
[name_u]Jude[/name_u]
[name_u]George[/name_u]
[name_m]Donovan[/name_m]
[name_u]Holden[/name_u]
[name_m]Samson[/name_m]
[name_m]Tobias[/name_m]
[name_u]Clarence[/name_u]
[name_u]Lawrence[/name_u]
[name_m]Clark[/name_m]
[name_m]Victor[/name_m]
[name_m]Beaumont[/name_m]
[name_u]Murphy[/name_u]
[name_u]Griffin[/name_u]
[name_m]Cedric[/name_m]
[name_u]Emmett[/name_u]
[name_u]Noel[/name_u]
[name_m]Rupert[/name_m]
[name_u]Bennett[/name_u]

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] there.

I really love your style.

Here are a few suggestions that you may like:

[name_m]Albert[/name_m]

[name_u]Alden[/name_u]

[name_u]Asa[/name_u]

[name_m]Aubin[/name_m]

[name_u]Bennett[/name_u]

[name_m]Clark[/name_m]

[name_m]Clive[/name_m]

[name_m]Desmond[/name_m]

[name_u]Everett[/name_u]

[name_m]Ferris[/name_m]

[name_m]Gilbert[/name_m]

[name_u]Holden[/name_u]

[name_u]Ira[/name_u]

[name_m]Ivan[/name_m]

[name_m]Jerome[/name_m]

[name_m]Louis[/name_m]

[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m]

[name_m]Niles[/name_m]

[name_m]Oscar[/name_m]

[name_m]Otis[/name_m]

[name_m]Peter[/name_m]

[name_m]Philip[/name_m]

[name_u]Rhett[/name_u]

[name_m]Vincent[/name_m]

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps. :slight_smile:

Sometimes I don’t know how I feel about a name either if I’ve been looking at it over and over for too long! I find breaks are helpful for both of us; I add new names or combos occasionally when I come up with them and have a name discussion with my husband every couple weeks or so. We both get overwhelmed if we have our faces in the list all the time.

Hopefully he comes back around to the names you’ve been discussing. There are lots of handsome suggestions above, too.

You suggested a lot that I love- [name_m]Wilfred[/name_m] and [name_u]Finnegan[/name_u] are two I keep coming back to. [name_f]My[/name_f] husband still vetos [name_m]Wilfred[/name_m] but might consider [name_u]Finnegan[/name_u]. I feel like [name_u]Finn[/name_u] has become super popular, but it really isn’t ranked that high despite hearing it all of the time?
[name_m]Bram[/name_m] could be a great middle contender!

I do like Eamon/Eames but my husband thinks the re are too many ways people will pronounce or spell them.

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We’ve throw around [name_m]Albert[/name_m] and I like the nickname option of [name_u]Albie[/name_u]. I think it’s super cute and sweet. I also like [name_m]Shepherd[/name_m], husband doesn’t. [name_m]Peter[/name_m] is on my middle list because it is similar to our first son’s middle name.

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[name_u]Arthur[/name_u] is one that keeps hanging around the top of our list- if I wasn’t worried about I creasing popularity of it it would probably be one of our very top contenders, but it’s still high up on the list. :heart: I LOVE [name_m]Clive[/name_m] as a C.S. [name_m]Lewis[/name_m] nod but my husband won’t go for it. Maybe I can swing it as a middle.

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You’re so good. :joy:
I love [name_m]Edwin[/name_m] so much, I keep bringing it back up and it always gets a Nope from my husband. I also like [name_m]Rafferty[/name_m] a lot. [name_m]Ansel[/name_m], [name_m]Roland[/name_m], [name_u]Clyde[/name_u], and Declan’s are all some I’ve pitched to him. [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] was at the top of our list in the beginning then he started changing his tune about it, and now maybe just considers it for a middle. I still love it though. [name_m]Frederick[/name_m] and [name_m]Felix[/name_m] are high on our list- I know I threw out [name_u]Franklin[/name_u] early on and he didn’t like it, but I haven’t revisited that one since the beginning so I’m going to toss it around again and see if he’s ch aged his mind. [name_u]Franklin[/name_u] give me warm nostalgic feelings for some reason- I think there was the kids’ show with a turtle named [name_u]Franklin[/name_u]? Maybe that’s why I like it? :joy::woman_shrugging:
[name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] is another I’ve pitched a lot that he never gets behind, it’s reminding me of [name_m]Gulliver[/name_m] too. We haven’t revisited that one in a while.
Your list definitely stirred up some names to either revisit or consider, thank you!

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I googled it and there was a cartoon [name_u]Franklin[/name_u] the turtle :grin: I do love [name_u]Franklin[/name_u] and you never know, he might like it!
[name_m]Gulliver[/name_m] is pretty cool - you never know, he might like it!!

[name_m]Evander[/name_m], [name_m]Tolliver[/name_m], [name_u]Sullivan[/name_u], [name_u]Sylvester[/name_u], [name_m]Sylvan[/name_m], [name_m]Olson[/name_m], [name_u]Ellison[/name_u], [name_u]Wallace[/name_u] (too close to Warren?) and [name_m]Grant[/name_m] came to mind as similar suggestions