[name_m]Hi[/name_m], I’m looking for a gender neutral middle name to go with [name_u]Elm[/name_u]. I sort of like space-themed names, and on my list includes:
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] Solaris
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] Zenith
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]Nova[/name_f]
Any others, or feedback? Thanks. 
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] Solaris and [name_u]Elm[/name_u] Zenith are very cool. I think [name_f]Nova[/name_f] is fairly female coded these days.
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Finlay[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]Pallas[/name_f]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_m]Hesperus[/name_m]/[name_m]Hesperos[/name_m]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Indigo[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Raleigh[/name_u]
Personally I would go for at least one name which had a more gendered connotation, I think a purely neutral name might be hard to wear in society at the moment, but each to their own. I would also warn you that different people have different gendered links, so while I think these all sound pretty unisex it may eb that your child goes out into the world as [name_u]Elm[/name_u] Solaris and you find that loads of people assume [name_u]Elm[/name_u] is a ‘girls’ name or that Solaris is ‘definitely male’ there’s really no telling how people will gender…
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] Solaris is great!
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Zephyr[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Calypso[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_m]Altair[/name_m]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]Juno[/name_f]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Orion[/name_u]
Some non space names
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Adair[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]Cadence[/name_f]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Ridley[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Finley[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Spencer[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Hero[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Jordan[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_m]Bowie[/name_m]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Frankie[/name_u]
Thanks for the suggestions. We already have one child who we do not gender who has a neutral name, and you’re right people assume one thing or another based on their name or what clothing they are going to wear, but it’s pretty 50/50. That’s what we’re aiming for again! We do not want something that screams “boy” or “girl” to most people even though people will make their own assumptions. 
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_m]Apollo[/name_m]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] Orbit
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]Tarragon[/name_f]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]Garland[/name_f]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_m]Jupiter[/name_m]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]Galaxy[/name_f]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Indigo[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]Lux[/name_f]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Ocean[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]October[/name_f]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]Solstice[/name_f]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]North[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Onyx[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Winter[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Arden[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Auden[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Everest[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]Journey[/name_f]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Kyrie[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Larkin[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_f]Lumi[/name_f]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Mercury[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Sailor[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Rio[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Winslow[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Zephyr[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_u]Zion[/name_u]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] [name_m]Wilder[/name_m]
[name_u]Elm[/name_u] Solaris is my favorite! [name_f]Nova[/name_f] in my opinion seems a little too feminine, and I’m not a huge fan of Zenith.