mollie, this is quite possibly the sweetest thing i’ve ever read, and reminds me so much of the dreams i had of my wynn before she came earthside. before i was pregnant, i dreamt that she was hazel, and while i was pregnant i dreamt that she was adela, then as you know, she shared with me her name during the emergency surgery i had, where they almost delivered her at 24 weeks. i think it is so very special that her name, and both of these names share the “el” sound. how special that your little girl is sharing her (possible) name with you. violet is ever-so-lovely and feels very you! 
for her middle, i adore your ideas of violet philomena and violet zipporah, i’d suggest… 
violet junia
[name_f][/name_f]violet imogene
[name_f][/name_f]violet noema
[name_f][/name_f]violet dorothea
[name_f][/name_f]violet odelia
[name_f][/name_f]violet eleanore
[name_f][/name_f]violet keziah
[name_f][/name_f]violet susannah
[name_f][/name_f]violet tirzah
[name_f][/name_f]violet prudence
[name_f][/name_f]violet truth
[name_f][/name_f]violet delphine
[name_f][/name_f]violet una
[name_f][/name_f]violet moriah
[name_f][/name_f]violet adelaide
[name_f][/name_f]violet imelda
[name_f][/name_f]violet cecile
and for her siblings, i’m thinking… 
june
[name_f][/name_f]willow
[name_f][/name_f]primrose
[name_f][/name_f]mercy
[name_f][/name_f]opal
[name_f][/name_f]harriet
[name_f][/name_f]faye
[name_f][/name_f]estelle
[name_f][/name_f]louisa
[name_f][/name_f]clover
[name_f][/name_f]beatrice
[name_f][/name_f]wren
bear
[name_f][/name_f]harvey
[name_f][/name_f]clark
[name_f][/name_f]alden
[name_f][/name_f]franklin
[name_f][/name_f]sonny
[name_f][/name_f]winston
[name_f][/name_f]amias
[name_f][/name_f]thatcher
[name_f][/name_f]percy
[name_f][/name_f]ambrose
[name_f][/name_f]wilder
[name_f][/name_f]elwood
[name_f][/name_f]silas