Has anyone here ever loved a name but not felt like you could be ______'s mom?

Have you ever liked a name but not felt like that name would make sense on a [name_u]Christmas[/name_u] card next to yours? Or if you said this is my daughter __________ people would be like “no… It’s not.”

Example-
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u]

I hope this question makes sense! I put it in the boys too! [name_m]Just[/name_m] wondering how someone combats that or what have you.