Fifth Baby, plus need a new mn for #3

Hi! [name_u]New[/name_u] to Nameberry (somehow)

I have three older children from a really abusive first marriage. One needs a middle name change. They all three are choosing to use my now husband’s last name. And we share a daughter together that is 18 months, with another child on the way this [name_u]August[/name_u] :slight_smile:

So, looking for ideas for both.

In order of age:
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u] [name_u]Lee[/name_u]
[name_u]Wilder[/name_u] [name_m]William[/name_m]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] ____
[name_f]Coral[/name_f] [name_f]Ann[/name_f]
and, new baby on the way!

Coincidentally [name_u]Wilder[/name_u]’s mn is my husband’s first name and he loves that. Now [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] would like it too haha. I’d rather see him use something different though. [name_f]Every[/name_f] other mn is a family name, and I just kind of have no other ideas. I was tossing around the use of [name_m]Tamarack[/name_m] because it’s a very sentimental tree to me but it is obviously LONGGGGG.

So taking ideas on these two. We would like to avoid another gemstone nod for balance. TIA!

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Maybe your husbands middle name for [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] too?


I like the idea of that; he is [name_m]Samuel[/name_m]. If the newest addition is a boy however he likes the name [name_m]Samson[/name_m]. It’s pretty much the only name he has come up with, but we haven’t put too much effort into yet.


I guess I’d hate to name a new baby without giving this toddler on the brink of kindergarten a full fledged name first to use and know. :cry:

A middle for [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] and suggestions for baby #5 if it’s a boy!

Suggestions for a girl:

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If the new baby is a girl how about [name_f]Tamara[/name_f]? From [name_m]Tamarack[/name_m]? There is also [name_f]Tamzin[/name_f] ? [name_u]Or[/name_u] maybe [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] in a boy?
As for Jaspers middle name I’m not too sure but how would [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] feel is your partner named him? Is that something they would like? :slightly_smiling_face:
But my immediate thought was Jasper Arrow?

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For [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] what about:


For you 5th child, you seem to have more unisex names for the boys and female names for the girls so, I’m going to continue the pattern

Ruby [name_u]Lee[/name_u], [name_u]Wilder[/name_u] [name_m]William[/name_m], [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] _____, [name_f]Coral[/name_f] [name_f]Ann[/name_f] &

Boys (unisex):

[name_m]Kieren[/name_m] / [name_m]Ciaran[/name_m]


Hope this helps

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I like these o endings in [name_u]Theo[/name_u] and [name_f]Juno[/name_f] a LOT. Thank you!

Love these, thank you!

They do have a special bond for sure and I’ll bring this up to them. :heartpulse:

Since [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] is old enough to have an opinion, I think you should allow his input. I really like the idea of your husband’s middle name! I think you mentioned that his middle name is [name_m]Samuel[/name_m]? [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] sounds great!


Love your kids names!

I think if [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] wants to use [name_m]William[/name_m] as a mn, that’s his own choice. But if he’s underage, I would suggest he think it over more before doing anything.
There are similar choices like [name_m]Willem[/name_m], [name_m]Bill[/name_m], [name_u]Liam[/name_u], [name_u]Wiley[/name_u], etc.

Tamarack is quiet cool. [name_f]Tamara[/name_f] also came to mind.

Other suggestions:
[name_f]Clementine[/name_f] (nn [name_f]Minnie[/name_f])

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Wow ok it wasn’t even until you mentioned the gemstone thing did ai realize the trend! Cool names!

For [name_u]Jasper[/name_u]:
[name_m]Jones[/name_m], [name_m]John[/name_m], [name_u]James[/name_u], [name_m]Henry[/name_m] , came to mind
I do like the suggestions of [name_m]Samuel[/name_m]…
and having husband pick.
And having [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] pick. [name_f]My[/name_f] 4 year old loves his name so maybe come up with a few options for [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] (so to avoid things like Spider-[name_m]Man[/name_m] or cheese stick) and have him pick the winnings name


It does sound pretty wonderful.

Hey, [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] Cheesestick Spider-[name_m]Man[/name_m]! Haha :heartpulse:

Love the option of using [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_m]Samuel[/name_m]. It connects him to your husband, but also eliminates the usage of two kiddos with the middle name [name_m]William[/name_m].

Ruby, [name_u]Wilder[/name_u], [name_f]Coral[/name_f] +

Jasper [name_u]Clarke[/name_u]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_u]Owen[/name_u]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_m]Nathan[/name_m]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_m]Cohen[/name_m]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_u]Reed[/name_u]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_u]Tate[/name_u]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_u]Miles[/name_u]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_m]Waylon[/name_m]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_u]Quinn[/name_u]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_m]Colton[/name_m]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_u]Levi[/name_u]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_u]Bennett[/name_u]



Welcome to nameberry! Your kids have amazing names
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_m]Samuel[/name_m]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_m]Wells[/name_m]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_u]Willoughby[/name_u]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_m]Williamson[/name_m]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_f]Tamar[/name_f]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u] [name_m]Tamarack[/name_m]

Now for baby #5 and siblings , [name_u]Ruby[/name_u], [name_u]Wilder[/name_u] , [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] and [name_f]Coral[/name_f]
For baby boy
[name_u]Quinn[/name_u]/ [name_m]Quinton[/name_m]

Baby Girl
[name_f]Elora[/name_f]/ Alaura
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]/ [name_f]Viola[/name_f]
[name_f]Rhea[/name_f] / [name_f]Raya[/name_f]
[name_u]Rain[/name_u]/ [name_u]Reign[/name_u]

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He just told me um no I want to use Wiwyum. Not [name_m]Samuel[/name_m].


Billie is sooo cute