I find there’s a dearth of fanciful names that have a gender neutral “feel”. I’ve been obsessively searching to grow my list but keep coming upon the same category of names that feel very modern and almost [name_m]Southern[/name_m] to me (obvious surnames, boy-names-on-girls, etc which just aren’t exciting to me). Where are the names fit for a mischievous sprite, a friendly cryptid, a run-of-the-mill bleeding heart? Does anyone have any gems that fall into this fun niche?
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[name_f]My[/name_f] current list: [name_f]Thomasin[/name_f], [name_m]Vivendel[/name_m], [name_f]Ardith[/name_f], [name_m]Caspian[/name_m], [name_m]Sylvan[/name_m], [name_m]Dorian[/name_m], [name_f]Mischa[/name_f], [name_m]Bellamy[/name_m], [name_m]August[/name_m], [name_m]Prosper[/name_m], [name_m]Kit[/name_m], [name_m]Rhys[/name_m], [name_m]Laurie[/name_m], [name_f]Audrey[/name_f], [name_f]Romilly[/name_f], [name_m]Asa[/name_m], [name_f]Vale[/name_f]
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In the case of [name_m]Bellamy[/name_m], I was tickled to find how many people feel it is too masculine for a girl and too feminine for a boy. That’s exactly how I think of gender neutral names [name_f][/name_f]- a perfect blend where someone wouldn’t automatically assume the wearer’s gender. Of course, this applies to names like [name_m]Alex[/name_m] and [name_m]Morgan[/name_m] too but I’m a sucker for pizazz.
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I’m in love with your list, and with this phrase:
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[name_f][/name_f] andromedabeatrix:
[name_f][/name_f][name_f][/name_f]Where are the names fit for a mischievous sprite, a friendly cryptid, a run-of-the-mill bleeding heart?
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Maybe…
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[name_m]Alyosha[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Floris[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Puck[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Meriwether[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f]Auren [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Wilmot[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Ethelwyn[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Luciel[/name_f] / [name_f]Ciel[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Averil[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Artemis[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Katriel[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Alician[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Hester[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Cleo[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Seneca[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Estel[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Cleanth[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Nikola[/name_m] / [name_m]Nicol[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Mattia[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Augustine[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Mariglen[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Winifred[/name_f] / [name_f]Winfred[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Peregrine[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Louka[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Felician[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Arliss[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Lydian[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Merle[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Ilya[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Georgie[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Gwynedd[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Sheridan[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Loren[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Matisse[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Lind[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Ruthven[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Rosen[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Elwyn[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Rosario[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Alva[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Merrigan[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Elisha[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Vanya[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Hyacinth[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Irinel[/name_m]
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I do think of some of the names on your list as strictly gendered (Thomasin is a girl name, [name_m]Rhys[/name_m] a boy name, etc.) so I’m also going to make a few strictly gendered suggestions if they fit the vibe you seem to be going for, I hope that’s okay! But still most of these are unisex:
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[name_f]Elya[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Lavender[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Sidney[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Valentine[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Vyvyan[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Georgie[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Solaris[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Oleander[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Florian[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Noé[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Lucien[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Sascha[/name_m] / [name_f]Sasha[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Jem[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Flick[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Frankie[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f]Cléanthe [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Amaranth[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Jules[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Valya[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Nikola[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Endellion[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Louie[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Yves[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Marian[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Marin[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f]Élisée [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Camille[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Claude[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Louison[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Angel[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Teddy[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Beck[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Emile[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Honor[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]January[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Ollie[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Charlie[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Cassian[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Wynn[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Bryn[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Rafa[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Rosario[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Sanya[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Toma[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Percy[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Matija[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Ilia[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Elian[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f]Liliom [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Mika[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Vieno[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Faraday[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Ira[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Manu[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Olivet[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Loren[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Rune[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Azul[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Azure[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Paz[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Lux[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Andrea[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Reyes[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Darcy[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Dove[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Cove[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Harvest[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Mio[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Mino[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Serafim[/name_m] & [name_m]Serafin[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]True[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Izzy[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Bernie[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Briar[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Sage[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Ever[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Alder[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Aster[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Easter[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Halle[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Belisent[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Fennel[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Yarrow[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f]Agatho [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Blythe[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Corliss[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Evren[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Linden[/name_m]
[name_m]Irinel[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Sosa[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Philomel[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f]Saibh [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Melisande[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Dagmar[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Apollo[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Olin[/name_m]
Ooh, fun niche
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Maybe…
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[name_m]Peregrine[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Meridian[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f]Neirin or Nerin [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Hero[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Aubrey[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Ziggy[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Adair[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Aven[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Sequoia[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Solace[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Zennor[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Laramie[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Lazuli[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Kosma[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Rosario[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Solaris[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Averill[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Lowen[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Aderyn[/name_f] / [name_f]Deryn[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Mazni[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Acton[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f]Severn [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Verve[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Lyndall[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Tamlin[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Laurien[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Iggy[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Solaire[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Somerset[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Averick[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Llewellyn[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Tierney[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Sophio[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Menai[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Kiffin[/name_m] / [name_m]Kyffin[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Lenya[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Tully[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Waverley[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Samsa[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Salish[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Pasha[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Sulwyn[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Marinell[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Somerset[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Leni[/name_f]
I’m loving Floris, Luciel, Katriel, Rosen, and Alician! They all have a blend of traditionally feminine and traditionally masculine sounds without feeling “made up”. They feel solid and historic without being heavily associated with anyone in particular - you really understood what I was going for!
Russian diminutives seem to have a certain romantic flair in general. Alyosha and Vanya were both characters in a series I read last year and each use of their respective nicknames felt tinged with magic.
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I’m so glad you like them! “Gender-neutral yet non-modern feeling” is definitely one of my favourite name categories, so this was a fun exercise.
Less gender coded names with some pizazz (hopefully!) for you: [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Persimmon[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Celandine[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Melilot[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Bramwell[/name_m], Bramley [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Lydian[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Tavi[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Vetiver[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Mirabeau[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Elouan[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Polaris[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Arcturus[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Rasalas[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Rook[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Josian[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Jemmett[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Frey[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f]Mayes [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Cymbeline[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Bensiabel[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Idris[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Seren[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Dagney[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f][name_m]Rivers[/name_m] [name_f][/name_f][name_f]Sommers[/name_f], [name_f]Summers[/name_f], Somerby
[name_f]Philomel[/name_f] and [name_f]Melisande[/name_f] are perfect! [name_f]Philomena[/name_f] is one of my favorite girl names but that “-mel” ending brings the mellifluous back down to earth.
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Honestly I only just discovered [name_f]Philomel[/name_f] and I’m in love!