Girl name help, I need a fresh perspective!

So I am in love with the name [name_f]Layla[/name_f] but it is just too popular right now. :frowning: When I had my DS we named him a name that became so popular and I swore I would not do it again. I also have been stuck on the name [name_f]Eliana[/name_f] [name_f]Hope[/name_f] but have been second guessing myself lately. I want it to be different (not common) but not too out there. Middle names I love are [name_u]Shea[/name_u]/[name_f]Hope[/name_f]/[name_f]Jade[/name_f] DS is [name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and we have a common, easy last name… Thank you for humoring me, people in my life are over the name conversation, lol.

Here is my list of first names list, favorites??

[name_f]Alina[/name_f]
[name_f]Alianna[/name_f] nn [name_u]Ali[/name_u]
[name_f]Anya[/name_f]

[name_f]Eliana[/name_f] nn [name_f]Ellie[/name_f] or [name_f]Elle[/name_f]
[name_u]Everly[/name_u]
[name_f]Enya[/name_f]
[name_f]Evelina[/name_f] nn [name_f]Evi[/name_f]

[name_f]Halia[/name_f]

Kailani nn [name_u]Kai[/name_u] or [name_u]Kyle[/name_u]
[name_f]Kyla[/name_f]

[name_f]Lyla[/name_f]
[name_f]Liliana[/name_f]

[name_f]Maya[/name_f]

[name_f]Nahla[/name_f]

Solei
[name_f]Talia[/name_f]

[name_f]Willow[/name_f] nn [name_m]Willy[/name_m]

I love [name_f]Talia[/name_f]! Some of the others are hard to pronounce, like Solei and [name_f]Enya[/name_f], and others are a bit to trendy of my taste, like [name_f]Willow[/name_f] and [name_u]Everly[/name_u]. [name_f]Talia[/name_f] is the best by far!

[name_m]Just[/name_m] keep in mind that even if [name_f]Layla[/name_f] is very popular per the name rankings, it may not be popular in your area.

For instance, my daughter’s name is [name_f]Annika[/name_f] which is in the 400s in the SSA name rankings. BUT, because we live in an area with a large population with [name_m]German[/name_m]/Northern European heritage, I actually know FIVE little Annikas! Ahhh!

I know [name_f]Layla[/name_f] is a top 50 name in the name rankings, but I have 3 (working on the 4th!) kids ages 7 to 2 years and I know only one [name_f]Layla[/name_f].

The point being: If you love the name, use it!

My favorites in order
[name_f]Layla[/name_f] jayde
[name_f]Willow[/name_f] shea
[name_f]Eliana[/name_f] hope.

I definately think if you love the name, use it. You have to say it for the rest of your life and you may or may not meet others!

I really like [name_f]Anya[/name_f], [name_f]Liliana[/name_f] and [name_f]Willow[/name_f] best from your list, but please don’t call a daughter [name_m]Willy[/name_m]. That’s just asking for teasing!

Most of your other names are fine, just not really my style. I would avoid [name_f]Nahla[/name_f], though, because it’s pretty tied to the character in The [name_m]Lion[/name_m] [name_m]King[/name_m]. Is Solei meant to be [name_f]Soleil[/name_f], the [name_m]French[/name_m] word for sun? If you were to spell it that way I think people would find it more recognizable.

Also, I’m so sorry if I offend, but I figured I’d mention it: When I first read [name_f]Halia[/name_f] I immediately thought “halitosis” (the clinical term for bad breath). I don’t know if others would see that but it may be something to consider. Sorry again.

Good luck! :slight_smile:

What about [name_f]Kalila[/name_f]?

Really like [name_f]Alina[/name_f] from your list.

[name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_u]Avery[/name_u]

[name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_u]Delaney[/name_u]

[name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_f]Ella[/name_f]

[name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_f]Lily[/name_f]

[name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_f]Mia[/name_f]

I love [name_f]Alina[/name_f]!

[name_f]Alina[/name_f] [name_f]Hope[/name_f]
[name_f]Evelina[/name_f] [name_f]Hope[/name_f]
[name_f]Nahla[/name_f] [name_f]Jade[/name_f]

From your list I choose
[name_f]Evelina[/name_f] [name_f]Soleil[/name_f]. Surprisingly I have never been into the name [name_f]Soleil[/name_f] but those names together just flow :slight_smile:

My favourites from your list are [name_f]Eliana[/name_f] (lovely meaning), [name_f]Alina[/name_f], [name_u]Everly[/name_u] and [name_f]Willow[/name_f]. A better nickname for [name_f]Willow[/name_f] might be [name_f]Willa[/name_f] although they’re the exact same number of syllables or 'Low.

I don’t know how much the popularity thing is an issue for you, but while a lovely name, I think you need to be aware that while not in the Top 100 right now, [name_f]Eliana[/name_f] is very much an “on trend” name.

After spending several years going into the Top 1000 and out again, between the mid-80s and mid-90s, it entered the Top 1000 again in 1996 (after dropping out of it in 1995, after four years in Top 1000) and has been climbing rapidly ever since.

Its positions from 1996:

1996 - #886
1997 - #782
1998 - #707
1999 - #624
2000 - #537
2001 - #493
2002 - #394
2003 - #346
2004 - #314
2005 - #304
2006 - #278
2007 - #248
2008 - #201
2009 - #192
2010 - #168
2011 - #155
2012 - #145

Although its climb has eased off slightly over the last three years, it does seem on a path to the Top 100 right now.

[name_m]Just[/name_m] wanted to give you a heads up on that.

When I first read you loved [name_f]Layla[/name_f], but were unsure, and then there is [name_f]Eliana[/name_f], but again you are unsure. I immediately thought of [name_f]Lela[/name_f]/[name_f]Leila[/name_f] (pronounced “[name_u]LEE[/name_u]-luh”. [name_f]Lela[/name_f]/[name_f]Leila[/name_f] seems like a combination of [name_f]Layla[/name_f] and [name_f]Eliana[/name_f], maybe it solves your hesitations?

Other Thoughts:

[name_f]Anya[/name_f] and Eyna are interesting, and you would not have to fear the names becoming too popular anytime soon.

Have you considered [name_f]Lyra[/name_f]?

[name_f]Maya[/name_f] and [name_f]Talia[/name_f] could be good options, as well.

[name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_f]Lela[/name_f]
[name_f]Lela[/name_f] [name_u]Shea[/name_u]
[name_f]Lela[/name_f] [name_f]Hope[/name_f]
(I do not think [name_f]Lela[/name_f] [name_f]Jade[/name_f] works as well…)

[name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_f]Anya[/name_f]

[name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_f]Lyra[/name_f]

[name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_f]Maya[/name_f]

[name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_f]Talia[/name_f].

I think, of these, my favorites are [name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_f]Lela[/name_f] [name_f]Hope[/name_f], [name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_f]Maya[/name_f] [name_u]Shea[/name_u], and [name_m]Jackson[/name_m] and [name_f]Lyra[/name_f] [name_f]Hope[/name_f].

Good [name_m]Luck[/name_m]!