First step: Help me cut our list in half!

We found out our little bundle is a healthy boy! Now I really want to crack down on our list. The last few weeks I told him to find the best 10 names for each gender that he would use on a child. I also made a list of 10 names each. I figured the best way to start off narrowing down names is to cut the entire thing in half. It would be nice for you nameberries to write what the best 10 names are from this list. I put who’s list it was on next to the name so you can get a feel for the style we tend to lean towards. You may add why or why not you picked the name as a top 10 contender. Our last name is Arches. So please it is sounds really numb with our last name let me know. Sometimes you don’t see it till someone else points it out.

[name_m]Arthur[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_u]Asa[/name_u] (My Pick)
[name_m]Eben[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Egan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_u]James[/name_u] (My Pick)
[name_m]Link[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_u]Luca[/name_u] (My Pick)
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Miles[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Morris[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Odin[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Ulysses[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]William[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Zane[/name_m] (My Pick)

Thank you so much for your time! :slight_smile:

[name_u]Asa[/name_u] was totally going to make my list until I heard your surname! [name_u]Asa[/name_u] Arches sounds a wee bit cartoonish for me. Not just because of the alliteration–there are just too many repetitive sounds. My ten favorites:

[name_m]Eben[/name_m]
[name_u]Luca[/name_u]
[name_m]Miles[/name_m]
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u]
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m]
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_m]William[/name_m]
[name_m]Zane[/name_m]

[name_m]Zane[/name_m] and [name_m]Ronan[/name_m] are my favorites, and [name_u]Asa[/name_u] would have totally been in my top 3 with that! It’s a shame about [name_u]Asa[/name_u] Arches. :frowning: Maybe I’m just hearing it funny, though. If it doesn’t bother anyone else, I would say it’s a keeper. :slight_smile:

My favorites from your list: [name_m]Thomas[/name_m]; [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]; [name_m]William[/name_m] and [name_u]James[/name_u]. :slight_smile:

You have some great names on the list! I have more classic taste, so my top 10 from your choices are: [name_u]James[/name_u], [name_u]Luca[/name_u], [name_m]Malcolm[/name_m], [name_m]Patrick[/name_m], [name_m]Ronan[/name_m], [name_m]Theodore[/name_m], [name_m]Thomas[/name_m], [name_m]Ulysses[/name_m], [name_m]William[/name_m], and [name_m]Zane[/name_m].

The only names I don’t like with your last name are [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] and [name_u]Asa[/name_u]. [name_m]Both[/name_m] sound kind of rhyme-y with your surname, especially [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] with the repetitive ar- sounds. (It’s a pity, because I [name_f]LOVE[/name_f] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m].) I dislike [name_m]Link[/name_m], and was going to suggest [name_m]Lincoln[/name_m] as an alternative, but I’m not sure whether [name_m]Lincoln[/name_m] Arches sounds too much like a landmark…

[name_u]James[/name_u] (My Pick)
[name_u]Luca[/name_u] (My Pick)
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Ulysses[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]William[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Zane[/name_m] (My Pick)

I also love [name_m]Odin[/name_m], but not w/your surname.

These are my favorites (in no order)

[name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Miles[/name_m]
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m]
[name_m]Ulysses[/name_m]
[name_m]Zane[/name_m]

[name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Link[/name_m]
[name_u]Luca[/name_u]
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m]
[name_m]Miles[/name_m]
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m]
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_m]William[/name_m]

so many handsome names!
my top 10 from your list are;

[name_m]Eben[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) – this is cool! tossing up whether i prefer this or [name_u]Eden[/name_u]… not sure if it goes too well with surname
Ezekiel (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_u]James[/name_u] (My Pick)
[name_m]Link[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) – prefer it as a nn for [name_m]Lincoln[/name_m]
[name_m]Miles[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Odin[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m] (My Pick) – love love nn [name_u]Theo[/name_u]!
[name_m]William[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Zane[/name_m] (My Pick)
:slight_smile:

(favourites are in bold)

[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Miles[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Egan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_u]James[/name_u] (My Pick)
[name_m]Zane[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Link[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)

Note: I only like [name_m]Link[/name_m] as a nickname for [name_m]Lincoln[/name_m], but kept it on this list because I think [name_m]Lincoln[/name_m] Arches would be a great name.

I see that your husband really dig’s mythology and/or video games. Sadly, I’m thinking those names would work better for middles. Here are my picks.

[name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Luca[/name_u]
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m]
[name_m]Miles[/name_m]
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u]
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m]
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_m]William[/name_m]

[name_u]Asa[/name_u] and [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] will not work with your last name. [name_m]Eben[/name_m], [name_m]Egan[/name_m] and [name_m]Odin[/name_m] are probably not going to work either (sound like fast food places or something–> think “golden arches”). [name_u]Morgan[/name_u] & [name_m]Ronan[/name_m] could also been in that camp, but they don’t begin with a vowel, so somehow they don’t seem as bad.

I just generally love all of the names above (lukewarm about [name_m]Malcolm[/name_m], [name_m]Miles[/name_m] & [name_u]Morgan[/name_u]).

Excellent start :slight_smile:

Keep
[name_m]Eben[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) One of my favorites.
[name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) It’s cute.
[name_m]Link[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) It’s cute too.
[name_u]Luca[/name_u] (My Pick) Not my favorite with the last name, but it’s ok.
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] (My Pick) This is a great one. Possibly the best name with surname on the list.
[name_m]Odin[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) A very interesting name.
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m] (My Pick) I love this one. Classic name.
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) I have this one on my list.
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m] (My Pick) Great name.
[name_m]William[/name_m] (My Pick) Great name. It is top ten, with [name_m]Liam[/name_m] right behind. (A whole lot of Liams going on.
[name_m]Zane[/name_m] (My Pick) Nice.

Ditch
[name_m]Arthur[/name_m] (my pick) I love this one, but not with your last name.
[name_u]Asa[/name_u] (my pick) Not my style.
[name_m]Egan[/name_m] (Hubby’s pick) Not my style. I’ve never heard of this or seen it and that makes it seem kind of out there.
[name_u]James[/name_u] (my pick) I love this one, but not sure it works great with your last name.
[name_m]Miles[/name_m] (hubby’s pick) Same as [name_u]James[/name_u].
[name_m]Morris[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) Too surname as first name, maybe as a middle.
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u] (hubby’s pick) not my favorite. I have known mostly girls with this name, one guy I didn’t like, and then there’s the [name_m]Captain[/name_m].
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m] Maybe if he goes mostly by [name_m]Tom[/name_m]. See the note on Ulyssess.
[name_m]Ulysses[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) No. In general watch those s sounds. I have a last name that ends in s sounds (st) too so I know what I am talking about. The more s in name the harder it becomes for children to say. My dad had problems with his name as a kid, because his first name and last name prominently end in s sounds. He had a lisp and it was hard to pronounce his name and he had trouble saying his first and last name.
In general since your last name ends s I would try to avoid s names. My favorite combo is [name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] Arches.
Good [name_m]Luck[/name_m]!

[name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_u]James[/name_u] (My Pick)
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Miles[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]William[/name_m] (My Pick)
[name_m]Zane[/name_m] (My Pick)

[name_m]Arthur[/name_m] (My Pick) - not with your last name - double AR and 2 syllables.
[name_u]Asa[/name_u] (My Pick) - not with your last name, too many repeated syllables.
[name_m]Eben[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - I prefer [name_m]Egan[/name_m].
[name_m]Egan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - This is ok.
[name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - A bit out there, but it’s ok.
[name_u]James[/name_u] (My Pick) - I like this!
[name_m]Link[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - Um, are you from [name_f]Star[/name_f] Wars or something?
[name_u]Luca[/name_u] (My Pick) - I like this, but I prefer [name_m]Lucas[/name_m].
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] (My Pick) - It’s ok.
[name_m]Miles[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - Not with your last names, [name_m]Miles[/name_m] Arches - [name_m]Miles[/name_m] of Arches? Too many words.
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u] (Hubby’s Pick) - I like!
[name_m]Morris[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - A bit old man-ish
[name_m]Odin[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - Sort of sounds like a dog’s name, but I don’t mind it.
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m] (My Pick) - Like!
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - [name_f]LOVE[/name_f]! [name_m]How[/name_m] about [name_u]Rowan[/name_u]?
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m] (My Pick) - [name_f]LOVe[/name_f]!
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m] (My Pick) - LIKE!
[name_m]Ulysses[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - Not a huge fan.
[name_m]William[/name_m] (My Pick) - LIKE!
[name_m]Zane[/name_m] (My Pick) - like
It seems your husband is more outgoing with names, you’ll have to try to find something in between. [name_m]Ronan[/name_m] feels like the most conservative of his picks, and [name_u]Luca[/name_u] the most outgoing of yours (that works with your last name), so maybe one of those? Or [name_m]Zane[/name_m]? Zayn?
My top 10 would be: [name_u]James[/name_u], [name_u]Luca[/name_u], [name_u]Morgan[/name_u], [name_m]Patrick[/name_m], [name_m]Ronan[/name_m], [name_m]Theodore[/name_m], [name_m]Thomas[/name_m], [name_m]William[/name_m], [name_m]Zane[/name_m], and [name_m]Odin[/name_m].
Top 3 of yours are: [name_m]William[/name_m], [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] and [name_u]James[/name_u].
Top 3 of his are: [name_m]Ronan[/name_m], [name_u]Morgan[/name_u] and [name_m]Odin[/name_m].
Some ideas: [name_u]Rowan[/name_u], [name_m]Lucas[/name_m], [name_m]Zeke[/name_m] (either as a nn for [name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m] or as it’s own name), [name_m]Xander[/name_m], [name_m]Edwin[/name_m], [name_u]Ryan[/name_u], [name_m]Tobias[/name_m], [name_u]Kai[/name_u], [name_m]Oliver[/name_m], [name_m]Frederick[/name_m] ([name_m]Fred[/name_m]/[name_u]Freddie[/name_u]), [name_m]Ben[/name_m], [name_u]Charlie[/name_u], [name_m]Quentin[/name_m], Zayn.

My favorites (in order):
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u]
[name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_u]Luca[/name_u]
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m]
[name_m]Ulysses[/name_m]
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m]
[name_m]William[/name_m]
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_m]Miles[/name_m]

and I like [name_m]Link[/name_m] (your Hubby’s Pick) as a nickname for [name_m]Lincoln[/name_m] (if that was an option it would’ve been my #1)

[name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] - love!
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_m]William[/name_m]

Thanks to everyone that responded. I wanted to reply back to a few people with good points or suggestions.

ashthedreamer: Thank you for replying! I get what you mean by [name_u]Asa[/name_u] Arches sounding funny.

maggiefromcanada: I love [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] too. It’s my dad’s name. I would use it to honor him. I would go for [name_m]Lincoln[/name_m] but, I too think that it sounds like a landmark.

mrs_darling: Thank you for your suggestion of [name_m]Lincoln[/name_m]. [name_f]Do[/name_f] you think [name_m]Lincoln[/name_m] Arches sounds like a landmark though? I feel like I should make a pole.

collmcc523: You hit it on the head. Hubby loves himself some mythology and video games.

emilyva: Thank you for leaving comments. [name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] is a family name. He passed away this summer so I’m not sure if it’s too soon to know if I want to use the name or not. I understand where you’re coming from but, there is no gaurentee that he’ll have problems with his name. Though I will take it easy on the ‘S’ sounds.

waverly123: xD I don’t think there is a [name_m]Link[/name_m] in star wars. It’s from the [name_u]Legend[/name_u] of [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] games. Good pick up on [name_m]Miles[/name_m] Thank you! Also I like [name_m]Zeke[/name_m] but, wouldn’t people assume his name is [name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m]?

[name_m]Arthur[/name_m] (My Pick) - As others have said, this doesn’t work with your surname.
[name_u]Asa[/name_u] (My Pick) - Same as [name_m]Arthur[/name_m].
[name_m]Eben[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - Not bad. He might get sick of saying, “No, not [name_u]Evan[/name_u].”
[name_m]Egan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - Not bad. I went to college with an [name_m]Egan[/name_m].
[name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - [name_f]Love[/name_f].
[name_u]James[/name_u] (My Pick) - The one syllable S end makes it a little lispy with Arches.
[name_m]Link[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - I like this as a nn for [name_m]Lincoln[/name_m].
[name_u]Luca[/name_u] (My Pick) - The A ending makes it run together your last name.
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] (My Pick) - [name_f]Love[/name_f].
[name_m]Miles[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - [name_f]Love[/name_f] [name_m]Miles[/name_m], but with that S ending, it is the same as [name_u]James[/name_u].
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u] (Hubby’s Pick) - Not my favorite.
[name_m]Morris[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - Not a fan. I think of a cat.
[name_m]Odin[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - Like this one, but with Arches, he might get “Odor Arches” from wiseguy classmate.
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m] (My Pick) - This is pretty good.
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - Good.
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m] (My Pick) - I like [name_u]Theo[/name_u] better than [name_m]Theodore[/name_m].
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m] (My Pick) - The S ending again, but I still like the name for your.
[name_m]Ulysses[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick) - See [name_m]Thomas[/name_m]. I love the name, though.
[name_m]William[/name_m] (My Pick) - [name_f]Love[/name_f] it.
[name_m]Zane[/name_m] (My Pick) - [name_f]Love[/name_f] this.

My favorites for you are: [name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m], [name_m]Link[/name_m], [name_m]Malcolm[/name_m], [name_m]Patrick[/name_m], [name_m]Ronan[/name_m], [name_m]Thomas[/name_m], [name_m]William[/name_m], and [name_m]Zane[/name_m]

[name_m]Arthur[/name_m]- There is a lot of alliteration when paired with your surname. I’m not a fan, are you?
[name_u]Asa[/name_u] (My Pick)- Too short, and again with the alliteration…VERY hard to say with your surname.
[name_m]Eben[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)- I really just don’t like this one. I feel like the first name needs to have more syllables to flow well with Arches.
[name_m]Egan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)- Same issue as with [name_m]Eben[/name_m].
[name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)- I like this one.
[name_u]James[/name_u] (My Pick)- Hard to say [name_u]James[/name_u] Arches.
[name_m]Link[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)- Not sure…
[name_u]Luca[/name_u] (My Pick)- I like [name_u]Luca[/name_u] on a girl better.
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] (My Pick)- A favorite on this list.
[name_m]Miles[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)- Same as [name_u]James[/name_u]…I think it is the -s ending.
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u] (Hubby’s Pick)- [name_f]LOVE[/name_f] this.
[name_m]Morris[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)- No.
[name_m]Odin[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)- Too short.
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m] (My Pick)- This one is okay but not outstanding.
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)- Too girly, [name_f]IMO[/name_f].
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m] (My Pick)- Definitely a fav.
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m] (My Pick)- That -s ending again…
[name_m]Ulysses[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)- Same as above.
[name_m]William[/name_m] (My Pick)- A fav.
[name_m]Zane[/name_m] (My Pick)- Too short, but sounds okay.

So, the only names that I think sound okay with Arches are [name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m], [name_m]Malcolm[/name_m], [name_u]Morgan[/name_u], [name_m]Theodore[/name_m], and [name_m]William[/name_m]. My first choice would have to be [name_m]William[/name_m] Arches, even though [name_u]Morgan[/name_u] is my favorite as a stand-alone.

[name_m]Arthur[/name_m]- love [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] but [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] Arches might be a bit much
[name_u]Asa[/name_u]- also love [name_u]Asa[/name_u] and don’t think the alliteration is too much
[name_m]Eben[/name_m] - not digging it
[name_m]Egan[/name_m]- "
[name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m]- I do like Ezekial and nn [name_m]Zeke[/name_m] a lot.
[name_u]James[/name_u]- nic, classic
[name_m]Link[/name_m]- do not care for [name_m]Link[/name_m] Arches
[name_u]Luca[/name_u] - lie [name_u]Luca[/name_u] a lot
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] - I love this and the combo
[name_m]Miles[/name_m] - really like [name_m]Miles[/name_m] but not with surname
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u] - too feminine but not bad
[name_m]Morris[/name_m] - hmmm…
[name_m]Odin[/name_m] - Audin or O-din? Either way I am not sure I am a fan
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m] - works well with surname
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] (Hubby’s Pick)
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m] - [name_u]Theo[/name_u] or [name_u]Teddy[/name_u] work with Arches!
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m] - also like classic [name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_m]Ulysses[/name_m]- what would the nn be?
[name_m]William[/name_m] - pairs well with Arches
[name_m]Zane[/name_m] - fine

Mt top ten names without considering your surname would be:
[name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_u]Luca[/name_u]
[name_m]Miles[/name_m]
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_m]William[/name_m]
[name_u]Asa[/name_u]
[name_m]Eben[/name_m]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Odin[/name_m]

However, your surname clashes with quite a few of these names e.g. [name_m]Arthur[/name_m], [name_u]Asa[/name_u], [name_u]Luca[/name_u]. So, my list while considering your surname is:
[name_m]Eben[/name_m]
[name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Miles[/name_m]
[name_u]Morgan[/name_u]
[name_m]Odin[/name_m]
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m]
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_m]William[/name_m]
[name_m]Zane[/name_m]