Douglas (Dougie) or Dudley?

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] all,

Our first baby is due soon and we’ve been really struggling with his name (it’s a boy!).

We want something strong and easy to spell BUT nothing common.

We both love [name_u]Douglas[/name_u] and more recently [name_m]Dudley[/name_m].
Our surname is one syllable and starts with Q!
It’s been tricky. Both names seem to go really well with our surname.

We like [name_u]Douglas[/name_u] in that it’s a nod to my Scottish granny but also that he can be [name_m]Dougie[/name_m] when he’s a baby and then [name_m]Doug[/name_m] when he’s older and then [name_u]Douglas[/name_u] for anything professional!

However, we’ve recently started to think that [name_u]Douglas[/name_u] might be a bit geeky. So then [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] came to mind - we think [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] is cooler than [name_u]Douglas[/name_u].

What do you think?!?

Any other suggestions?

I associate [name_u]Douglas[/name_u] with the handsome actor [name_u]Douglas[/name_u] [name_m]Booth[/name_m].

[name_m]Dudley[/name_m] instantly makes me think of [name_m]Earl[/name_m] [name_m]Robert[/name_m] [name_m]Dudley[/name_m], [name_f]Queen[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] I’s close friend.

I find both names equally lovely though [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] sounds more modern and [name_u]Douglas[/name_u] - a bit more aged. Plus [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] has royal associations which is always good so I think [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] is the better option.

Here are some suggestions from me that you might like:
[name_m]Dante[/name_m]
[name_u]Darryl[/name_u]
[name_u]Dorian[/name_u]
[name_m]Dominic[/name_m]
[name_m]Dawson[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m]
[name_m]Damon[/name_m]
[name_m]Diego[/name_m]
[name_m]Donatello[/name_m]
[name_u]Dallas[/name_u]
[name_m]Donovan[/name_m]
[name_m]Delmar[/name_m]
[name_u]Devon[/name_u]

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] I helped!

[name_u]Douglas[/name_u] reminds me of [name_u]Douglas[/name_u] [name_m]Fairbanks[/name_m], and [name_m]Dougie[/name_m] is a cute nickname.

The only association I have with [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] is from [name_m]Harry[/name_m] [name_m]Potter[/name_m]; I think it lacks the sophistication of [name_u]Douglas[/name_u], and I can’t get over the first syllable of “dud”.

I definitely prefer [name_u]Douglas[/name_u].

I much prefer [name_u]Douglas[/name_u] “[name_m]Dougie[/name_m]”. Honestly I find [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] the one that is a “bit geeky”. Sorry.

I prefer [name_u]Douglas[/name_u]. I also have the [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] Dursley association from [name_m]Harry[/name_m] [name_m]Potter[/name_m].

I’m another vote for [name_u]Douglas[/name_u]-- it’s much more distinguished and classic to me. [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] reminds me of [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] [name_f]Do[/name_f]-Right from [name_m]Rocky[/name_m] and Bullwinkle. Some similar names are [name_m]Duncan[/name_m], [name_m]Donald[/name_m], [name_m]Donal[/name_m], or [name_m]Gordon[/name_m]. Out of these I like [name_m]Gordon[/name_m] best.

I love both names very much and think they are both old-fashioned cool!

Personally if I were a boy/man, I’d rather have many nicknames to choose from ([name_m]Doug[/name_m], [name_m]Dougie[/name_m], [name_m]Doogie[/name_m], [name_m]Fairbanks[/name_m], [name_m]Dougal[/name_m], [name_m]Dougray[/name_m]) than just one, particularly if that one were Dud!

I prefer [name_m]Dudley[/name_m].

Amazing! Thanks so much all. I think we’ll stay with [name_u]Douglas[/name_u]!! :slight_smile: eek!

I definitely prefer [name_u]Douglas[/name_u].

[name_m]Dudley[/name_m] is 100x more geeky than [name_u]Douglas[/name_u].

I much prefer [name_u]Douglas[/name_u]. I’m sorry to say that [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] only makes me think of [name_m]Harry[/name_m] [name_m]Potter[/name_m].

Agree with the others: [name_u]Douglas[/name_u] is much better and comes with nicknames [name_m]Dougie[/name_m] and [name_m]Doug[/name_m]. Dud is not a good nn. [name_m]Dudley[/name_m] Dursley is about the worst possible association.