My fiancé and I are starting to talk about names, but cannot agree on boys. We agree completely on the girls. We do know that the middle is going to be [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]. He likes more traditional names, but I like unique or vintage names. We would love some help!
It would be helpful if you listed the names each of you likes. 
A few suggestions:
[name_m]Hugo[/name_m]
[name_u]Orion[/name_u]
[name_m]Harvey[/name_m]
[name_m]Felix[/name_m]
[name_m]Otto[/name_m]
[name_m]Julius[/name_m]
[name_m]Julian[/name_m]
[name_u]Jules[/name_u]
[name_m]Cyrus[/name_m]
[name_m]Leander[/name_m] “[name_m]Leo[/name_m]”
[name_m]Barnaby[/name_m]
[name_m]Caius[/name_m] “[name_u]Kai[/name_u]”
[name_m]Linus[/name_m]
[name_m]Atlas[/name_m]
[name_m]Soren[/name_m]
[name_m]Hector[/name_m]
[name_m]Ivan[/name_m]
[name_u]Ellis[/name_u]
[name_m]Fletcher[/name_m]
[name_m]Maxwell[/name_m]
Traditional and vintage cross paths often. And all you have to do is find something relatively uncommon / unpopular to fit into your unique category. Like otri said, it would be easier to give you suggestions if you gave us some examples of yours and your fiancés favourite names. Or what you would pick for a girl.
It really would be helpful to get some examples. Traditional-unique/vintage could be:
[name_m]Ambrose[/name_m]
[name_m]Arnold[/name_m]
[name_u]Barry[/name_u]
[name_u]Blaine[/name_u]
[name_m]Bruce[/name_m]
[name_m]Cecil[/name_m]
[name_m]Clive[/name_m]
[name_m]Dennis[/name_m]
[name_m]Ernest[/name_m] / [name_m]Ernst[/name_m]
[name_m]Gerard[/name_m]
[name_m]Irving[/name_m]
[name_u]Lawrence[/name_u]
[name_m]Lloyd[/name_m]
[name_m]Mortimer[/name_m]
[name_m]Nestor[/name_m]
[name_m]Roland[/name_m]
Or more antique and unfamiliar:
[name_m]Algernon[/name_m]
[name_m]Aloysius[/name_m]
[name_m]Alric[/name_m]
[name_m]Arvid[/name_m]
[name_m]Basil[/name_m]
[name_m]Bertrand[/name_m]
[name_u]Blaise[/name_u]
[name_m]Clovis[/name_m]
[name_m]Conrad[/name_m]
[name_m]Franz[/name_m]
[name_u]Garnett[/name_u]
[name_m]Giles[/name_m]
[name_m]Gregor[/name_m]
[name_u]Larkin[/name_u]
[name_m]Leopold[/name_m]
[name_m]Lysander[/name_m]
[name_m]Orlando[/name_m]
[name_m]Orson[/name_m]
[name_m]Raul[/name_m]
[name_m]Stellan[/name_m]
[name_m]Stirling[/name_m]
[name_m]Vance[/name_m]
[name_m]Virgil[/name_m]
Can you give some examples you like?
[name_m]Arthur[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]August[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Asa[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Abel[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Beau[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Casper[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Calvin[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Dexter[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Ellis[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Elliot[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Everett[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Emmett[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Edward[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Edmund[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Francis[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]George[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Henry[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Harry[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Hugo[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Ivan[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Jude[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Judah[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Julian[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Jameson[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Leon[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Lennox[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Lucian[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Luca[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Maxwell[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Maximus[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Malachi[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Milo[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Noel[/name_u] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Oscar[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Reuben[/name_m]/[name_m]Ruben[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Roman[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Stellan[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Silas[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Simon[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Thaddeus[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Victor[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Vincent[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Vaughn[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Winston[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]