Due in less than a month, still no name

I’m due with our third child in less than a month but we can’t seem to narrow our list down and decide on a name. I would love some feedback on these names. No new suggestions please - I’m already close to losing it due to now having a name picked out.

Our other two are named [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] ([name_m]Dan[/name_m]) and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] ([name_f]Nell[/name_f]).

Our list:
[name_u]Axel[/name_u] [name_u]Credence[/name_u] [name_u]Elias[/name_u] [name_m]Henry[/name_m] [name_m]Harvey[/name_m] [name_m]Isaac[/name_m] [name_m]Josiah[/name_m] [name_u]Jordan[/name_u] [name_m]Lucas[/name_m] [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] [name_u]Oliver[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_u]Rowan[/name_u] [name_u]Riley[/name_u] [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] [name_m]Thomas[/name_m]

Thanks in advance!

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I really like [name_m]Henry[/name_m], [name_m]Isaac[/name_m] and [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]; they’re so handsome and work well with siblings’ names :slight_smile:

So many nice choices. [name_f]My[/name_f] favourites with [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]…

Oliver
[name_u]Elias[/name_u]
[name_m]Lucas[/name_m]
[name_m]Oscar[/name_m]
[name_u]Riley[/name_u]
[name_m]Samuel[/name_m]

I love [name_m]Henry[/name_m], [name_m]Lucas[/name_m], [name_u]Oliver[/name_u], [name_m]Samuel[/name_m], and [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] with your other kids’ names!

I like a lot of the names on your list. To rule out a few options, I would say [name_u]Jordan[/name_u], [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u], and [name_u]Rowan[/name_u] feel more trendy/popular compared to your children’s more classic names. [name_u]Axel[/name_u], [name_m]Josiah[/name_m], [name_u]Riley[/name_u], [name_u]Oliver[/name_u], and [name_m]Lucas[/name_m] might be as well. I’d also say the [name_u]Elias[/name_u] is too close to [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]. If I’m being picky, I might add the [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] are too rhyme-y, although they could work if you really love [name_m]Samuel[/name_m].
[name_f]My[/name_f] favourites with [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] and [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] are [name_m]Oscar[/name_m], [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m], and [name_m]Tobias[/name_m]. They all have sweet nicknames to go with [name_m]Dan[/name_m] and [name_f]Nell[/name_f], and they have a similar classic style.

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With your other kids my favorite is [name_m]Henry[/name_m]. Then they could hall have an N in their names! [name_m]Josiah[/name_m] is my second favorite.
[name_u]Axel[/name_u], [name_u]Credence[/name_u], [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u], [name_u]Rowan[/name_u], [name_u]Riley[/name_u], [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] - too modern/ not a style match

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I tried to narrow to traditional, approachable names with cute available nicknames as a bonus:

Henry - [name_m]Hal[/name_m] fits right in with [name_m]Dan[/name_m] and [name_f]Nell[/name_f], and [name_m]Hank[/name_m] is another adorable option. [name_m]Henry[/name_m] is also great on its own and I like the “n” in the middle of [name_m]Henry[/name_m] to match the “n” in [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_m]Harvey[/name_m] - I love the way this name sounds but make sure you’re okay ignoring associations with [name_m]Harvey[/name_m] Weinstein and [name_f]Hurricane[/name_f] [name_m]Harvey[/name_m]
[name_m]Lucas[/name_m] - [name_m]Luke[/name_m] is a great nickname, [name_m]Lucas[/name_m] shares the “l” sound with [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] but also sounds distinct in its own right. Its also a similar popularity to [name_m]Daniel[/name_m].
[name_m]Oscar[/name_m] - Less popular and slightly more exotic that your other children’s names, but I still think it fits the friendly, approachable, classic feel of [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], plus has fun nicknames [name_m]Oz[/name_m] and [name_m]Ozzy[/name_m]
[name_m]Samuel[/name_m] - Is this too similar to [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] in sound and origin?
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m] - [name_m]Dan[/name_m], [name_f]Nell[/name_f], and [name_m]Tom[/name_m](my) feel like a set

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I think [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] “[name_u]Sam[/name_u]”, [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] “[name_u]Toby[/name_u]”, [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] “[name_m]Tom[/name_m]” or [name_m]Henry[/name_m] work the best with sibling names :slight_smile:

Congratulations! Your other children have such cool classic names. I’d narrow this list to…

Henry
[name_m]Isaac[/name_m]
[name_m]Lucas[/name_m]
[name_m]Oscar[/name_m]
[name_u]Oliver[/name_u]
[name_m]Samuel[/name_m]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]
[name_m]Tobias[/name_m]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]

My top 3 for you would be…

Isaac
[name_m]Henry[/name_m]
[name_u]Oliver[/name_u]

I think they all fit the traditional but current vibe of your children’s names perfectly. [name_m]Isaac[/name_m] is my top pick because it’s a true classic but still feels cool, plus [name_m]Ike[/name_m] and [name_m]Zac[/name_m] are fun and surprising nicknames.

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Daniel, [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], and [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] sound like such a sweet and lovely sibset

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Love - [name_u]Axel[/name_u], [name_u]Elias[/name_u], [name_m]Henry[/name_m], [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m],

Like - [name_m]Harvey[/name_m], [name_m]Oscar[/name_m], [name_m]Tobias[/name_m],

Eliminate - [name_u]Credence[/name_u], [name_m]Isaac[/name_m], [name_m]Josiah[/name_m], [name_u]Jordan[/name_u], [name_m]Lucas[/name_m], [name_u]Oliver[/name_u], [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u], [name_u]Rowan[/name_u], [name_u]Riley[/name_u], [name_m]Samuel[/name_m], [name_m]Thomas[/name_m].

Lucas, [name_u]Oliver[/name_u], [name_u]Riley[/name_u], [name_m]Samuel[/name_m], and [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] are all very popular names in my area. It feels so overused and over done.
[name_u]Credence[/name_u] and [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] are a little too out there for my taste.
[name_m]Isaac[/name_m] for some reason is always difficult for me to spell.
[name_m]Josiah[/name_m], [name_u]Jordan[/name_u], [name_u]Rowan[/name_u] just not a fan of.

I really like the way [name_m]Henry[/name_m] and [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] flow with your other kids names!

Hmmm I’m not sure if his is your last but if not and maybe if so one way to narrow it down is thinking if you’re wanting your sibset to come off as “matchy” or not. If you have more and go with the matchiness now it would likely be expected with future names. When I read [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] and then read your names Inheard the heavy L sound. Following that theme. Your choices would be:
[name_u]Axel[/name_u]
[name_u]Elias[/name_u]
[name_m]Lucas[/name_m]
[name_u]Oliver[/name_u]
[name_u]Riley[/name_u]
[name_m]Samuel[/name_m]

My choice of those would be: [name_u]Oliver[/name_u].

@hellobanjo noticed the noticeable N in each name. That style would leave you with:
[name_u]Credence[/name_u]
[name_m]Henry[/name_m]
[name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_u]Jordan[/name_u]
[name_u]Rowan[/name_u]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m].

Of these my choice is [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]. In addition to the N sound there’s the classic vibe that the other two have but also the added nn potential that the other two also have.

If you’re not wanting to get yourself in the above matchiness then you’re left with:

Harvey
[name_m]Isaac[/name_m]
[name_m]Josiah[/name_m]
[name_m]Oscar[/name_m]
[name_m]Tobias[/name_m]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]

For this one. You have biblical [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] And unbiblical [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]. These remaining choices are mostly biblical. So again if you have more and go the biblical name route you may be left with having to balance out the next name to not make [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] seem “left out”. So my choice is.

Biblical: [name_m]Isaac[/name_m]- classic but less then common then [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] so it balances well with the other two.
Unbiblical: [name_m]Oscar[/name_m]. Seems completely vintage and fits well.

Tobias and [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] are perfect

Isaac and [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] jumped out to me. [name_m]Ike[/name_m] and [name_m]Tom[/name_m] will fit nicely with [name_m]Dan[/name_m] and [name_f]Nell[/name_f].

Sebastian and [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] are my favorites. [name_m]Seb[/name_m] or [name_u]Sam[/name_u].

I may not be much help because I love so many of these names! [name_f]My[/name_f] top 5 are [name_m]Isaac[/name_m], [name_m]Lucas[/name_m], [name_m]Josiah[/name_m], [name_u]Rowan[/name_u] and [name_m]Samuel[/name_m]. ALL of these names go well with your other kids’s names. I can see your dilemma. lol. However, I would cross off [name_u]Elias[/name_u] as it is very close to [name_f]Nell[/name_f]’s full name.

Here are my general thoughts, mostly about matching sibling names:

Axel- This doesn’t seem to fit as nicely with [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]- it doesn’t fit the gentle, dignified, and timeless vibe those have. It’s a nice name, but I prefer some of your other choices.

Credence- I really like this name, but I don’t have the same feeling about it as [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]. It feels more upright and old-fashioned. I’m also not sure if there’s an intuitive nickname, which [name_m]Dan[/name_m] and [name_f]Nell[/name_f] seem to be. I think this would be excellent in the middle spot!

Elias- [name_u]Elias[/name_u] is a great choice! It has a lovely sound and has the same feeling as the siblings of an old name that continues to be used and feels new. I also really like the fact that it shares letters with [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and a beginning sound with [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] as a subtle link between the siblings. However, if the double [name_f]El[/name_f] sound bothers you, maybe this isn’t the right name.

Henry- I do like this with your kids’ names. However, I think it would match well in a different way than many on this list; instead of being a softer name (often with Biblical origins), it has a more upper crust feeling. I guess what I’m saying is that your sibset could match well in totally different ways depending on the name you pick!

Harvey- This doesn’t feel quite as timeless as his siblings’ name’s; while this isn’t a deal-breaker, it isn’t what I would choose from this list.

Isaac- I think this is another excellent match! It has the same old but fresh feeling and gentle strength. I also like that it has a unique beginning and ending letter from the siblings.

Josiah- [name_m]Josiah[/name_m] sounds great with this sibset! He seems to be a stylistic match and the sounds are very appealing with sibling names. This is another fresh Biblical name!

Jordan- I like this name, but it feels more modern and more unisex than [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]. The sounds also feel slightly harder than the sibling names.

Lucas- This is a nice match for the timeless, gentle feeling of [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] (especially [name_m]Daniel[/name_m]). [name_m]Luke[/name_m] would make a great nickname!

Oscar- This is another name that feels a little posher than some on your list. This name isn’t my personal favorite on the list, but would go well.

Oliver- This seems like another timeless choice. It doesn’t have quite as much gravitas as [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], but would make a nice sibling.

Phoenix- I really like this, but it feels slightly edgier and more modern than [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]. I think it would make a really great middle name!

Rowan- While I love this name, I think that it doesn’t feel as timeless and [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]. This seems like a great name that doesn’t stand out from a great list!

Riley- I love [name_u]Riley[/name_u] for a boy, but it feels different in that it is a unisex name compared to the more binary sibling names. Again, great name, but your whole list is great!

Sebastian- Like [name_m]Henry[/name_m], I think this name matches well in a more posh way. [name_m]Seb[/name_m] is a cute nickname! I think this would make a good choice, but I prefer some other names over it.

Samuel- I love this! It has a very similar feeling to [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] while still being distinct and recognized on its own. It’s familiar but not overused. I think “[name_u]Sam[/name_u]” would go great with your kids! The only concern you might have is pronouncing [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] and [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] in quick succession, as they have similar sounds.

Tobias- I think this is a great choice! It matches the vibes of the siblings’ names, it has a nickname that goes well ([name_u]Toby[/name_u]), and it sounds well with them while still having distinct sounds!

Thomas- On the surface, this seems like a nice match, but it feels a little more stolid than the sibling names. While I like [name_m]Thomas[/name_m], I prefer [name_m]Tobias[/name_m].

My favorites are [name_u]Elias[/name_u], [name_m]Isaac[/name_m], [name_m]Tobias[/name_m], [name_m]Josiah[/name_m], and [name_m]Samuel[/name_m], with [name_m]Henry[/name_m] and [name_m]Lucas[/name_m] as runner ups. It’s true that I tend to go for softer, Biblical names, so my favorites are made up of that even though you have some lovely and fitting names on your list in other styles.

I absolutely love your list and don’t envy you choosing! Maybe a narrowed down list might be easier to choose from once you meet your son.

Henry, [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] and [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] are my favourites with [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]. [name_u]Oliver[/name_u] and [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] would work brilliantly too.

I wouldn’t use [name_u]Elias[/name_u] because [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] also starts with [name_f]El[/name_f].

I understand! We’re due in 3 weeks and still coming up with new ideas. I think we’ll ultimately decide once we meet him.

With siblings I like [name_m]Henry[/name_m], [name_m]Thomas[/name_m], [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] and [name_u]Rowen[/name_u]. [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] seems to be the only one with an obvious nn like [name_f]Nell[/name_f] and [name_m]Dan[/name_m] if that’s important to you.

I initially liked [name_u]Oliver[/name_u] and [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] as well but decided [name_u]Oliver[/name_u] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] have similar sounds as does [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] and [name_m]Daniel[/name_m].

All the best!

Edit: I wanted to add [name_m]Lucas[/name_m] nn [name_u]Lou[/name_u] is also great!