Thank you all for your replies! You all had very good points about the merits of [name]Charlotte[/name] or [name]Juliet[/name].
We have decided that we definitely want [name]Evelyn[/name] in the middle name slot to “go with” the other two. The E middle name thing wasn’t intentional, I wanted [name]Sophie[/name] [name]Madeleine[/name] but DH didn’t agree so we went with [name]Sophie[/name] [name]Elinor[/name] and then we found ourselves with a pattern, and now I feel like it just makes sense and sounds better to continue it, even though we don’t use their middle names very often. I also happen to [name]LOVE[/name] too many E names so it was pretty easy to come up with another!
RE [name]JULIET[/name] and the last name, our last name sounds like “Janney”, so with [name]Juliet[/name] I think it sounds pretty good because the only repeating sound is the J, not the first two letters. (As opposed to [name]Jane[/name] Janney, for example). As for the spelling, I do like [name]Juliette[/name] as well, but a friend pointed out to me after [name]Sophie[/name] was born that both of my girls have 6 letters in their names so I was hoping for a 6-letter name if we found one that we liked (not so much that I would reduce my list or change the spelling of a name to something wacky because of that, though.) I also like the [name]Juliet[/name] spelling because I find it simpler (less frilly) and because it’s the Shakespearean way of spelling it.
RE [name]CHARLOTTE[/name] and [name]Sophie[/name] being the “odd one out” – we have a LOT of S names in our family, I am [name]Stephanie[/name], my [name]SIL[/name]'s name also starts with S, among others, so if we do go with [name]Charlotte[/name] it’s my DH who will be the “odd one out,” which is pretty much a given since he will be the only male in the house! Also, although [name]Charlotte[/name] and [name]Claire[/name] start with the same letter, they don’t start with the same sound. Another thing I like about [name]Charlotte[/name] is that my FIL’s name is [name]Charles[/name], and DH’s middle name is also [name]Charles[/name].
So as you can see, I am STILL torn between the two, and not sure how I will decide, even if we wait to see what baby looks like it will be so hard because I really like both names and think that they are both so nice!